okay so i have liked this boy for a while now, but lately i like him alot more than ever.
we never talk nemore. and when we did it was over the summer and it was only when he asked my friend for my #, texted me once (short convo) and when we hung out once. and when we sat by each other at the movies for like 20 minutes. well, last weekend we went to the same party together and we talked like a total of 5 minutes, and afterwards all the girls were talking about how he's so cute but a player. and when we hung out my friend kept telling him to put his arm around me, so it was really awkward:/
but i have no classes with him and never see him except like once passing through the halls at school.
what should i do. . .forget about him? or try and go after it?
and p.s. when we did hang out he was laughing at like all my jokes. . .
p.p.s. i'm not the most popular girl but hes not the most popular guy, but he's super cute, and i'm popular and i'm not bragging but im not ugly.I need advice. . .mostly answers from guys please. long story, sorry.?
just try and hang out with him more and talk more and see where that goesI need advice. . .mostly answers from guys please. long story, sorry.?
you should try to hang out with him more and get a feel of if he likes you or not. try what u think is going to work
um i think that u should keep hanging out with him and txtin him and maybe ask him out or wait until he asks u out
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need advice with about two guys!?
I need your help/advice/opinion!!?
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I go to the gym and their is this trainer that works their. He is really cute and he seem super nice and down to earth. Well I caught him looking at me a couple of times, and I am not sure if he is interested in me? We don't talk, I am shy to cause what if he isn't and I make a fool of myself? And my heart isn't up for that anymore. Also their is this other guy their that looks at me and this time I know my mind isn't playing ticks on me cause me and him make eye contact here and then, with the first guy we also made eye contact but yet I am just not sure if both of them are or I don't know. WHat do you guys think? or is it just me?
Jul 9, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Oh I forgot to say that one time when I was entering the gym he was sitting down and having a conversation with one of his customers. And I saw him looking (glance) and then look at me again and you could tell he got side tracked with their conversation. Also when he was traning someone on the tredmill, which I was working out on a tredmill too I got off and went to sit down at the computers and he was looking at me and I looked at him that happend a couple of times, then I was leaving to gopick up my little brother from the gym daycare and he was walking up stairs with the person he was trianing and when they came to the place they need to go he was wating for her to get ready and well so he looked down at me! i am so confused!I need advice with about two guys!?
He is interested make a move!!!!
Additional Details
I go to the gym and their is this trainer that works their. He is really cute and he seem super nice and down to earth. Well I caught him looking at me a couple of times, and I am not sure if he is interested in me? We don't talk, I am shy to cause what if he isn't and I make a fool of myself? And my heart isn't up for that anymore. Also their is this other guy their that looks at me and this time I know my mind isn't playing ticks on me cause me and him make eye contact here and then, with the first guy we also made eye contact but yet I am just not sure if both of them are or I don't know. WHat do you guys think? or is it just me?
Jul 9, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Oh I forgot to say that one time when I was entering the gym he was sitting down and having a conversation with one of his customers. And I saw him looking (glance) and then look at me again and you could tell he got side tracked with their conversation. Also when he was traning someone on the tredmill, which I was working out on a tredmill too I got off and went to sit down at the computers and he was looking at me and I looked at him that happend a couple of times, then I was leaving to gopick up my little brother from the gym daycare and he was walking up stairs with the person he was trianing and when they came to the place they need to go he was wating for her to get ready and well so he looked down at me! i am so confused!I need advice with about two guys!?
He is interested make a move!!!!
Help! Boyfreind Advice please! Girls and guys answer please.?
hey everyone. ive been with my boyfriend for about three months. Evrythings kind of ok apart from a few things.... I find myself being really shy around around him, and this has never happened before with other guys I guess its because I like him so much.... Find myself not saying things I should say and carrying on the conversation etc and it annoys me cus this has never happened before and I'm worried about wha he's goin 2 think! Another thing is that he's not very affectionate, other bf's I've had in the past have always kissed/hugged when saying hello and goodbye.... I dont get anything at the moment, Maybe I should iniate it first but like I said I get shy around him. Is a kiss hello/goodbye too much 2 ask? Once again the shyness has come into it because the sex is a little boring, and I know maybe i should take the lead a little more but once again shyness!!! I dont wan2 split up wid him cuz i know the probs mainly on my side, wha u guys think?Help! Boyfreind Advice please! Girls and guys answer please.?
So why are you so uncomfortable around him after 3 months. If your shyness is this extreme how did you even say a word to him before you two started dating?
Anyways, the best way to approach this is by you two sitting down and speaking about your grievances. A simple talk and bringing up topics you feel are hard will go a long way in furthering your relationship. You should let out how you feel and try to see how he responds. Hopefully this helps.skin care cosmetics
So why are you so uncomfortable around him after 3 months. If your shyness is this extreme how did you even say a word to him before you two started dating?
Anyways, the best way to approach this is by you two sitting down and speaking about your grievances. A simple talk and bringing up topics you feel are hard will go a long way in furthering your relationship. You should let out how you feel and try to see how he responds. Hopefully this helps.
Seriously need advice from girls and guys!?
So I dated this guy three years ago, and it was a short relationship. But he never got over it. He still says he is in love with me and even refuses to date again. He always gets me romantic gifts for my birthday and Christmas and writes me love letters. We're both now in grade 12, and I know he's going to ask me to prom, and soon. I really don't want to go with him, but no one else has asked me so I can't tell him I already have a date. He's in my circle of friends even though we don't talk much anymore. How do I say no without being too mean and still make him realize its over!!!?????Seriously need advice from girls and guys!?
Find another female friend that is going to the dance too. You two make a pact that you will go together and then when he asks just tell him that you girls already said you were going to go together. Trust me I went to my prom with a friend and we had a blast not worrying about all the awkward tension that comes with having a date. We just had a real good time!
Find another female friend that is going to the dance too. You two make a pact that you will go together and then when he asks just tell him that you girls already said you were going to go together. Trust me I went to my prom with a friend and we had a blast not worrying about all the awkward tension that comes with having a date. We just had a real good time!
Need some advice from girls or guys!! on an anniversary gift!?
I'm 18 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Well In November it'll be 2 years. We're really serious about our relationship. I don't know what to get for him for our anniversary. He's a big Sports fan but I don't want to get him something that has to do with basketball because afterall, this isn't a christmas or birthday gift. Last year for our 1 year I got hima north face jacket and sweed in happy 1 year etc but this year, I want something new. Can anyone give me SERIOUS advice on what to give him? If you're going to say sex or something stupid please don't bother answering! Also, I dont want to give him what I've given him already. I've given him, a fleece blanket with our picture on it, a north face, shoes, polos, oragami hearts i made. PLEASE I NEED HELP! i love this guy a lot!
thankssss!Need some advice from girls or guys!! on an anniversary gift!?
how about front row tickets to his favorite team.
new watch
new wallet
something for his vehicle
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thankssss!Need some advice from girls or guys!! on an anniversary gift!?
how about front row tickets to his favorite team.
new watch
new wallet
something for his vehicle
Collogne (axe, old spice, Stentson, tag)
I need advice from Everyone especially Guys!!!!?
Thank you all for reading this I just need help with something, its not serious but it is very important to me cause im terrible at this stuff. I am 20 and by boyfriend will be 21 in about a month. we wont have a big bash simply because we do not have many friends ( we are busy people and focused on school) but I still want to do something special for him. The day after his birthday is my brothers wedding so it kinda messed things up but we can still celebrate his B-day some other day. THE QUESTION IS WHAt SHOuld I DO AND WHAT SHOULD I GET HIM?? I don't have a lot of money but I can spend about 150 dollars on him. I need help what shoud I do? take him out to dinner? what should i get him? I really suck at all this crap but I am determined to make him feel specialI need advice from Everyone especially Guys!!!!?
just give him your time or extra time on his b-day,give him a little kiss and say how important he is to you.
spend the day together..and give him a kiss again.
F.Y.I. - kiss is very intimate than sex.I need advice from Everyone especially Guys!!!!?
well it all depends where you live
if you live in a city take him to a concert or a simple movie date.ask him wat movie he would like to watch
or you can call all your friends and tell them to meet you up at
a restaurant or at the movies and all go together and celebrate.
and if you live out of the city have cute picnik
on an all day alone jst you to.
im sure w/e you pick he love because you picked it the
person he loves the most.
well hoped i helped.
i know that love is not on money, as a girl you have to give him real love by simple romance and in so doing this he will get mad over you, it happens to me and i still love her. dont show him that you have, is his responsibility to do for you ok
Cook a good meal at home with wine and spend the rest of the money on some sexy lingerie. I am sure he would appreciate it, especially if you are cooking wearing the lingerie and an apron (and high heel!)
Get him a watch. Its jewelry for MEN. And like hang out like in a car or somewhere private. You don't have to have sex. Just cuddle.
TE has you covered
It's too bad your not 21, that way you could take him out for a drink (not get him drunk, obviously). As for a gift, that certainly is a lot of money to spend on one person, so I can only say use it all on something. Is there a video game he wants? Or maybe a delux set of head phones. Something like that. Even gift cards are nice, like a $50.00 card to iTUNES or Best Buy.
just give him your time or extra time on his b-day,give him a little kiss and say how important he is to you.
spend the day together..and give him a kiss again.
F.Y.I. - kiss is very intimate than sex.I need advice from Everyone especially Guys!!!!?
well it all depends where you live
if you live in a city take him to a concert or a simple movie date.ask him wat movie he would like to watch
or you can call all your friends and tell them to meet you up at
a restaurant or at the movies and all go together and celebrate.
and if you live out of the city have cute picnik
on an all day alone jst you to.
im sure w/e you pick he love because you picked it the
person he loves the most.
well hoped i helped.
i know that love is not on money, as a girl you have to give him real love by simple romance and in so doing this he will get mad over you, it happens to me and i still love her. dont show him that you have, is his responsibility to do for you ok
Cook a good meal at home with wine and spend the rest of the money on some sexy lingerie. I am sure he would appreciate it, especially if you are cooking wearing the lingerie and an apron (and high heel!)
Get him a watch. Its jewelry for MEN. And like hang out like in a car or somewhere private. You don't have to have sex. Just cuddle.
TE has you covered
It's too bad your not 21, that way you could take him out for a drink (not get him drunk, obviously). As for a gift, that certainly is a lot of money to spend on one person, so I can only say use it all on something. Is there a video game he wants? Or maybe a delux set of head phones. Something like that. Even gift cards are nice, like a $50.00 card to iTUNES or Best Buy.
Just some advice if you could guys?
Hi Everyone, thanks for reading....would really apreciate anyone who has been thro the same or thought they were!!
Okay so i had a lil girl four months ago, i had a normal delivery, and i didnt breastfeed. I am not on the pill and i will never go back on the pill after what it did to my body and how long it took me to get pregnant and had a miscarrage the first time. So we dont use any contraceptive at the moment. And we have had unprotected sex a few times!!
Its not that i don;t want another baby i would love another one and i wud be over the moon if i was again. I got my period six wks after baby was born and last almost full 7 days and havent had period since......i tok one of those digital preg tests today and negative....wot u's think guys?///
ThanksJust some advice if you could guys?
Ok that was kind of all over the place there. Im not sure which part of the story you wanted people to focus on, but if your question is.... Could you be prego?
I would say no. You've stopped taking the birth control, so your periods are no longer regulated. But that doesn't mean you are prego.
If your question is...
Is there something wrong with not having a period in 2 months?
I would say not really if youve stopped taking the pill so ';all of a sudden'; like that.
I would look more info up on webmd.com.Just some advice if you could guys?
You could be under stress due to the baby and all. It could be just your hormones acting up.
But if your worried...get checked out by a doc.
they can do a blood test and see what's going on with ya.
Good luck and have fun with the little one..
Simply sit back and wait!By the way have you never heard of condoms, sex is a two way street you know,Both you and your partner of the moment are equally responsible.
