Last week I was at my boyfriends house using his laptop. I was gonna go to a certain website, but once i typed in a key a pornsite popped up in his recent URL links. I clicked on the link to see what it was about and it said 'welcome back __username__' He came in the room and I asked him about it. He said '' oh, that was since before we were together'' then left the room. Keep in mind, I don't care if he looks at porn, he's a guy. Normally I'd blow it off but my gut was telling me to look further. Then I saw he had a profile with pictures of him on it (not clothed...i'll leave it at that). I got mad then looked at the sign up date;this past March. We started dating in November 2008. I closed the laptop got my stuff and stormed out the door where he was mowing the lawn. I yelled at him what I just saw and just caught him lying.
He said he was really sorry he lied he panicked. I drove away anyway.
I told him we were done before I left. I'm not an idiot, I don't take liars. Since then he's been texting and leaving messages saying how sorry he was he really messed up, he feels horrible about it, etc. He sent me flowers, letters explaining he wasn't thinking, he deleted that account, etc. He says he wants to earn my trust again. I saw it in his teary eyes he was truly sorry, but doesn't change the fact he did it, then lied about it.
I feel like I've been cheated on. I never, ever, put up with that drama. True he didn't make out or do anything with other girls, but he posted his junk online for other girls to see...while he was with me.
He wants me to take him back... I really want to. He's made me so much happier than all my other boyfriends. I'm 23, he's 18... I'm in NO WAY excusing his age, but he's still a man going behind my back.
I consider myself a strong girl, I do not take crap... but he was really the first guy I truly loved and know he feels the same way.
Half my friends say I should stay away, the other half say maybe he's really sorry and let him earn my trust. I'm still in between. I can't look at him the same way again, as much as I want to :(
What do YOU think?Girls (maybe guys) I need some serious boyfriend advice?
give him another chance. put him on probation. if you ever find out that he's been doing another thing like that then end it, but it sounds like you really love him, and ending it now could be a mistake you'll regret. So give him another chance, but let him know that if he ever does it again, you WILL dump his sorry butt.Girls (maybe guys) I need some serious boyfriend advice?
Well, you sound like you really like this guy. If you really, really love him, you'll learn to forgive him and give him another chance. But, if I, (stubborn as I am,) was in your situation, I would refuse to ever speak to him again and delete all his texts.
Hope I Helped, Good Luck!
xox%26lt;3
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Guys: Can I please get some advice? What do you think?
This is hard to say to anyone yet its easy to type it to a complete stranger so i think i might as well. I am 18 years old. I had a best friend. A friend that I had always and will always love. i fell in love with him. he was amazing. he was perfect. he seemed to be the one, and i honestly can say, he probably was. We have known each other for about 12 years, and well about 2 years ago he was taken away from me by a fatal and unexpected car accident. i miss him. I pretend like nothing bothers me, i pretend that i am strong and will get through this. But in the end, i cry at night, alone and afraid. i miss him. i miss loving him. i miss being loved. I can't move on. I refuse to move on. I love him. I don't want to be alone forever but any other person/best friend/friend/guy friend/boyfriend or whatever that i may find will never compare to him. I wont ever love another like i love him and well honestly i believe that love should be equal and opposite but I will never be able to provide that for anyone else. whenever any one asks me out now a days i lie, i say im taken. its better than having to explain that im a heartbroken and hurt girl that deals with a lot and doesnt want to have to burden anyone by it. i dont even know what im trying to say anymore. thank you for your time. i would love it if anyone could give me advice, encouragement, perhaps hope.
is it possible for me to be close to someone without hurting them? if yes, please explain. if no, then i wont get close, not again.
Guys: Can I please get some advice? What do you think?
You already know the right answer. Of course you can get close to someone again, don't be stupid.Guys: Can I please get some advice? What do you think?
It is possible to love someone else. You just always have to keep him in your heart and I think that he would want you to move and be happy. Don't be miserable because I'm sure he wouldn't want that for you.
I know it hurts, but you have to give it time to heal...sometimes it takes really long, and it's ok. You're not expected to be ok with it. But don't be afraid to move on once you've healed. He would also want you to be happy you know?
You need professional mental health help. I hope you get it.
My simpathies for your lost! But above all think about it this way would ur best friend want u to be alone? Would he want to see u in pain? It might be very difficult to move on hun but u have to try! Living life with that empty feeling isint really living at all!!! Best advice I could say is to find someone u can talk about those things with, who under stands that u might be distant because of that! And dont try to replace him, instead, try to find someone with some of the same qualities and attitude! Best of luck but these things take time!!! Dont push urself!
is it possible for me to be close to someone without hurting them? if yes, please explain. if no, then i wont get close, not again.
Guys: Can I please get some advice? What do you think?