Your best choice is to go take a blood test to see if you are pregnant again or not. Sometimes home pregnancy tests are not accurate right after a short time of giving birth. :)
Yea I would wait. All the stuff your body has been threw might make it - when its +. Though don't get your hopes up...
what exactly is your question?
i would wait a couple more weeks and get another test. see what happens
i would def wait a little longer to test
Okay so i had a lil girl four months ago, i had a normal delivery, and i didnt breastfeed. I am not on the pill and i will never go back on the pill after what it did to my body and how long it took me to get pregnant and had a miscarrage the first time. So we dont use any contraceptive at the moment. And we have had unprotected sex a few times!!
Its not that i don;t want another baby i would love another one and i wud be over the moon if i was again. I got my period six wks after baby was born and last almost full 7 days and havent had period since......i tok one of those digital preg tests today and negative....wot u's think guys?///
ThanksJust some advice if you could guys?
Ok that was kind of all over the place there. Im not sure which part of the story you wanted people to focus on, but if your question is.... Could you be prego?
I would say no. You've stopped taking the birth control, so your periods are no longer regulated. But that doesn't mean you are prego.
If your question is...
Is there something wrong with not having a period in 2 months?
I would say not really if youve stopped taking the pill so ';all of a sudden'; like that.
I would look more info up on webmd.com.Just some advice if you could guys?
You could be under stress due to the baby and all. It could be just your hormones acting up.
But if your worried...get checked out by a doc.
they can do a blood test and see what's going on with ya.
Good luck and have fun with the little one..
Simply sit back and wait!By the way have you never heard of condoms, sex is a two way street you know,Both you and your partner of the moment are equally responsible.
Your best choice is to go take a blood test to see if you are pregnant again or not. Sometimes home pregnancy tests are not accurate right after a short time of giving birth. :)
Yea I would wait. All the stuff your body has been threw might make it - when its +. Though don't get your hopes up...
what exactly is your question?
i would wait a couple more weeks and get another test. see what happens
i would def wait a little longer to test
Advice please why are guys so complicated what is going on?
I was out of town so Sunday he calls me and says how he misses me and cares a lot about me and all that stuff. I really don't feel too strongly for him yet b/c we have only been on four dates. What he said kind of weirded me out b/c I think it's too soon to feel strongly for someone in such a short time, but that's not the point. So I call him on Monday and he called me back a couple of hours later, but I missed his call so I called him back and then he didn't call me back until today around 3:00 PM. I called him back and no it's 7:30 PM and he still didn't call back. So wtf? If he meant what he said Sunday do you think he would be acting like this?Advice please why are guys so complicated what is going on?
it can be seen that the guy isnt havent much options ,u are the only one,so he wants u in his life,,,,,if you dont feel attraction for him then stop going out with him.
it can be seen that the guy isnt havent much options ,u are the only one,so he wants u in his life,,,,,if you dont feel attraction for him then stop going out with him.
USA party advice for 4 British guys?
Hey everyone, myself and 3 other guys are heading to the states for a couple of months late spring/early summer. We are all 23 and from Britain and are looking to party as much as we can.
Where are the best places to go where we can meet loads of young people and party? How do we find house parties to crash? haha
Plus what do you american girls think of British guys....like as a stereotype?
Thanks alotUSA party advice for 4 British guys?
I'm Sudanese, but I grew up in Wales and I go to college in America, and many girls think my Welsh accent is cool, I guess they are bored of the guys they meet all the time, so if you have a European or Oceania accent you pretty have an advantage. I think Florida is a cool place for young people especially college girls, or you can try Hawaii, but it's more expensive and it more family oriented. As for houses, you can check expedia.com for cheap but comfortable hotels.
Good luckUSA party advice for 4 British guys?
What part of the US are you going to? Lots of good clubs everywhere.
They thing they have cute accents.
Jordan.skin care cosmetics
Where are the best places to go where we can meet loads of young people and party? How do we find house parties to crash? haha
Plus what do you american girls think of British guys....like as a stereotype?
Thanks alotUSA party advice for 4 British guys?
I'm Sudanese, but I grew up in Wales and I go to college in America, and many girls think my Welsh accent is cool, I guess they are bored of the guys they meet all the time, so if you have a European or Oceania accent you pretty have an advantage. I think Florida is a cool place for young people especially college girls, or you can try Hawaii, but it's more expensive and it more family oriented. As for houses, you can check expedia.com for cheap but comfortable hotels.
Good luckUSA party advice for 4 British guys?
What part of the US are you going to? Lots of good clubs everywhere.
They thing they have cute accents.
Jordan.
HELP!I have a huge crush on this one guy and i neep advice on how we can get in a relationship?
I really like this guy so help!We like each other a bunch but we get nervous when we talk to each other and he's coming over for a study date and i heard him say he was going to ask me out and to be his girlfriend and now im super nervous and i need help!please give me advice on what to do.HELP!I have a huge crush on this one guy and i neep advice on how we can get in a relationship?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yu_moia-oVIHELP!I have a huge crush on this one guy and i neep advice on how we can get in a relationship?
ok..
calm down
take deep breathss
first thing you should not gat too excited, it might not be true , and you will feel really disapointed i know by personal experience
when he asks you try to sound like you麓d like to go but not like your desesperate
like for example say : ';sure, i麓d really like to go out with you';
and try to accept his date but not actually set a time and date that way you can talk later again to see whan exacly
hahah xd
and if he asks you to be his girlfriend he is going wayyyy too fast
your not even going out yet!!
well first you need to act like your self and don't change for a guy!
because first if you act fake your hurting him and your self and then you need to say yes and focus on school work but on your friendship to! and last you need to make sure you don't have sex and if you need to to ask your self if this is the right thing to do!
omg i am so excited for you, well just play it cool be flirty but not too flirty, and remmeber you already found out he likes you shouldnt worry about it. look cute and smell great, and really just be yourself. good luck!
answer mine please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081107131946AAAMmEt
RELAX. everything will be fine. there is no reason to be nervous, but just let things fall where they do and it will all be good.
just be your self
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yu_moia-oVIHELP!I have a huge crush on this one guy and i neep advice on how we can get in a relationship?
ok..
calm down
take deep breathss
first thing you should not gat too excited, it might not be true , and you will feel really disapointed i know by personal experience
when he asks you try to sound like you麓d like to go but not like your desesperate
like for example say : ';sure, i麓d really like to go out with you';
and try to accept his date but not actually set a time and date that way you can talk later again to see whan exacly
hahah xd
and if he asks you to be his girlfriend he is going wayyyy too fast
your not even going out yet!!
well first you need to act like your self and don't change for a guy!
because first if you act fake your hurting him and your self and then you need to say yes and focus on school work but on your friendship to! and last you need to make sure you don't have sex and if you need to to ask your self if this is the right thing to do!
omg i am so excited for you, well just play it cool be flirty but not too flirty, and remmeber you already found out he likes you shouldnt worry about it. look cute and smell great, and really just be yourself. good luck!
answer mine please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081107131946AAAMmEt
RELAX. everything will be fine. there is no reason to be nervous, but just let things fall where they do and it will all be good.
just be your self
Advice girls!!! girls and guys what do u think?
Question- does he like me ?
Ok im 13(7th grade) theres this 15 year old boy(9th grade) at my brazilian jui-jitsu class and like its not karate like its more grappling and wrestling and submissions. so hes always talking to me about how much he works out and how ripped he is. And when were practicing he flips me over and tries to make up a move and is on top of me. and he always comes up to me and talks to me alot. Hes really nice. Hes always like acting all nice and polite too me and is like isnt that kewl look what i can do or how im cool or something and he always is partners with me and and im like ok u can get off now hes like oh yeah. Sometimes it seems he cant think of what to say and like u can see it in his face. Hes not like normal guys hes sincere. Sometimes the ways he acts and always showsoff around me (alot all the time) and he playfully jokes and playfully disses me hes always training with me and always wants too. sometimes he goes easy on me even though hes stronger. girls and guys what do u think?Advice girls!!! girls and guys what do u think?
he's definately flirting w/ you, and probably really likes you =]Advice girls!!! girls and guys what do u think?
He likes you :}
he totally likes u! good luck! and have fun!
please help me with my question!: http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
Ok im 13(7th grade) theres this 15 year old boy(9th grade) at my brazilian jui-jitsu class and like its not karate like its more grappling and wrestling and submissions. so hes always talking to me about how much he works out and how ripped he is. And when were practicing he flips me over and tries to make up a move and is on top of me. and he always comes up to me and talks to me alot. Hes really nice. Hes always like acting all nice and polite too me and is like isnt that kewl look what i can do or how im cool or something and he always is partners with me and and im like ok u can get off now hes like oh yeah. Sometimes it seems he cant think of what to say and like u can see it in his face. Hes not like normal guys hes sincere. Sometimes the ways he acts and always showsoff around me (alot all the time) and he playfully jokes and playfully disses me hes always training with me and always wants too. sometimes he goes easy on me even though hes stronger. girls and guys what do u think?Advice girls!!! girls and guys what do u think?
he's definately flirting w/ you, and probably really likes you =]Advice girls!!! girls and guys what do u think?
He likes you :}
he totally likes u! good luck! and have fun!
please help me with my question!: http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
I need advice on this confusing guy...? Especially from guys, since you might understand...? But girls too!?
Alright, so.
I started talking to this guy at my school because I sit next to him in one of my classes. He's really funny, and he jokes a lot, so usually our conversations wouldn't be serious.
So, we talked on myspace and everything for a while, and then eventually he gave me his number and said if I wanted I could text him. So I said alright, gave him mine, and kept with what I said.
So after that we kept talking and texting and whatever.
I liked this guy last year and I had started to like him this school year again, too.
So then my STUPID friend decides to say this to him:
';Hey, you know what? You two would make a cute couple!';
She swears to me she said it in a joking matter, but I don't know about that.
She said that he started blushing and turned away from her and mumbled...';Yeah, but I like someone else.';
So after that we stopped talking so much and not texting.
He would still be funny but it wasn't the same.
Now, he's not responding to my messages on myspace or anything! He reads them but doesn't respond!
So I sent one that said ';Why have you been ignoring me?'; and he read it but never responded.
So today in school he was trying to make me laugh, and I ignored him because he ignored me. He eventually gave up.
If you have any thoughts on the situation, or any advice, PLEASE TELL ME. What should I do???!
Help is greatly appreciated!I need advice on this confusing guy...? Especially from guys, since you might understand...? But girls too!?
He likes you but your reaction probably made him think you weren't interested so he played off the ';I like someone else'; card. If you like him, tell him. Flat out say I like you but you don't have to like me back and things don't need to be weird one way or another.
No reason to waste time being weird or awkward!
I started talking to this guy at my school because I sit next to him in one of my classes. He's really funny, and he jokes a lot, so usually our conversations wouldn't be serious.
So, we talked on myspace and everything for a while, and then eventually he gave me his number and said if I wanted I could text him. So I said alright, gave him mine, and kept with what I said.
So after that we kept talking and texting and whatever.
I liked this guy last year and I had started to like him this school year again, too.
So then my STUPID friend decides to say this to him:
';Hey, you know what? You two would make a cute couple!';
She swears to me she said it in a joking matter, but I don't know about that.
She said that he started blushing and turned away from her and mumbled...';Yeah, but I like someone else.';
So after that we stopped talking so much and not texting.
He would still be funny but it wasn't the same.
Now, he's not responding to my messages on myspace or anything! He reads them but doesn't respond!
So I sent one that said ';Why have you been ignoring me?'; and he read it but never responded.
So today in school he was trying to make me laugh, and I ignored him because he ignored me. He eventually gave up.
If you have any thoughts on the situation, or any advice, PLEASE TELL ME. What should I do???!
Help is greatly appreciated!I need advice on this confusing guy...? Especially from guys, since you might understand...? But girls too!?
He likes you but your reaction probably made him think you weren't interested so he played off the ';I like someone else'; card. If you like him, tell him. Flat out say I like you but you don't have to like me back and things don't need to be weird one way or another.
No reason to waste time being weird or awkward!
All you guys gave me really god advice..but?
im not married,He's a musician and iv'e supported every thing he's ever done. Iv'e tried to spice things up but he's too tired. All he talks about is band, work and the computer. He works full time (in a supermarket) and im a full time student and mother, i also take care of my sick grandma but i make time for him, i buy sexy underwear, i cook him dinner. im very passionate about music, it's why we got together in the first place but that only takes me so far...Help me please.. i love him so much but he makes me feel unfullfilled and unhappy. I cant cry everynight till death do us part.All you guys gave me really god advice..but?
the CAD ...
HOLD UP...if he dont want you i'll be there with bells on. With all jokes aside..
YOU keep house
YOU care for your child
YOU go to uni
YOU care for your sick grandmother
YOU cook everyone dinner
YOU buy sexy laungerie
YOU are passionate about HIS passion
YOU put out for him...without being asked
and he rolls over and goes to sleep ... the CAD
My heart goes out to you sweety for the effort you're putting in. However, it takes two to tango hun and the CAD has to put in the same amount of effort as well and If he truely loves you i'm sure he will. Especially if the other alternative is to pack his bags.
Firstly you need to discuss your true inner feelings with him. Make an appointment with him i.e. ';tomorrow night 9pm we talk';. Then spill your guts to him and tell him how you feel. Secondly, negotiate and compromise i.e. tell him what you want and see what he suggests, or visa versa. But dont leave that conversation without an agreement i.e. He will cook every other day %26amp; you all get jiggy with it every third day, he takes the kid out for ice cream on tuesdays and you all have a family day on sundays where you both alternatively choose the activity.
Hes not coming to the party hun and he needs to understand this and he needs to make the effort also. But firstly you must TELL him how you feel because ...um...us men can't read minds ;)All you guys gave me really god advice..but?
perhaps, you have talked to him. talk to him again and again.
it can be difficult but you have to try.
or, you can accept his faults and go on.
no matter what you decide to do, be patient.
maybe that he has a lower drive than yourself?
while most men would appreciate your efforts (and admire you for them) there are men that can feel threatened by a woman in this way.
tiredness is a sure fire killer of all things, for his own health if nothing else he needs to make some time, hopefully time for you both.
has he other problems, tiredness is a sign of a depressed mind also and can point to a lot of other things, minor health problems that he does not even realise are there.
but, from a male point of view, reading about the effort you are making, i am wondering is he worth this effort, a relationship involves 2 people working together in ALL things.
Please reconsider this relationship, because if music is all that you have in common, it will never be enough. I understand completely what you are saying, because I am in the same boat you are in - except I am about three years ahead of you. Trust me, he will never change for you. I am in the process of ending this mess I am in, for I have read the writing on the wall, and it is not good - for me. He has time for everyone and all his little projects and I am only an afterthought. I know your little heart is breaking, but please think about where you place in his heart. The only thing sadder then saying ';I have been in a dead end relationship for three years'; is ';I have been in a dead end relationship for four years.'; Good luck to you.
From a musician I`ve never seen one that didn`t have time for the opposite sex.Also I don`t care how bad a man looks on stage some how he can get all the women he wants and more.Most working entertainers ,in local bands anyway,as I`ve had a lot of dealings with musicians ,have a very high ego.Music is their life even when they have to do other things that helps make their living.Do you go with him to practices?Do you go to gigs?Do you get involved with him and the music?I know from experience that I love to entertain and when I`m on stage I`m working but I`m also out and parting too. and I don`t mean getting drunk ,just have more fun singing and entertaining then going to a party.Get involved.If he still doesn`t have time for you then you should take a close look at your relation ship.
You sound really like a fine person but the guy is a loser. Time to go on your way and maybe you will find someone who will be much nicer to you. Is the child his? Well, he can support the child and you and the baby can move on.
I blame fairy tales and my own parents short comings when trying to come to terms with my own existence.
'You've got to learn to make your own mistakes.' for example; why?
Blame the media, schools, parents, religion and Government for your unrealistic expectations of existence.
I suggest Couple's Therapy. Or, You could sit down and talk to him. Put your foot down girl, and demand he make time for you. If you cook and clean and do everything, The least he could do if respect you and listen to you. Im a mother too of a beautiful 2 y/o boy and believe me, It's hard. I am married and do everything around the house, (cleaning, cooking and taking care of everyone. ) and it's hard. I wouldn't trade it for nothing though. Just tell him to make time for you and listen. Otherwise, Find someone who will take care of you and help you and listen...I hope this helps....I am no Therapist....Just giving a lil advice.HeHe.
try talking to him about things. let him know how you feel. thats the only best way to fix things. if he loves you aswell he will try to improve himself. good luck, and always remember talking to him about your feelings is the best way to go.
Let him know how you feel is all I can say, bottling it up and not letting him know how you feel will solve no problems. No one can know exactly how you feel unless you tell them.
If he doesn't want to do anything about it then he's probably not the one for you, and you may want to consider moving on as much as it will hurt.
Honestly, he doesn't sound like anything that special, but then again I don't know him, and that's not my place to judge.
tell him to wake up shut up and take you out to dinner more
you sound like a very sweet gf. i wish my gf does something like that for me. anyways about your situation i feel that your doing a lot of struggling yourself. trying spend time with your bf. but the question is does your bf feel the same way? its very hard to fight something like that by yourself, when the battle takes two people. so i think the best way to answer that is to communicate. communication is the key to a relationship. you should talk about about what are your needs. lots of compromising needed in order to have a happy relationship. good luck
the CAD ...
HOLD UP...if he dont want you i'll be there with bells on. With all jokes aside..
YOU keep house
YOU care for your child
YOU go to uni
YOU care for your sick grandmother
YOU cook everyone dinner
YOU buy sexy laungerie
YOU are passionate about HIS passion
YOU put out for him...without being asked
and he rolls over and goes to sleep ... the CAD
My heart goes out to you sweety for the effort you're putting in. However, it takes two to tango hun and the CAD has to put in the same amount of effort as well and If he truely loves you i'm sure he will. Especially if the other alternative is to pack his bags.
Firstly you need to discuss your true inner feelings with him. Make an appointment with him i.e. ';tomorrow night 9pm we talk';. Then spill your guts to him and tell him how you feel. Secondly, negotiate and compromise i.e. tell him what you want and see what he suggests, or visa versa. But dont leave that conversation without an agreement i.e. He will cook every other day %26amp; you all get jiggy with it every third day, he takes the kid out for ice cream on tuesdays and you all have a family day on sundays where you both alternatively choose the activity.
Hes not coming to the party hun and he needs to understand this and he needs to make the effort also. But firstly you must TELL him how you feel because ...um...us men can't read minds ;)All you guys gave me really god advice..but?
perhaps, you have talked to him. talk to him again and again.
it can be difficult but you have to try.
or, you can accept his faults and go on.
no matter what you decide to do, be patient.
maybe that he has a lower drive than yourself?
while most men would appreciate your efforts (and admire you for them) there are men that can feel threatened by a woman in this way.
tiredness is a sure fire killer of all things, for his own health if nothing else he needs to make some time, hopefully time for you both.
has he other problems, tiredness is a sign of a depressed mind also and can point to a lot of other things, minor health problems that he does not even realise are there.
but, from a male point of view, reading about the effort you are making, i am wondering is he worth this effort, a relationship involves 2 people working together in ALL things.
Please reconsider this relationship, because if music is all that you have in common, it will never be enough. I understand completely what you are saying, because I am in the same boat you are in - except I am about three years ahead of you. Trust me, he will never change for you. I am in the process of ending this mess I am in, for I have read the writing on the wall, and it is not good - for me. He has time for everyone and all his little projects and I am only an afterthought. I know your little heart is breaking, but please think about where you place in his heart. The only thing sadder then saying ';I have been in a dead end relationship for three years'; is ';I have been in a dead end relationship for four years.'; Good luck to you.
From a musician I`ve never seen one that didn`t have time for the opposite sex.Also I don`t care how bad a man looks on stage some how he can get all the women he wants and more.Most working entertainers ,in local bands anyway,as I`ve had a lot of dealings with musicians ,have a very high ego.Music is their life even when they have to do other things that helps make their living.Do you go with him to practices?Do you go to gigs?Do you get involved with him and the music?I know from experience that I love to entertain and when I`m on stage I`m working but I`m also out and parting too. and I don`t mean getting drunk ,just have more fun singing and entertaining then going to a party.Get involved.If he still doesn`t have time for you then you should take a close look at your relation ship.
You sound really like a fine person but the guy is a loser. Time to go on your way and maybe you will find someone who will be much nicer to you. Is the child his? Well, he can support the child and you and the baby can move on.
I blame fairy tales and my own parents short comings when trying to come to terms with my own existence.
'You've got to learn to make your own mistakes.' for example; why?
Blame the media, schools, parents, religion and Government for your unrealistic expectations of existence.
I suggest Couple's Therapy. Or, You could sit down and talk to him. Put your foot down girl, and demand he make time for you. If you cook and clean and do everything, The least he could do if respect you and listen to you. Im a mother too of a beautiful 2 y/o boy and believe me, It's hard. I am married and do everything around the house, (cleaning, cooking and taking care of everyone. ) and it's hard. I wouldn't trade it for nothing though. Just tell him to make time for you and listen. Otherwise, Find someone who will take care of you and help you and listen...I hope this helps....I am no Therapist....Just giving a lil advice.HeHe.
try talking to him about things. let him know how you feel. thats the only best way to fix things. if he loves you aswell he will try to improve himself. good luck, and always remember talking to him about your feelings is the best way to go.
Let him know how you feel is all I can say, bottling it up and not letting him know how you feel will solve no problems. No one can know exactly how you feel unless you tell them.
If he doesn't want to do anything about it then he's probably not the one for you, and you may want to consider moving on as much as it will hurt.
Honestly, he doesn't sound like anything that special, but then again I don't know him, and that's not my place to judge.
tell him to wake up shut up and take you out to dinner more
you sound like a very sweet gf. i wish my gf does something like that for me. anyways about your situation i feel that your doing a lot of struggling yourself. trying spend time with your bf. but the question is does your bf feel the same way? its very hard to fight something like that by yourself, when the battle takes two people. so i think the best way to answer that is to communicate. communication is the key to a relationship. you should talk about about what are your needs. lots of compromising needed in order to have a happy relationship. good luck
Advice on flirting with guys?
i like this guy and i think hes really hot
whenever i walk past him him and i sometimes stare at each other and sometimes i think he walks slowly when i walk past, but im not really sure. when he walks in front of me he always turns around and walks backwards and stares at me while still talking to his friends. ever since camp (when the staring started) hes everywhere i go, i think he may be doing it on purpose!!!
weve never had a real conversation, just a few words, but what would you talk to a guy about who youre interested in?
what are some conversation starters??
im really nervous but i want to talk to him even if it leads nowhere
by the way were both 14
thanks xxAdvice on flirting with guys?
Batting eyelashes and smiling usually help. If he doesn't take the hint, you have 2 choices, you break the ice or find someone who has a clue.Advice on flirting with guys?
well it sounds to me that he likes you too :D
he's probably nervous abt talking to you too.
(might be in yahoo asking the same ques. LOL)
anyways, best conversation starters are news
sound boring? HEH. yeah, but when you talk about it to someone it's really not that boring.
good luck, jess! ;]
msg me when you two are together! :D
Well this is quite normal, just say hi how are you. if he is interested he will chat back. It's a start I Guess but i suppose you are both probably a little shy. but if one of you don't make a move you will never know.
He sounds creepy...all that staring lol
na just talk then it will flow huny
wat do you both enjoy???
attention towards your mouth....lip gloss, etc good:)
well done with the staring lol you've got his attention and generally the way your describing his actions im pretty sure he's into you.
find out what he likes bring it up in a conversation.
e.g. if he surfs say ' i heard the surf was good today?' or 'which beach do you surf at?'; ask him questions. guys love to talk about themselves and love it when you take an interest in them.
find out common interests you have and work off them.
be flirty and tease him with little remarks to catch his attention.
get your friends to be there with you when you talk to him so your not alone and you can rebound off them so the conversation wont go dead to quickly if you dont know what to say next.
anyway i hope these tips help :)
goodluck
xx
whenever i walk past him him and i sometimes stare at each other and sometimes i think he walks slowly when i walk past, but im not really sure. when he walks in front of me he always turns around and walks backwards and stares at me while still talking to his friends. ever since camp (when the staring started) hes everywhere i go, i think he may be doing it on purpose!!!
weve never had a real conversation, just a few words, but what would you talk to a guy about who youre interested in?
what are some conversation starters??
im really nervous but i want to talk to him even if it leads nowhere
by the way were both 14
thanks xxAdvice on flirting with guys?