You already know the right answer. Of course you can get close to someone again, don't be stupid.Guys: Can I please get some advice? What do you think?
It is possible to love someone else. You just always have to keep him in your heart and I think that he would want you to move and be happy. Don't be miserable because I'm sure he wouldn't want that for you.
I know it hurts, but you have to give it time to heal...sometimes it takes really long, and it's ok. You're not expected to be ok with it. But don't be afraid to move on once you've healed. He would also want you to be happy you know?
You need professional mental health help. I hope you get it.
My simpathies for your lost! But above all think about it this way would ur best friend want u to be alone? Would he want to see u in pain? It might be very difficult to move on hun but u have to try! Living life with that empty feeling isint really living at all!!! Best advice I could say is to find someone u can talk about those things with, who under stands that u might be distant because of that! And dont try to replace him, instead, try to find someone with some of the same qualities and attitude! Best of luck but these things take time!!! Dont push urself!
Im Trying to build a Multi Color Deck can you guys give me some advice?
Right now whats in it is
Lands 30
6 Swamp
6 mountains
6 Plains
6 Forest
6 Island
Creatures: 30
2x Kitsune Blademaster
2x Mothrider Samurai
Takeno Samurai General
Nagao Bound by Honor
Devoted Retainer
Terohs Faithful
Centaur Veteran
Forked-Branch garami
Ghost-Lit Nourisher
Lifespinner
Yavimaya Wurm
Soilshaper
Sokenzan Spell Blade
Sokenzan Renegade
Kumano, Master Yamabushi
Big Game Hunter
Carrion Wurm
Cruel Deciever
Ghost-Lit Stalker
Laquatus's Chamion
Blightspeaker
Highway Robber
Kemuri-Onna
Hand of Cruelty
Chameleon Spirit
Sea Monster
Sage Owl
Merchant of Secrets
Wind Drake
Instants:15
Unsummon
Tribal unity
Pay no Heed
Lightning Blast
Dark Banishing
Flaming Gambit
Awe Strike
barrel down Sokenzan
Call to Glory
Counterspell
Heat Ray
Flash Counter
Akroma's Blessing
Sandstorm
Storm Seeker
Sorcery's:11
Spitting Earth
Zombify
Angelic Blessing
Morgue Theft
Lava Axe
Blaze
Ignite Memories
Volcanic Hammer
Spiraling Embers
Vicious Hunger
Torrent of FireIm Trying to build a Multi Color Deck can you guys give me some advice?
I'm not that familiar with the newer cards, but generally, I'd say cut your deck down to 60 cards (the minimum for tournament play). The fewer cards in your deck, the less your chance of getting manascrewed.
In a five-color deck, you generally need some gimmick to get you the colors you need. I notice you use all basic land - is there a reason not to use land that can provide more than one color of mana?
Like I said, I don't know the current sets, but there are usually some creatures or artifacts that you can tap for mana of any color, or at least that you can pay mana of any color and change it to mana of another color. These kind of tricks will help you speed up your deck and avoid being colorscrewed.Im Trying to build a Multi Color Deck can you guys give me some advice?
5 colors is extremely ungainly. Easiest/cheapest get around would be to get 4 Celestial Dawns, and play primary plains if your stoic against dual lands and things like Birds of Paradise and Gem Slivers.
Lands 30
6 Swamp
6 mountains
6 Plains
6 Forest
6 Island
Creatures: 30
2x Kitsune Blademaster
2x Mothrider Samurai
Takeno Samurai General
Nagao Bound by Honor
Devoted Retainer
Terohs Faithful
Centaur Veteran
Forked-Branch garami
Ghost-Lit Nourisher
Lifespinner
Yavimaya Wurm
Soilshaper
Sokenzan Spell Blade
Sokenzan Renegade
Kumano, Master Yamabushi
Big Game Hunter
Carrion Wurm
Cruel Deciever
Ghost-Lit Stalker
Laquatus's Chamion
Blightspeaker
Highway Robber
Kemuri-Onna
Hand of Cruelty
Chameleon Spirit
Sea Monster
Sage Owl
Merchant of Secrets
Wind Drake
Instants:15
Unsummon
Tribal unity
Pay no Heed
Lightning Blast
Dark Banishing
Flaming Gambit
Awe Strike
barrel down Sokenzan
Call to Glory
Counterspell
Heat Ray
Flash Counter
Akroma's Blessing
Sandstorm
Storm Seeker
Sorcery's:11
Spitting Earth
Zombify
Angelic Blessing
Morgue Theft
Lava Axe
Blaze
Ignite Memories
Volcanic Hammer
Spiraling Embers
Vicious Hunger
Torrent of FireIm Trying to build a Multi Color Deck can you guys give me some advice?