Batting eyelashes and smiling usually help. If he doesn't take the hint, you have 2 choices, you break the ice or find someone who has a clue.Advice on flirting with guys?
well it sounds to me that he likes you too :D
he's probably nervous abt talking to you too.
(might be in yahoo asking the same ques. LOL)
anyways, best conversation starters are news
sound boring? HEH. yeah, but when you talk about it to someone it's really not that boring.
good luck, jess! ;]
msg me when you two are together! :D
Well this is quite normal, just say hi how are you. if he is interested he will chat back. It's a start I Guess but i suppose you are both probably a little shy. but if one of you don't make a move you will never know.
He sounds creepy...all that staring lol
na just talk then it will flow huny
wat do you both enjoy???
attention towards your mouth....lip gloss, etc good:)
well done with the staring lol you've got his attention and generally the way your describing his actions im pretty sure he's into you.
find out what he likes bring it up in a conversation.
e.g. if he surfs say ' i heard the surf was good today?' or 'which beach do you surf at?'; ask him questions. guys love to talk about themselves and love it when you take an interest in them.
find out common interests you have and work off them.
be flirty and tease him with little remarks to catch his attention.
get your friends to be there with you when you talk to him so your not alone and you can rebound off them so the conversation wont go dead to quickly if you dont know what to say next.
anyway i hope these tips help :)
goodluck
xx
ADVICE!!! read it please...guys and girls i need your opinions here i'm a nervous wreck!?
ok so theres this guy i havent talked to since like sophomore year in high school (we are 20 now) and recently he found me on myspace and we've been talking almost every single day....next weekend he wants me to go to a party with him and i really want to go i'm just so damn nervous!!! i mean i didnt like him back then he was WAYYYY too shy for me but i think he finally broke out of his shell and actually grew up....but does anyone have any advice for me? im a nervous wreck!!
oh yeah and hanging out before that is out of the question we both work like every day until thenADVICE!!! read it please...guys and girls i need your opinions here i'm a nervous wreck!?
Why are you putting so much pressure on yourself? Are you expecting a romantic involvement?
Just go to the party with no big expectations and have a good time. If you feel nervous and weird, it's going to be an awkward situation for you both. Be friends first. No pressure, just light-hearted fun!ADVICE!!! read it please...guys and girls i need your opinions here i'm a nervous wreck!?
The best advice I can give you is to have no preconceived notions of what he will be like. Cyberspace does not tend convey to whole picture of who a person is (eg. your life experiences, etc.). Remember, he will probably be as nervous (or more so) as you are. Men often feel they have to impress women, but you can see through his outermost self to see if he has changed over the years. Best of luck to you.
first make sure he is the same guy. Just be yourself and take your time in getting to know him. He's probally nervous too, remember that. find out his interests so you have things to talk about. Email him and have him send you a pic to make sure he's the same guy. Be safe.
Being nervous is selfish energy. He is probably just as nervous. He is just a human being. Don't freak.
Stop thinking. Let your mind focus on your present moment in front of you. When you see him just take it one minute at a time.
just go. he will be nervous too. what is the worst thing that could happen? He invited you so he wants you to be there, he isn't going to reject you. Just go and be friendly and have a good time and see what happens!!
WELL IF HE IS FINE NOW AND IS MORE OUT GOING AND NICE I WOULD ADVICE YOU TO GO W/ HIM TO THAT PARTY. IF YOU ARE OUT GOING JUX LIKE HIM THEN GO. BUT MAKE SURE THAT YOU DON'T BET TO DRUNK THAT U DON'T REMEMBER ANYTHING. AND THEN THINGS HAPPEN OKAY.
Girl go do it!!! :) You can dont be nervous I mean really!!! :) :)
Youll have a great time :))))
answere mine please :)
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haha everyone says it, be yourself, about the best information you can be given, as far as he goes, no need to change yourself or act different
Whats to be nervous about?
just chill,dress nice, be yourself.
Relax.
: )
good luck.
just go even if your nervous. he's probably nervous too....just think about having a good time rather than how nervous you are.
dress to impress (:
you can feel more confident wen you look really good. other than that i have no clue sorry ):
Go to the party and meet him. Just make sure it's the same guy before you make any moves whatsoever. Have fun!
VIVA LA RAZA!
okay then just have a chat on myspace or the phone once in like every lunchtime.....
Girl go get yo Groove on!
Make sure you look hot too.
Just go. It's just a date. Might be the best thing you ever did. If not, you reconnected with a friend. Can't lose.
How old are you? 20. Relax. It's going to be fun.
for one CHILL! if you act and become all nervous then chances are you'll do something stupid or not appeal to him.
Go ahead it never hurts to try new things:)
tell him to take one of his friends and u take one of ur friends that way u will have someone with u
tell him exactly wat u jus told us
Just go for it! He seems nice enough and you knew each other when you were younger, maybe this will be a good thing :) You'll feel better if you just go for it i guarantee. Better to go for it than to regret not doing it :) Have a stiff drink before hand or something that will calm your nerves, Chamomile tea is great for nerves, i use it a lot. A nice bath and a good nights sleep will help you too, use lavender bath wash or get some fresh lavender to put by your bed to help aid in a good nights sleep. I hope this helps a little :) Good luck! xskin care cosmetics
oh yeah and hanging out before that is out of the question we both work like every day until thenADVICE!!! read it please...guys and girls i need your opinions here i'm a nervous wreck!?
Why are you putting so much pressure on yourself? Are you expecting a romantic involvement?
Just go to the party with no big expectations and have a good time. If you feel nervous and weird, it's going to be an awkward situation for you both. Be friends first. No pressure, just light-hearted fun!ADVICE!!! read it please...guys and girls i need your opinions here i'm a nervous wreck!?
The best advice I can give you is to have no preconceived notions of what he will be like. Cyberspace does not tend convey to whole picture of who a person is (eg. your life experiences, etc.). Remember, he will probably be as nervous (or more so) as you are. Men often feel they have to impress women, but you can see through his outermost self to see if he has changed over the years. Best of luck to you.
first make sure he is the same guy. Just be yourself and take your time in getting to know him. He's probally nervous too, remember that. find out his interests so you have things to talk about. Email him and have him send you a pic to make sure he's the same guy. Be safe.
Being nervous is selfish energy. He is probably just as nervous. He is just a human being. Don't freak.
Stop thinking. Let your mind focus on your present moment in front of you. When you see him just take it one minute at a time.
just go. he will be nervous too. what is the worst thing that could happen? He invited you so he wants you to be there, he isn't going to reject you. Just go and be friendly and have a good time and see what happens!!
WELL IF HE IS FINE NOW AND IS MORE OUT GOING AND NICE I WOULD ADVICE YOU TO GO W/ HIM TO THAT PARTY. IF YOU ARE OUT GOING JUX LIKE HIM THEN GO. BUT MAKE SURE THAT YOU DON'T BET TO DRUNK THAT U DON'T REMEMBER ANYTHING. AND THEN THINGS HAPPEN OKAY.
Girl go do it!!! :) You can dont be nervous I mean really!!! :) :)
Youll have a great time :))))
answere mine please :)
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haha everyone says it, be yourself, about the best information you can be given, as far as he goes, no need to change yourself or act different
Whats to be nervous about?
just chill,dress nice, be yourself.
Relax.
: )
good luck.
just go even if your nervous. he's probably nervous too....just think about having a good time rather than how nervous you are.
dress to impress (:
you can feel more confident wen you look really good. other than that i have no clue sorry ):
Go to the party and meet him. Just make sure it's the same guy before you make any moves whatsoever. Have fun!
VIVA LA RAZA!
okay then just have a chat on myspace or the phone once in like every lunchtime.....
Girl go get yo Groove on!
Make sure you look hot too.
Just go. It's just a date. Might be the best thing you ever did. If not, you reconnected with a friend. Can't lose.
How old are you? 20. Relax. It's going to be fun.
for one CHILL! if you act and become all nervous then chances are you'll do something stupid or not appeal to him.
Go ahead it never hurts to try new things:)
tell him to take one of his friends and u take one of ur friends that way u will have someone with u
tell him exactly wat u jus told us
Just go for it! He seems nice enough and you knew each other when you were younger, maybe this will be a good thing :) You'll feel better if you just go for it i guarantee. Better to go for it than to regret not doing it :) Have a stiff drink before hand or something that will calm your nerves, Chamomile tea is great for nerves, i use it a lot. A nice bath and a good nights sleep will help you too, use lavender bath wash or get some fresh lavender to put by your bed to help aid in a good nights sleep. I hope this helps a little :) Good luck! x
GUYS ONLY!! GURL TIPS AND ADVICE!?
I understand that this is the family section, but I also like answers that are from family members as well. This would be helpful!
Do You want girls to approach you or not when it comes to dating???
1) If no, why?
2) If yes, what kind of approach do you like from girls?? For example, a shy girl or a bold girl or a mix of both?? How do you like girls to approach you?? What turns you on when it comes to what they say or do??GUYS ONLY!! GURL TIPS AND ADVICE!?
Meh, doesnt really matter to me either way. I had to hook my girlfriend, in a very haphazardly manner.. %26gt;%26lt;
Id say it depends on the girl. Don't come off on being obsessive if your going to initiate it.GUYS ONLY!! GURL TIPS AND ADVICE!?
i would like to have a little bit of a shy girl and a little less of a bold girl
i like it when girls dont try to act to manly.
Do You want girls to approach you or not when it comes to dating???
1) If no, why?
2) If yes, what kind of approach do you like from girls?? For example, a shy girl or a bold girl or a mix of both?? How do you like girls to approach you?? What turns you on when it comes to what they say or do??GUYS ONLY!! GURL TIPS AND ADVICE!?
Meh, doesnt really matter to me either way. I had to hook my girlfriend, in a very haphazardly manner.. %26gt;%26lt;
Id say it depends on the girl. Don't come off on being obsessive if your going to initiate it.GUYS ONLY!! GURL TIPS AND ADVICE!?
i would like to have a little bit of a shy girl and a little less of a bold girl
i like it when girls dont try to act to manly.
Guys and girls i need advice by monday.....please help?
i am haveing my freind tell my crush i like him...but my freind might tell him tomorrow....i will let her....should we wait till school or go to his house?he lives down our block......what do i do while she tells him,,,,....ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhGuys and girls i need advice by monday.....please help?
school. or better yet, as you are walking home from school or the bus stop. Dont surprise him at his house it will be too awkward.Guys and girls i need advice by monday.....please help?
be yourself, just say hey i really like you...you wanna hang out sometime? and stuff like that...tell him yourself, or he might get the wrong impression...just be outgoing and friendly. good luck! hope all goes well!
school. or better yet, as you are walking home from school or the bus stop. Dont surprise him at his house it will be too awkward.Guys and girls i need advice by monday.....please help?
be yourself, just say hey i really like you...you wanna hang out sometime? and stuff like that...tell him yourself, or he might get the wrong impression...just be outgoing and friendly. good luck! hope all goes well!
Guys..i need some serious advice?
Okay...so this guy like he broke up with me 3 months ago (really really really stupid reason). And i'm over it. Issue is..i cannot seem to get another guy.....i mean i go to school looking nice..and i'm a nice gal...(unless you make me angry :) ) anyways............guess the question is what is it that I could to to possibly get me another guy? (without being a sleez).Guys..i need some serious advice?
Stop trying, and looking. Trust me......they always turn up when your jus having a laugh with the girls and are too busy having fun to notice them. Thats my theory anyway and its worked for me!Guys..i need some serious advice?
Be more outgoing with guys of your type and eventually hopefully something with happen
You just have to be yourself and the right guy will be attracted to you for who you are. Don't rush it. It always seems that the right person comes along when you are not looking for that person.
Just talk to other guys...
make friends.. hang out with guys
and then they will come to you...
people like those who are nice, friendly, and confident about themselves...
Did you 2 break up because of anger problems? If so, that might be something you need to change to help your future.
Stop trying, and looking. Trust me......they always turn up when your jus having a laugh with the girls and are too busy having fun to notice them. Thats my theory anyway and its worked for me!Guys..i need some serious advice?
Be more outgoing with guys of your type and eventually hopefully something with happen
You just have to be yourself and the right guy will be attracted to you for who you are. Don't rush it. It always seems that the right person comes along when you are not looking for that person.
Just talk to other guys...
make friends.. hang out with guys
and then they will come to you...
people like those who are nice, friendly, and confident about themselves...
Did you 2 break up because of anger problems? If so, that might be something you need to change to help your future.
I can't figure out why guys won't talk to me. advice?
I don't think that I'm that extremely good looking, but I'm not hideous or anything. When I try to chat with people they ignore me or act really uninterested in what I'm saying. It's frustrating because I'm so lonely. Oh yea, except drunk guys will talk to me, but they only have one motive in mind. And I got my heart broken over that once already (naive). Now I mostly keep my mouth shut, but that's not helping with anything. I just don't get whats up.I can't figure out why guys won't talk to me. advice?
could be your breath,seriously guys will talk to most girls if the girl starts the conversation and give him a compliment or twoI can't figure out why guys won't talk to me. advice?
Quit being a beatch!
take a good look at yourself and know that your a good looking, build your self confidence. you do not need anyone to tell you that you are pretty. however i know it can get frustrating not having someone to like you. be patient and chhose the right guy
Its the silent treatment. A guy will do this so you will work on getting them. If a girl ignores a guy its called Hard to get. its the same concept. also try a breath mint... it helps, Trust Me!
your probably anoying or just ugly or your breath stinking try going to a spa taking better care of your self and just try to start over.
Can you send me some pixs? I'll be the judge. And i'll let you know the verdict asap.
I know how you feel you want a boyfriend but just acted all quite or stupid around them ask your friends who have had previous boyfriends on what and what not to do around guys
Perhaps the problem isn't you, perhaps it's the place you're going to scout out potential men. If a guy is going to a club to pick up a girl, he is going to want to go for the stupidest, most drop dead gorgeous woman in the room (that he thinks he can get). Most men don't go there to look for a girlfriend, they go there to try to get laid.
Have a game plan. Take a friend, or have an escape plan. your loneliness might be seeping into the conversation, also, and no one wants to talk to a lonely girl. People like others who are confident and fun.
Ask your close girlfriend what are your problems. that woud help I hope
Ok what kind of subjects do you usually bring up when talking to guys? I know for instance I wouldn't want to talk about make up, or what a dress size is on me??? I don't wear dress's. Pick the right subject for the right guy. You know if someones a startrack fan, go for the questions you don't or do know about, if their all about anime, go for the same thing, questions and what you know. Subjects are important to bring to a conversation. Tag me up w/ an e-mail some time, I would love to have a new friend in my list!! I do yahoo IM, myspace IM, msn IM you wanna just e-mail is fine w/ me aswell. TigerpooFrenzzy@yahoo.com Hollar ^_^
Hello miatababy149,
If you're not happy with the way that you look, you could go to a beauty parlor. Spend a little money on a make-over. Maybe you need to change your looks, and this might be a way of trying out new things.
How about girl friends? Do you have any girl friends who you can talk with about this? What do they say about this? Sometimes you can have more fun in groups. Concentrate on your girl friends and work on yourself.
People like other people who are self-confident. Maybe you need work on that a little bit, and the guys will come around. I wish you the best of luck, mia. Take care of yourself.
--Rick
Theres nothing wrong with you. I think you have just been involved or are talkin to the wrong guys. However keeping your mouth shut won't help. You just gotta talk to the right ppl is all. Hey i used to be the same way. And hey if ya ever wanna talk you can e-mail me or somethin likinparkblacksabbath@yahoo.com. Or add me to your friends list on yahoo messenger.
You may be hanging out with the wrong crowd, your friends should be people that listen to you, not ignore you.
Maybe you should make a video recording of yourself and see how you interact. do you smile very much? too much? not enough? Is your voice too high? too low? just annoying? etc.
And then from there you could try to understand yourself better. Maybe you can even ask someone like your momma whats the matter with you, or what bugs her the most about you.
^_^ good luck
If they won't, they are not attracted to you. Find someone who is. It's a numbers game so meet as many people as you need to. Good luck to you.
Try looking more closely at your body language. Guys are mostly visual creatures. What they see is vital in their initial reaction to you. If your body language is giving out a timid or insecure vibe. They will sense this and maybe not approach you.
Try being more confident. Remember to smile :)
Men don't talk like women do. They don't say ';I know just how you feel';. They say ';That's nothing, I . . .'; (ran faster, jumped higher, owned an uglier dog. . . .)
Ask them about themslves and keep nodding and smiling. They will LOVE to talk to you. Steer the conversation to cars or sports or military history or feats of strength and/or stupidity. You'll have to beg them to stop.
could be your breath,seriously guys will talk to most girls if the girl starts the conversation and give him a compliment or twoI can't figure out why guys won't talk to me. advice?
Quit being a beatch!
take a good look at yourself and know that your a good looking, build your self confidence. you do not need anyone to tell you that you are pretty. however i know it can get frustrating not having someone to like you. be patient and chhose the right guy
Its the silent treatment. A guy will do this so you will work on getting them. If a girl ignores a guy its called Hard to get. its the same concept. also try a breath mint... it helps, Trust Me!
your probably anoying or just ugly or your breath stinking try going to a spa taking better care of your self and just try to start over.
Can you send me some pixs? I'll be the judge. And i'll let you know the verdict asap.
I know how you feel you want a boyfriend but just acted all quite or stupid around them ask your friends who have had previous boyfriends on what and what not to do around guys
Perhaps the problem isn't you, perhaps it's the place you're going to scout out potential men. If a guy is going to a club to pick up a girl, he is going to want to go for the stupidest, most drop dead gorgeous woman in the room (that he thinks he can get). Most men don't go there to look for a girlfriend, they go there to try to get laid.
Have a game plan. Take a friend, or have an escape plan. your loneliness might be seeping into the conversation, also, and no one wants to talk to a lonely girl. People like others who are confident and fun.
Ask your close girlfriend what are your problems. that woud help I hope
Ok what kind of subjects do you usually bring up when talking to guys? I know for instance I wouldn't want to talk about make up, or what a dress size is on me??? I don't wear dress's. Pick the right subject for the right guy. You know if someones a startrack fan, go for the questions you don't or do know about, if their all about anime, go for the same thing, questions and what you know. Subjects are important to bring to a conversation. Tag me up w/ an e-mail some time, I would love to have a new friend in my list!! I do yahoo IM, myspace IM, msn IM you wanna just e-mail is fine w/ me aswell. TigerpooFrenzzy@yahoo.com Hollar ^_^
Hello miatababy149,
If you're not happy with the way that you look, you could go to a beauty parlor. Spend a little money on a make-over. Maybe you need to change your looks, and this might be a way of trying out new things.
How about girl friends? Do you have any girl friends who you can talk with about this? What do they say about this? Sometimes you can have more fun in groups. Concentrate on your girl friends and work on yourself.
People like other people who are self-confident. Maybe you need work on that a little bit, and the guys will come around. I wish you the best of luck, mia. Take care of yourself.
--Rick
Theres nothing wrong with you. I think you have just been involved or are talkin to the wrong guys. However keeping your mouth shut won't help. You just gotta talk to the right ppl is all. Hey i used to be the same way. And hey if ya ever wanna talk you can e-mail me or somethin likinparkblacksabbath@yahoo.com. Or add me to your friends list on yahoo messenger.
You may be hanging out with the wrong crowd, your friends should be people that listen to you, not ignore you.
Maybe you should make a video recording of yourself and see how you interact. do you smile very much? too much? not enough? Is your voice too high? too low? just annoying? etc.
And then from there you could try to understand yourself better. Maybe you can even ask someone like your momma whats the matter with you, or what bugs her the most about you.
^_^ good luck
If they won't, they are not attracted to you. Find someone who is. It's a numbers game so meet as many people as you need to. Good luck to you.
Try looking more closely at your body language. Guys are mostly visual creatures. What they see is vital in their initial reaction to you. If your body language is giving out a timid or insecure vibe. They will sense this and maybe not approach you.
Try being more confident. Remember to smile :)
Men don't talk like women do. They don't say ';I know just how you feel';. They say ';That's nothing, I . . .'; (ran faster, jumped higher, owned an uglier dog. . . .)
Ask them about themslves and keep nodding and smiling. They will LOVE to talk to you. Steer the conversation to cars or sports or military history or feats of strength and/or stupidity. You'll have to beg them to stop.
(girls, give advice) what is it that girls are atracted by guys?
im a 17 year old and i like this girl and i want to attract her, im not fat or muscular, just normal, what could i change from my body this summer so i can get a bit attractive for her??(girls, give advice) what is it that girls are atracted by guys?
Usaully it's personality and chemistry for me. no matter how attractive you are, if we don't connect , then it's extremely hard for me to find you attractive, unless the person is shallow and if you are shallow as well, then I guess work on your abs and get a tan and an awesome haircut, and some decent clothes.
Confidence is also really important, it makes you seem attractive, but don't be cocky. So yeah be confident and make approach her first and initiate the conversation first.(girls, give advice) what is it that girls are atracted by guys?
honestly, i think it's a guys hair that make them absolutly adorable lol. maybe work out a little but not too much that like you see muscles bulging thats just ew. good luck (:
they have to be smart, hot, nice, funny, romantic
Usaully it's personality and chemistry for me. no matter how attractive you are, if we don't connect , then it's extremely hard for me to find you attractive, unless the person is shallow and if you are shallow as well, then I guess work on your abs and get a tan and an awesome haircut, and some decent clothes.
Confidence is also really important, it makes you seem attractive, but don't be cocky. So yeah be confident and make approach her first and initiate the conversation first.(girls, give advice) what is it that girls are atracted by guys?
honestly, i think it's a guys hair that make them absolutly adorable lol. maybe work out a little but not too much that like you see muscles bulging thats just ew. good luck (:
they have to be smart, hot, nice, funny, romantic
Guys and girls, need an advice!?
My girlfriend has this boyfriend that's she's been dating for like 4 years, but quite honestly, I feel like she can do way better than him! She is really cute and very sexy, but him...nooo, he is kinda fat but got money, but she still thinks she likes him. Would it be appropriate to tell her that she actually deserves better?
P.S. Please don't be distasteful and disrespectful in your response... I'm only a human being!Guys and girls, need an advice!?
yea i don't think it would be wrong for you to say she deserves better. if you are going to do it i would wait until you were alone with here and i would do it in person. DO NOT do it over the phone.skin care cosmetics
P.S. Please don't be distasteful and disrespectful in your response... I'm only a human being!Guys and girls, need an advice!?
yea i don't think it would be wrong for you to say she deserves better. if you are going to do it i would wait until you were alone with here and i would do it in person. DO NOT do it over the phone.
Guys and girls i need advice!!?
okay so i'm on vacation for two months and down the street from where i work there is this clothing store and this really gorgeous guy works there. i've been in the store three times and he's always checking me out and walking past me.
he came up on facebook as a person i might know... should i friend request him? i can't decide if its creepy or not? haha
and if i do friend request or message him what should i say?Guys and girls i need advice!!?
try if he checks you out he might be interested request him he might add you
he came up on facebook as a person i might know... should i friend request him? i can't decide if its creepy or not? haha
and if i do friend request or message him what should i say?Guys and girls i need advice!!?
try if he checks you out he might be interested request him he might add you
GUYS!! I really need your advice....!?
There's this guy I really really like. But because I'm so shy, I completely ignore him to conceal the fact that I'm interested in him. Because if he's not interested in me, I don't want to embarrass myself!! But he pretty much ignores me too!!
So I really don't know what to do to find out if he's ignoring me because he likes me in return.....help??!!GUYS!! I really need your advice....!?