I'm not that familiar with the newer cards, but generally, I'd say cut your deck down to 60 cards (the minimum for tournament play). The fewer cards in your deck, the less your chance of getting manascrewed.
In a five-color deck, you generally need some gimmick to get you the colors you need. I notice you use all basic land - is there a reason not to use land that can provide more than one color of mana?
Like I said, I don't know the current sets, but there are usually some creatures or artifacts that you can tap for mana of any color, or at least that you can pay mana of any color and change it to mana of another color. These kind of tricks will help you speed up your deck and avoid being colorscrewed.Im Trying to build a Multi Color Deck can you guys give me some advice?
5 colors is extremely ungainly. Easiest/cheapest get around would be to get 4 Celestial Dawns, and play primary plains if your stoic against dual lands and things like Birds of Paradise and Gem Slivers.
I cannot choose between 3 guys plz help I need advice?
There names are Derek Adam and Trace ...Derek is a sweetie Adam is a long time crush and Trace is a long lost ';guy friend'; but plz helpI cannot choose between 3 guys plz help I need advice?
Well for starters which one is actually interested in you? Once you have that covered, then decide why you actually like these guys. Neither of them must be anything spectacular if you are having such a difficult time deciding. I personally would pick the one you think will be loyal, trustworthy and will treat you the best. I think you need to slow it down and decide for the right reasons. Dont be greedy...one of them has to stand out above the others, I am certain they are all not perfect. Just go with you're instinct, you have to click with one of them more then the other.I cannot choose between 3 guys plz help I need advice?
Omg I'm 15 and these three guys want to get into a relationship with me! What ever should I do?! These relationships will obviously last way longer than a week this is really important to me!
My advice: Whichever one you like the most, don't go out with him! You and anybody you date in high school (maybe middle school?) will hate each other until the end of time.
My 2nd piece of advice: Don't listen to hejhs.
is trace a girl? i'd go with ahhh adam
try out all three and if you really can't make up your mind then tell them that you don't want a monagomous relationship. Why get tied down to just one bloke!
Pick one!
Make an assessment : Voice up their names and on which you'll feel kind of happy, that's the boy!!!
Trust your witts, girl!
Ciao........John-John.
That's sad on so many levels. You're pretending to be a player now. Ask yourself this question, does that make you a slut? Hooking in three guys and choosing one in the end is horrible. It gives women a bad image because of people like you.
Why cant you date all three of them? Try your heart out with Trace. He has history with you.
Why should you have to choose? Date all three. No one says you have to be monogamous at this point and time. Have fun. If either of them object to you not wanting to be serious just yet...eliminate that one...or two. PROBLEM SOLVED! If you want to be special with just one, then let your heart and instincts be your guide.
i would go wit derek causse sweetie always last but if they had gurlfriends be4 how did they treat them and find out y they broke up and may b easy 2 figure out which 1 u want 2 go wit. but hey its not us that has 2 go wit them its u so u have 2 make that choose
hope that helps
k.p.
Forget about the 3 of them. Now, its time to move on... Find someone else.
thats hard 4 me 2 answer !!! i guess id go with derek or adam
derek
how do u have 3 guys to choose from, you cant like all 3, if u want to chosse, chose the one with the biggest dick
pick the one that is always on your mind, but choose fast, cause guys hate to wait
who is the cutest!?!!!!
Go out with the one that makes you happy and treats you the way you like to be treated.
Well for starters which one is actually interested in you? Once you have that covered, then decide why you actually like these guys. Neither of them must be anything spectacular if you are having such a difficult time deciding. I personally would pick the one you think will be loyal, trustworthy and will treat you the best. I think you need to slow it down and decide for the right reasons. Dont be greedy...one of them has to stand out above the others, I am certain they are all not perfect. Just go with you're instinct, you have to click with one of them more then the other.I cannot choose between 3 guys plz help I need advice?
Omg I'm 15 and these three guys want to get into a relationship with me! What ever should I do?! These relationships will obviously last way longer than a week this is really important to me!
My advice: Whichever one you like the most, don't go out with him! You and anybody you date in high school (maybe middle school?) will hate each other until the end of time.
My 2nd piece of advice: Don't listen to hejhs.
is trace a girl? i'd go with ahhh adam
try out all three and if you really can't make up your mind then tell them that you don't want a monagomous relationship. Why get tied down to just one bloke!
Pick one!
Make an assessment : Voice up their names and on which you'll feel kind of happy, that's the boy!!!
Trust your witts, girl!
Ciao........John-John.
That's sad on so many levels. You're pretending to be a player now. Ask yourself this question, does that make you a slut? Hooking in three guys and choosing one in the end is horrible. It gives women a bad image because of people like you.
Why cant you date all three of them? Try your heart out with Trace. He has history with you.