Just ask him, rejection isn't all that bad.GUYS!! I really need your advice....!?
well first ask around and if he does just stop ignoring him and do all that asking out stuff but if he doesnt just get to know him ,sort of become friends with him and then start flirting and stuff
So I really don't know what to do to find out if he's ignoring me because he likes me in return.....help??!!GUYS!! I really need your advice....!?
Just ask him, rejection isn't all that bad.GUYS!! I really need your advice....!?
well first ask around and if he does just stop ignoring him and do all that asking out stuff but if he doesnt just get to know him ,sort of become friends with him and then start flirting and stuff
Guys.................help i need men advice?
Ok so ive liked this guy for about 5 years - we are friends, well ';good'; friends if you know what i mean. Anyway in the taxi to his last night he said i can say this to you now im drunk............i wouldnt mind you being my girlfriend as your not a selfish cow and you wouldnt hurt me like i have been in the past.....................but when he took me home this morning we didnt talk about it. So basically i think i need to say something - i do want to go out with him - do you think i should just ask him out?
Please help.....................thanksGuys.................help i need men advice?
well the truth is siad when people are drunk.so just ask him out.whats the worst that can happen?he could say no but ull still haave you friendship.Guys.................help i need men advice?
Yeah go for it, if it doesn't work out then you can always go back to being f*ck buddies...
Simply put - yes
Sure go for it
why can't you ask a girl?
read your question and the edit it it's a bit tough to follow
Dont get your hopes built up on anything that is said while a person is drunk!
you have had sex with the man given him your most precise body.but your scared to ask him to be your man girl boo
I think you should say it - kinda just say, hey i was thinking there about what you said in the taxi the other night!! Were you actually serious?
If he doesnt remember - tell him!!!! If he gets all embarrassed I think he DID mean it! Then say you've kinda felt the same thing for a while and that ye should give it a go. Also say that in the event ye dont get on romantically that you want a pact that the friendship will never suffer
Good luck
Same thing happened to me.
It was really great while it lasted but it ended because we already knew too much about each other and we dont talk at all now.
Ruined a beautiful friendship..
I guess he loves u all these while but dint know how to tell u an thats why it took him drunk b4 he can say it out so go for him SAY YE!!!
Ask him if he remembers the convo then take it from there but it depends if you feel the same way.
Yes just ask
Please help.....................thanksGuys.................help i need men advice?
well the truth is siad when people are drunk.so just ask him out.whats the worst that can happen?he could say no but ull still haave you friendship.Guys.................help i need men advice?
Yeah go for it, if it doesn't work out then you can always go back to being f*ck buddies...
Simply put - yes
Sure go for it
why can't you ask a girl?
read your question and the edit it it's a bit tough to follow
Dont get your hopes built up on anything that is said while a person is drunk!
you have had sex with the man given him your most precise body.but your scared to ask him to be your man girl boo
I think you should say it - kinda just say, hey i was thinking there about what you said in the taxi the other night!! Were you actually serious?
If he doesnt remember - tell him!!!! If he gets all embarrassed I think he DID mean it! Then say you've kinda felt the same thing for a while and that ye should give it a go. Also say that in the event ye dont get on romantically that you want a pact that the friendship will never suffer
Good luck
Same thing happened to me.
It was really great while it lasted but it ended because we already knew too much about each other and we dont talk at all now.
Ruined a beautiful friendship..
I guess he loves u all these while but dint know how to tell u an thats why it took him drunk b4 he can say it out so go for him SAY YE!!!
Ask him if he remembers the convo then take it from there but it depends if you feel the same way.
Yes just ask
Guys please help ... i need advice!?
What sup with my boyfriend trying to hang out EVERY night!!??? HELP!?
My boyfriend asked me every night to do something? whats up with that.?
we have only been together for a little over a month and have went on 2 trips and have one planned in a few weeks.. he still asked me to do something every night. what sup with that?Guys please help ... i need advice!?
He wants to spend time with you, what's the problem?Guys please help ... i need advice!?
uh...he likes you???
And you complaining that you b/f wants to hang out with you? What is the problem there Missy? I mean you should be happy instead of complaining don't you think? A woman would be thrilled that her b'f wants to be with you.
Girl open up your eyes........SHEESH!!!!
I can't believe you think this is a problem! While I don't like to see my partner every single night of the week, I enjoy seeing him several times a week and find it a blessing.
Surely your scenario is better than if your man wanted to spend all his evenings at a strip club with his male friends, lol
Just tell him that you want to take things a little more slowly. If he's worth keeping around, he'll understand and back off a bit. If not, then tell him to jump in a lake and move on with your life.
He is clingy.
look.. just tell him.. one extreme is not better than the other... maybe you can do a week where you see each other every night than go a week where you see each other every three days...
that or make plans with your g/f's and tell him it's a girl's nite out...
is it something that needs help.. only because you feel like it does... I've known people who date who are with each other every date and enjoy that... do everything together and are happy ....
here's a key question, so what would you be doing if he didn't hang out with you every night??? is it doing so much so often together that scares you, or do you still feel the need to not feel so commited so quickly.... or is there something about they way he is, when you see each other all the time, that bugs you or makes you think less of him???
He seems insecure and clingy. Its ok for you to say that you are doing something with someone else.
What can I say shey, you must have some good stuff and he know's it. You need to just let him know that you need to slow down and that you don't need to be with him every night. But do it in a nice way where he can get the point. If that doesn't work then you should tell him that your going out with your friends every now and again.
Peace,
The Truth
My boyfriend asked me every night to do something? whats up with that.?
we have only been together for a little over a month and have went on 2 trips and have one planned in a few weeks.. he still asked me to do something every night. what sup with that?Guys please help ... i need advice!?
He wants to spend time with you, what's the problem?Guys please help ... i need advice!?
uh...he likes you???
And you complaining that you b/f wants to hang out with you? What is the problem there Missy? I mean you should be happy instead of complaining don't you think? A woman would be thrilled that her b'f wants to be with you.
Girl open up your eyes........SHEESH!!!!
I can't believe you think this is a problem! While I don't like to see my partner every single night of the week, I enjoy seeing him several times a week and find it a blessing.
Surely your scenario is better than if your man wanted to spend all his evenings at a strip club with his male friends, lol
Just tell him that you want to take things a little more slowly. If he's worth keeping around, he'll understand and back off a bit. If not, then tell him to jump in a lake and move on with your life.
He is clingy.
look.. just tell him.. one extreme is not better than the other... maybe you can do a week where you see each other every night than go a week where you see each other every three days...
that or make plans with your g/f's and tell him it's a girl's nite out...
is it something that needs help.. only because you feel like it does... I've known people who date who are with each other every date and enjoy that... do everything together and are happy ....
here's a key question, so what would you be doing if he didn't hang out with you every night??? is it doing so much so often together that scares you, or do you still feel the need to not feel so commited so quickly.... or is there something about they way he is, when you see each other all the time, that bugs you or makes you think less of him???
He seems insecure and clingy. Its ok for you to say that you are doing something with someone else.
What can I say shey, you must have some good stuff and he know's it. You need to just let him know that you need to slow down and that you don't need to be with him every night. But do it in a nice way where he can get the point. If that doesn't work then you should tell him that your going out with your friends every now and again.
Peace,
The Truth
GUYS HELP...I NEED SEXUAL ADVICE BEFORE ITS TOO LATE...ASAP.?
We have had sex only twice
It was pretty normal
He penetrated (vagina)
I gave him oral and thats it
I want to have some fun
Sex was good but not good enough
What can i do to make it better,fun and wild next time it happens?
No rude comments but i'm open to anything
Any opinion is welcomeGUYS HELP...I NEED SEXUAL ADVICE BEFORE ITS TOO LATE...ASAP.?
first off im a guy so I will give you male perspective. You must be honest. Confess your fantasies to each other. Tell him,'; That was good, but do you know what I really want...' And honestly, a bit of reading on his part could do the trick. But also, what do you want better? If he doesnt last long thats tricky, but spicing things up is a bit easier. I dont want to be to graphic, but tell him to do things that turn you on. Tell him to give you oral too, or to play with you down there during intercourse, talk dirty, role play, etc. The solutions are obvious but its communicating it to him that will be difficult. Just be honest and tell him what you would want. If you dont, the male ego will naturally assume that everything is okay when its not. And if he gets very defensive about this rather than being understanding, i hate to say it but it probably wont change. Best of luck!
It was pretty normal
He penetrated (vagina)
I gave him oral and thats it
I want to have some fun
Sex was good but not good enough
What can i do to make it better,fun and wild next time it happens?
No rude comments but i'm open to anything
Any opinion is welcomeGUYS HELP...I NEED SEXUAL ADVICE BEFORE ITS TOO LATE...ASAP.?
first off im a guy so I will give you male perspective. You must be honest. Confess your fantasies to each other. Tell him,'; That was good, but do you know what I really want...' And honestly, a bit of reading on his part could do the trick. But also, what do you want better? If he doesnt last long thats tricky, but spicing things up is a bit easier. I dont want to be to graphic, but tell him to do things that turn you on. Tell him to give you oral too, or to play with you down there during intercourse, talk dirty, role play, etc. The solutions are obvious but its communicating it to him that will be difficult. Just be honest and tell him what you would want. If you dont, the male ego will naturally assume that everything is okay when its not. And if he gets very defensive about this rather than being understanding, i hate to say it but it probably wont change. Best of luck!
Guys i need help other advice welcome...?
my 19th bday is on the 23 of dis month n my fiancee asked me bout wat do i like most gold or silver?i had told him b4 i hate it when guys go n get expensive stuff for me cuz i feel guilty bout it my ex's neva got dat either but w/e anyways my question is do u have ny idea y he would ask wat i like gold or silver cuz im like wantin to know im really diffently new at mostly datin dis guy i mean he knows how i feel about expensive things but its the first real gift he told me n he wanted me to feel special plus its my 19th bday gift the other thing he is giving me is im not tellin if yall got dirty minds u guys should know lol thks for the help.Guys i need help other advice welcome...?
fiancee?
Gold?
Silver?
Okay.. first, a guy should know this already if he's your fiancee.. but being nice, I guess I'll say that he shouldn't have to know... but usually it's come up already.
I take it you don't have an engagement ring? That's sorta odd if you ARE engaged. Usually you'd already have a ring - even if it was just $20 band.
Anyway., either this guy is going to get an engagement ring because he hasn't already done so. Or he's getting SOME piece of jewelry. My wife would die if I did that for her LOL. I never buy jewelry for her.
What I suggest? He's obviously thinking about you. Go to a jewelry store just to ';window shop'; show him the types of things you like and things you don't like. Do this in front of an employee working there.. that way if he forgets something they can help remember. Also they may do things like.. figure out your ring size and whatnot without him having to ask and feel on the spot.
Some people like silver and/or gold but they like silver on one thing and gold on another.. Or they only like small amounts of it.. or large amounts. My wife is tiny so anything too big on her just looks overwhelming. But we didn't know that til we tried some things together.
I'd be excited.. he sounds sweet.Guys i need help other advice welcome...?
Just let him buy you something expencive. Obviously he likes you enough to buy something like that for you. I personally like silver, i hate gold.
Stop sweating the small stuff and let the guy like you. Choose silver because it's not really expensive at all and he can get something adorably cute from Wal-Mart and not spend a lot. Just tell him earrings or a bracelet, really very inexpensive!!! The guilt is coming from somewhere, but I wonder where?
So, if you choose silver and you two break up later down the road, you won't have to feel guilty because he didn't spend a lot of money on you.
Relax and allow someone to care a little bit. It could be that this is simply to make him feel good too. You can always return it poilitely if it doesn't work out. Give him a chance!
he is trying to convey his love by presenting a gift of silver/gold do not fall yourself in this love,because he is testing you weather you r money minded or not if u ask him to present silver/gold one day he will give you a baby when u ask him to marry u he will give u wat u ask earlier in your birthday.
Grasp the English language and try to put together an intelligent question. In your case a gold or silver plated dictionary would do you wonders.
probably looking at a nice watch or bracelet cool it chick it ain't no ring
tell him you want a diamond. lol. if he's asking you what you really want just tell him what you want even if it's not silver or gold. what matters is his presence. much better if you give him a hint that you want a surprise.
White gold is most beautiful.And by the way I am born on 23 of July.Happy Birthday:)
depends on what looks good on you if you dark gold and have fun with the other gift
just ask him for platnium
no gold no silver
Just answer him according to your preferences..maybe its just a simple everday question...if he is really into buying you a gift that is made of gold or silver then it is his way of materiaaly expressing his love to you..people dont choose gifts they are given..so please dont worry yourself and answer your guy..!skin care cosmetics
fiancee?
Gold?
Silver?
Okay.. first, a guy should know this already if he's your fiancee.. but being nice, I guess I'll say that he shouldn't have to know... but usually it's come up already.
I take it you don't have an engagement ring? That's sorta odd if you ARE engaged. Usually you'd already have a ring - even if it was just $20 band.
Anyway., either this guy is going to get an engagement ring because he hasn't already done so. Or he's getting SOME piece of jewelry. My wife would die if I did that for her LOL. I never buy jewelry for her.
What I suggest? He's obviously thinking about you. Go to a jewelry store just to ';window shop'; show him the types of things you like and things you don't like. Do this in front of an employee working there.. that way if he forgets something they can help remember. Also they may do things like.. figure out your ring size and whatnot without him having to ask and feel on the spot.
Some people like silver and/or gold but they like silver on one thing and gold on another.. Or they only like small amounts of it.. or large amounts. My wife is tiny so anything too big on her just looks overwhelming. But we didn't know that til we tried some things together.
I'd be excited.. he sounds sweet.Guys i need help other advice welcome...?
Just let him buy you something expencive. Obviously he likes you enough to buy something like that for you. I personally like silver, i hate gold.
Stop sweating the small stuff and let the guy like you. Choose silver because it's not really expensive at all and he can get something adorably cute from Wal-Mart and not spend a lot. Just tell him earrings or a bracelet, really very inexpensive!!! The guilt is coming from somewhere, but I wonder where?
So, if you choose silver and you two break up later down the road, you won't have to feel guilty because he didn't spend a lot of money on you.
Relax and allow someone to care a little bit. It could be that this is simply to make him feel good too. You can always return it poilitely if it doesn't work out. Give him a chance!
he is trying to convey his love by presenting a gift of silver/gold do not fall yourself in this love,because he is testing you weather you r money minded or not if u ask him to present silver/gold one day he will give you a baby when u ask him to marry u he will give u wat u ask earlier in your birthday.
Grasp the English language and try to put together an intelligent question. In your case a gold or silver plated dictionary would do you wonders.
probably looking at a nice watch or bracelet cool it chick it ain't no ring
tell him you want a diamond. lol. if he's asking you what you really want just tell him what you want even if it's not silver or gold. what matters is his presence. much better if you give him a hint that you want a surprise.
White gold is most beautiful.And by the way I am born on 23 of July.Happy Birthday:)
depends on what looks good on you if you dark gold and have fun with the other gift
just ask him for platnium
no gold no silver
Just answer him according to your preferences..maybe its just a simple everday question...if he is really into buying you a gift that is made of gold or silver then it is his way of materiaaly expressing his love to you..people dont choose gifts they are given..so please dont worry yourself and answer your guy..!
Guys (or girls)...need your advice/encouragement?
just got braces...eeek...are they a big turn off..only need them for 11 months...any adviceGuys (or girls)...need your advice/encouragement?
Stick with them it will be worth it in the end.. 11 months isn't that long and the time will fly by...Guys (or girls)...need your advice/encouragement?
Smile your way out.. .
You got your teeth taken care of.., now concentrate on something else. they do not need any more attention.
Guys think they're hot if your young. Hopefully they're young too.
lots of people have to get them i wouldnt think it would be a turn off for guys be happy..only 11 months i know people that have to wear them for around 5 years!
If you need braces you need braces.
I never thought of them as a 'turn-off'.
don`t worry about them if a guy likes you it won`t matter
Well, i know what its like to have braces.
And i dont see why they have to be turn off, as long as you keep them clean. Remember to always wash your teeth after u eat so the food doesnt get stuck.
Plus, they can be fun 'cause u can change their color to match your outfit or according to the seansons.
Good luck and always remember to keep a possitive attitude cause otherwise those eleven months will feel like 11 years!!
jus wait for a while to find a guy who will like you. i helps if you dont have braces because they can scrach sometimes.
I had braces for two years, and the boys hardly noticed. Trust me.
dont worry bout the braces girly..and if anyone thinks its a turnoff wait til you get them removed and watch them all come around you ...
As long as you have a nice personality and friendly to people they will look past it. Personally I don't have a problem with it because braces will not make a girl look less hot, and I know it's not permanent so whatever.
You're probably too young for it to matter much anyway. When I was in high school I had them for 2 years, but high school doesn't matter. It was well worth it, because now that I actually have a clue about women my teeth look great. Stick it out and don't worry about what the boys are doing at your age. Trust me, people won't stop talking to you, braces are common these days.
Best advice: Grin and bear it. :)
Don't worry about them!
If a guy really likes you he'll be fine with them, plus it's only 11 months. Usually people have them for years
Stick with them it will be worth it in the end.. 11 months isn't that long and the time will fly by...Guys (or girls)...need your advice/encouragement?
Smile your way out.. .
You got your teeth taken care of.., now concentrate on something else. they do not need any more attention.
Guys think they're hot if your young. Hopefully they're young too.
lots of people have to get them i wouldnt think it would be a turn off for guys be happy..only 11 months i know people that have to wear them for around 5 years!
If you need braces you need braces.
I never thought of them as a 'turn-off'.
don`t worry about them if a guy likes you it won`t matter
Well, i know what its like to have braces.
And i dont see why they have to be turn off, as long as you keep them clean. Remember to always wash your teeth after u eat so the food doesnt get stuck.
Plus, they can be fun 'cause u can change their color to match your outfit or according to the seansons.
Good luck and always remember to keep a possitive attitude cause otherwise those eleven months will feel like 11 years!!
jus wait for a while to find a guy who will like you. i helps if you dont have braces because they can scrach sometimes.
I had braces for two years, and the boys hardly noticed. Trust me.
dont worry bout the braces girly..and if anyone thinks its a turnoff wait til you get them removed and watch them all come around you ...
As long as you have a nice personality and friendly to people they will look past it. Personally I don't have a problem with it because braces will not make a girl look less hot, and I know it's not permanent so whatever.
You're probably too young for it to matter much anyway. When I was in high school I had them for 2 years, but high school doesn't matter. It was well worth it, because now that I actually have a clue about women my teeth look great. Stick it out and don't worry about what the boys are doing at your age. Trust me, people won't stop talking to you, braces are common these days.
Best advice: Grin and bear it. :)
Don't worry about them!
If a guy really likes you he'll be fine with them, plus it's only 11 months. Usually people have them for years
Guys please, i need some advice! :)?
hey there,
any idea what i could buy my bf for christmas?Guys please, i need some advice! :)?
Christmas gift Ideas for Boyfriends :
Cologne
Sports DVD Box Sets
Books on Travel
Magazines on Beer %26amp; Brewing
Titanium Jewelry
Dress Shirts
Magazines on Sports
Games for Wii
Wii Accessories
Wrenches
HDTVs
Action %26amp; Adventure DVD Boxsets
Automotive Tools %26amp; Equipment
XBox 360 Games
XBox 360 Accessories
Magazines on Computers %26amp; the Internet
Corkscrews %26amp; Openers
Game Room Sports
RC Helicopters %26amp; Airplanes
Blues Box Sets
Portable Audio/Video
http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?i鈥?/a>
Electronics :
Kindle
iPod touch
Flip UltraHD Camcorder
Blu-ray Disc Player
Wireless Internet Camera
iPod nano
Digital SLR Camera
HD Pocket Video Camera
GPS
Portable DVD Player
Clock Radio
LCD HDTV
http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?i鈥?/a>Guys please, i need some advice! :)?
Most of the men doesnt really care about the gift unless he is gay. So think about what he needs. try to find something which will make things a little bit easier for him. Think about what he needs. Dont get something that he doesnt need such a tshirt, a cap, or jeans... He would still smile and pretend like he was happy but... Get something that will make him think that you are a smart woman.
how much you want to spend on him?
Whats he into?
check out this site, it has some cool gift ideas
http://themeroomideas.com/christmas/gift鈥?/a>
heres a better idea, buy Yourself something...crotchless *wink*
do you know the person at all you shouldnt be asking random people i mean we dont know him! pay more attention to your man and you wouldnt be asking stupid questions
bench polo shirts and pants
any idea what i could buy my bf for christmas?Guys please, i need some advice! :)?
Christmas gift Ideas for Boyfriends :
Cologne
Sports DVD Box Sets
Books on Travel
Magazines on Beer %26amp; Brewing
Titanium Jewelry
Dress Shirts
Magazines on Sports
Games for Wii
Wii Accessories
Wrenches
HDTVs
Action %26amp; Adventure DVD Boxsets
Automotive Tools %26amp; Equipment
XBox 360 Games
XBox 360 Accessories
Magazines on Computers %26amp; the Internet
Corkscrews %26amp; Openers
Game Room Sports
RC Helicopters %26amp; Airplanes
Blues Box Sets
Portable Audio/Video
http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?i鈥?/a>
Electronics :
Kindle
iPod touch
Flip UltraHD Camcorder
Blu-ray Disc Player
Wireless Internet Camera
iPod nano
Digital SLR Camera
HD Pocket Video Camera
GPS
Portable DVD Player
Clock Radio
LCD HDTV
http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?i鈥?/a>Guys please, i need some advice! :)?
Most of the men doesnt really care about the gift unless he is gay. So think about what he needs. try to find something which will make things a little bit easier for him. Think about what he needs. Dont get something that he doesnt need such a tshirt, a cap, or jeans... He would still smile and pretend like he was happy but... Get something that will make him think that you are a smart woman.
how much you want to spend on him?
Whats he into?
check out this site, it has some cool gift ideas
http://themeroomideas.com/christmas/gift鈥?/a>
heres a better idea, buy Yourself something...crotchless *wink*
do you know the person at all you shouldnt be asking random people i mean we dont know him! pay more attention to your man and you wouldnt be asking stupid questions
bench polo shirts and pants
Guys and girls i need your advice!?
well im 15 and i want to have sex with my bf.
but i don't know if ill regret it later... but i really want to do it. so does he.
is it okay to have sex before marriage? or is it really that much better afterwards? i don't know what to do. i want to do it but i don't know how i'll feel afterwards.....Guys and girls i need your advice!?
u shudnt really...
u might regret l8r..
%26amp;%26amp; its bad havin it before marriage
the guy might leave u..
coz he might not want 2 get in2 the mess after
it...Guys and girls i need your advice!?
Your only 15, dont do it yet wait! You willl def regret it later!
answermine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
well think about this
dose he like you or will he dump you if he dosent get it ?
if you think its right go for it xxx
you have doubts..wait a little so you don't regret...15 a little too young I think
The only way to find out how you would feel afterwards is to do it then you will know
its your choice. you cant ask ppl over the internet and expect to get helpfull answers.
but i don't know if ill regret it later... but i really want to do it. so does he.
is it okay to have sex before marriage? or is it really that much better afterwards? i don't know what to do. i want to do it but i don't know how i'll feel afterwards.....Guys and girls i need your advice!?
u shudnt really...
u might regret l8r..
%26amp;%26amp; its bad havin it before marriage
the guy might leave u..
coz he might not want 2 get in2 the mess after
it...Guys and girls i need your advice!?
Your only 15, dont do it yet wait! You willl def regret it later!
answermine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
well think about this
dose he like you or will he dump you if he dosent get it ?
if you think its right go for it xxx
you have doubts..wait a little so you don't regret...15 a little too young I think
The only way to find out how you would feel afterwards is to do it then you will know
its your choice. you cant ask ppl over the internet and expect to get helpfull answers.
Guys and Girls, I need some advice please?