Why should you have to choose? Date all three. No one says you have to be monogamous at this point and time. Have fun. If either of them object to you not wanting to be serious just yet...eliminate that one...or two. PROBLEM SOLVED! If you want to be special with just one, then let your heart and instincts be your guide.
i would go wit derek causse sweetie always last but if they had gurlfriends be4 how did they treat them and find out y they broke up and may b easy 2 figure out which 1 u want 2 go wit. but hey its not us that has 2 go wit them its u so u have 2 make that choose
hope that helps
k.p.
Forget about the 3 of them. Now, its time to move on... Find someone else.
thats hard 4 me 2 answer !!! i guess id go with derek or adam
derek
how do u have 3 guys to choose from, you cant like all 3, if u want to chosse, chose the one with the biggest dick
pick the one that is always on your mind, but choose fast, cause guys hate to wait
who is the cutest!?!!!!
Go out with the one that makes you happy and treats you the way you like to be treated.
I need help; i think i'm in love with 2 guys... i need wise advice..?
well, i've been dating this guy for almost a year and i'm sure that i'm in love with him. but a couple of months ago, i went to this party and met a really cute, smart, family-oriented guy and i gave him my number because i figured ''hey, i'm still young and i'm not married yet'' and went on a couple of dates with him and now i'm falling for him. even when i'm with my boyfriend, i end up thinking about the other one.. please, i'm really looking for good advice, because everybody else just doesn't know what to say... what should i do?I need help; i think i'm in love with 2 guys... i need wise advice..?
Just be honest with your boyfriend and tell him that you are not ready for a serious relationship. But do not tell him that you want to see the other guy.
Tell your bf that you just want to be single for awhile and actually get to know yourself better because you still do not know what you want in life. Hope that's helpful.I need help; i think i'm in love with 2 guys... i need wise advice..?
Make a list of all the good/bad/whatever things about each one and then make up your mind about who meets your needs and everything else better.
If you have a boy Friend you should not be dating If you want to date because hay your not married yet you should then breakup with said boyfriend and pursue dating.Now what you must do is breakup with boyfriend No 1.Don't be in such a hurry to call boyfriend NO2 you boyfriend,Just date him.You must maintain self respect and discipline.And please you do not love either of these young men.Love is when you don't want to do such things as go out on your boyfriend.
You need to take a big step back and think hey which ones the one for me and think about why you were dating this guy even thought you were in a relationship. I think you should just take a break and think about whats important to you and whos gonna give you what you need.
Go with the one that makes you feel happier.ink cartridge
Just be honest with your boyfriend and tell him that you are not ready for a serious relationship. But do not tell him that you want to see the other guy.
Tell your bf that you just want to be single for awhile and actually get to know yourself better because you still do not know what you want in life. Hope that's helpful.I need help; i think i'm in love with 2 guys... i need wise advice..?
Make a list of all the good/bad/whatever things about each one and then make up your mind about who meets your needs and everything else better.
If you have a boy Friend you should not be dating If you want to date because hay your not married yet you should then breakup with said boyfriend and pursue dating.Now what you must do is breakup with boyfriend No 1.Don't be in such a hurry to call boyfriend NO2 you boyfriend,Just date him.You must maintain self respect and discipline.And please you do not love either of these young men.Love is when you don't want to do such things as go out on your boyfriend.
You need to take a big step back and think hey which ones the one for me and think about why you were dating this guy even thought you were in a relationship. I think you should just take a break and think about whats important to you and whos gonna give you what you need.
Go with the one that makes you feel happier.
Ima guy who needs advice from women im kinda frigid what are the sign if a girl likes you?
No jokes please this is a serious site, girls won't like you.
I need good advice from girls and guys? help help!!?
i have a friend who use date this guy but they have broke up about a year ago and she is still in love with him she cannot move on with her life. She says that she is always thinking about him. There isn't a reason why they broke up the guy just say that he wanted space and that was it. What do you think she should do?I need good advice from girls and guys? help help!!?
spend as much time as possible with her, make her feel better, i have been in both possistions and i dont know which one is worse. maybe talk to him about getting back together with her, or find someone new for her. if he dosent want her back, distract her from him. when she says stuff like ';i cant stop thinking about him'; change the subject, tell her she can do better. tell her if he is going to make her feel this way he isnt worth her time.
send your friend my regards.I need good advice from girls and guys? help help!!?
A new love interest would take her mind off the other guy.
spend as much time as possible with her, make her feel better, i have been in both possistions and i dont know which one is worse. maybe talk to him about getting back together with her, or find someone new for her. if he dosent want her back, distract her from him. when she says stuff like ';i cant stop thinking about him'; change the subject, tell her she can do better. tell her if he is going to make her feel this way he isnt worth her time.
send your friend my regards.I need good advice from girls and guys? help help!!?
A new love interest would take her mind off the other guy.
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