I met this girl online about a week ago and I like her. What should I do? Any way I let her know I like her without actually saying it? Help!Guys and Girls, I need some advice please?
A lot of times we want someone to know we like her by doing ONE thing, its better to let her know through a pattern of consistent things. Like... she'll know you like her after a few weeks, if you just keep in touch. You both have to have time to get to know each other and see what you have in common. Don't rush it, keep in touch, and when its time you can meet her and see who she really is.. if you meet her though be sure to meet in a safe place, try in a group and somewhere super public, cuz believe it or not there are some creepy things going on in the online dating world. Just warning you.
Try this book, ';Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus'; if you read it before you get into a relationship it will make you the best boyfriend you can be, for real, no kidding. Anyway, I included the link to the half dot com's listing. Good luck.
A lot of times we want someone to know we like her by doing ONE thing, its better to let her know through a pattern of consistent things. Like... she'll know you like her after a few weeks, if you just keep in touch. You both have to have time to get to know each other and see what you have in common. Don't rush it, keep in touch, and when its time you can meet her and see who she really is.. if you meet her though be sure to meet in a safe place, try in a group and somewhere super public, cuz believe it or not there are some creepy things going on in the online dating world. Just warning you.
Try this book, ';Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus'; if you read it before you get into a relationship it will make you the best boyfriend you can be, for real, no kidding. Anyway, I included the link to the half dot com's listing. Good luck.
GUYS esp. (and girls) I need your advice... I think this guy is cute!?
Okay, I was at a Halloween party last weekend and I was the DD so I couldn't drink sooo I was sitting on the couch chillen and there was a guy sitting on the couch right next to me. This girl came over (who was really drunk) and I guess he thought she was kind of annoying because when she turned away he was like ';save me.'; (talking to me) So then me and him started talking for like 45 mins or so while everyone else was drinking and playing pong etc. Then my friend came over because she kept saying that we looked so cute and took a pic of us, and then when I got up all of his guy friends were coming over to me saying stuff like ';oooooh so your talking to mike, awwwh'; (like playing around with me) I didn't really know what to say I was just like ';Yeah he's cool'; Then me and my friend ended up leaving early so I had to cut our conversation short. When I was walking out the guy who was having the party was like ';Mike is really good guy'; etc. And I didn't know what to say. I thought he was going to ask me for my number but he didn't! Then when me and my friend were driving home she was saying how she thought me %26amp; him were going to hook up because it looked like it. I think he is really cute, but i'm not the type of girl to make the first move or anything so what should I do? What if he isn't interested, afterall, he didn't ask for my number, but than again why would his friends come up to me saying all of that? I'm going to see him again probably next weekend or something because this guy always has parties and he is always there. Should I flirt with him next time? GUYS esp. (and girls) I need your advice... I think this guy is cute!?
He probably didn't get the chance to ask for your number from the way you described it. Either way you should make the first move next time you see him, just in case. It sounds like he likes you, so it will probably work out. Good luck.GUYS esp. (and girls) I need your advice... I think this guy is cute!?
Well if you two talked for 45 min you must have hit it off. There's no doubt that this guy likes you, you should flirt it wouldnt hurt to try. You'll be suprised of how much more you two find out about each other.
Go for it....No Regrets...
If he wont be outgoing, you should be.. There is nothing wrong with that!!! I love when a girl takes control!!!! Your either a leader or a follower!!
You should ask for his number. Sounds like ya'll are younger, and he may still be shy about talking to girls.
Don't be afraid to ask a guy out. We aren't going to think its too forward or slutty or anything. It can be quite intimidating asking a girl out, even if you're already getting along. Pretty much the same thoughts you've had are likely going through his head too. ';Is she interested?'; ';Should I ask her out?'; ';Idiot! Why didn't you get her number!';
Sometimes you just have to go for it.
He probably didn't get the chance to ask for your number from the way you described it. Either way you should make the first move next time you see him, just in case. It sounds like he likes you, so it will probably work out. Good luck.GUYS esp. (and girls) I need your advice... I think this guy is cute!?
Well if you two talked for 45 min you must have hit it off. There's no doubt that this guy likes you, you should flirt it wouldnt hurt to try. You'll be suprised of how much more you two find out about each other.
Go for it....No Regrets...
If he wont be outgoing, you should be.. There is nothing wrong with that!!! I love when a girl takes control!!!! Your either a leader or a follower!!
You should ask for his number. Sounds like ya'll are younger, and he may still be shy about talking to girls.
Don't be afraid to ask a guy out. We aren't going to think its too forward or slutty or anything. It can be quite intimidating asking a girl out, even if you're already getting along. Pretty much the same thoughts you've had are likely going through his head too. ';Is she interested?'; ';Should I ask her out?'; ';Idiot! Why didn't you get her number!';
Sometimes you just have to go for it.
Need advice fast! Mostly for guys, but girls can answer too! PLZ help!?
OK..soooo..like i'm at my dads house(parents divorced) and we are ALWAYS out side doing something! (walkin the dog,mall,beach,anything really) And a lot of times there is a really cute guy there and it looks as tho he wants to come over and talk but my dad is there...i think my dad intimidates them. but my dad couldnt give a crap if they came over and talked to me...how can i give hem the hint that its ok to come over???Need advice fast! Mostly for guys, but girls can answer too! PLZ help!?
Do it vise-verse you walk over to the instead of the other way around, start with Hi lol....=]Need advice fast! Mostly for guys, but girls can answer too! PLZ help!?
dont, just go talk to them.............im a genius i know
just motion them to come over. if they are afraid, you go to them.
to give them eye contact, and a friendly appearence. or u could just walk up to them if ur feeling brave enough.
just wave to him and signal him over.. say, i noticed you looking and i juet wanted to know ur name.. good start..
Take the initiative and go over and talk to him yourself. I don't think there is much you can do to get a guy to come over if your dad is there. Or maybe you could politely suggest to your dad that he go for a walk in another direction. =)skin care cosmetics
Do it vise-verse you walk over to the instead of the other way around, start with Hi lol....=]Need advice fast! Mostly for guys, but girls can answer too! PLZ help!?
dont, just go talk to them.............im a genius i know
just motion them to come over. if they are afraid, you go to them.
to give them eye contact, and a friendly appearence. or u could just walk up to them if ur feeling brave enough.
just wave to him and signal him over.. say, i noticed you looking and i juet wanted to know ur name.. good start..
Take the initiative and go over and talk to him yourself. I don't think there is much you can do to get a guy to come over if your dad is there. Or maybe you could politely suggest to your dad that he go for a walk in another direction. =)
GUYS only!! I need some advice?
you see i've been going to school with a guy since 6th grade and everybody told me that he liked me but the guy wouldn't even talk to me. anyways know we are in 11th grade going on to 12th and he keeps staring at me and talking to me. does this mean anything or should i just let it go??????????GUYS only!! I need some advice?
Yeah, this is a no brainer. If he keeps staring and talking to you, its pretty much guaranteed he likes you. But if you dont like him back, then dont lead him on. Thats really lame. Thats happened to me and it sucks. So dont do that. But if you do, then go for it.GUYS only!! I need some advice?
It means he likes you. If you like him then you should tell him.
he probobly lieks you. if you've known each other for that long just ask him!!
You like him and now, he likes you. Time to make you and him happen!
lol, hes kind of a weird kid isnt he how can he like you for that long without even talking to you:S weirdd i say let it goo and personally i dont think hes something you should waste your time on cuz hes been starrin fo like 6 years wht u think hes gonna do while your datin jus ignore it you got like a year left too soo one more year of seeing a guy stare at you all class lol dont worri find another guy too
Yeah, this is a no brainer. If he keeps staring and talking to you, its pretty much guaranteed he likes you. But if you dont like him back, then dont lead him on. Thats really lame. Thats happened to me and it sucks. So dont do that. But if you do, then go for it.GUYS only!! I need some advice?
It means he likes you. If you like him then you should tell him.
he probobly lieks you. if you've known each other for that long just ask him!!
You like him and now, he likes you. Time to make you and him happen!
lol, hes kind of a weird kid isnt he how can he like you for that long without even talking to you:S weirdd i say let it goo and personally i dont think hes something you should waste your time on cuz hes been starrin fo like 6 years wht u think hes gonna do while your datin jus ignore it you got like a year left too soo one more year of seeing a guy stare at you all class lol dont worri find another guy too
GUYS Only! i need ur advice!!!!!?
Okay guys, when your not intrested in your girlfriend anymore what do you do? Because i have a feeling my BF is not intrested in me anymore because he deleted all the nice stuff he said about me in his myspace profile and he's been commenting other girls pictures. and yeah when i said ';i love you'; to him he did'nt really respond back and this was in person.GUYS Only! i need ur advice!!!!!?
that is not good at all i really dont want to hurt your fellings but if you tell him you love him and he resonds differently than he normaly does than something is up i think you should dump him only if you think something is going on with hima dn another girl and i think if this doesnt maake you happy and he doesnt make you happy than i think you need to find your self another bf im srry if this is upsetting but you gotta do what is in your heart i wish you the best of luck i know how love hurts trust me i know girls have steped on me in every different way you could think of but you got to get right up and move on to someone better and it doesnt have to be right away i always wiat a bit befor going out and looking for someone else but i always find someone that makes me happy. if you ever need help with boys feel free to ask but if you do i want some advice about girls in retern 鈽?i need some helpif you can but i talk to you later if you wnat byGUYS Only! i need ur advice!!!!!?
hey im glad i could help im kinda new to this so if you get this id like to hear how it whent i be hear for you :)
hmm
sorry, seems like he has lost interest
Yup, it looks like he's emotionally moved on, but just has not formally told you so. Maybe he's hoping you take a hint and just go.
I bet that once you're gone, he'll come crawling and begging to get together. I advise you that you don't. Look I've been married 10+ years, and I'm still not ';over'; my wife. She's still hot and interesting to me, so it's not something stupid like you've been togeter so long that he's settled down.
Sounds like he's being a lil b**ch...lol.
Ok, no, but seriously, the only other thing that I can think of is that he's mad at you and is just trying to get you back by erasing your stuff and talking to other girls. It's really hard to say though.
Ask him up front and don't ignore it. Tell him: ';hey, why the heck did you delete all my stuff from your page? and What's up with you talking to all these other girls?';
I mean, after all, you are his girl; you should have some what of a right to know if he wants to move on. It'd be the ';man'; thing for him to do and atleast be honest and tell you.
Best of luck to you.
Hope you have some kind of resolution!
Some guys will ignore you until you go away. It also depends on how long you have been together.
Call him on it, ask him point blank... ';Are you done with me?';
Better to deal with something like this sooner rather than later.
thats a T-bReAk (tough break)
thats a T-bReAk (tough break)
thats a T-bReAk (tough break)
remember most men don't like conflict with women, he obviously has lost interest, My suggestion is to confront him straight out. Make it your decision before he breaks your heart ! You sound like your young and you have alot of good years yet to find the right guy !!
I'd proably do what he did, and try ignoring you,
Sounds like he has moved on. He just forget to tell you.
I'm not a guy but take it from someone who knows....Sorry, sweety, he lost intrest in you.....find out who this girl is he really is in love with and prepare for a Competition...Good Luck!!!! Where some thing totally HOT infront of him...Do not give up... If this guy is with you hes with you not with anyone else!!!!!!
Take some girls and talk to them on who they like too!
Just from pure observation I can tell he is trying to move on. This is kinda funny but now a days when someone deletes your comments in my space it's pretty much over, or he doesn't want any potential girl to see it. I would check his status on my space to see. Or even better, talk to him in person, ya know just try something new. I hope this helps.
-Ty
Move on, its over. Try to figure out why it ended, its usually more then 1 issue.
he seems scared to break up with you. but he could just be trying to play you and other girls
Well sounds like hes too scared to tell you hes not interested anymore. Some guys like to make the girl do the breaking up so they get away guilt free. Confront him about it, dont just sweep this under the rug.
Mabey he just thinks you guys are better as friends and is having a hard time expressing himself to you.If that is how he feels you should just decide to be friends and not have one of those ugly breakups.
try to make him more interested if you cann't move on there are other guys who will like you and care for you more
that is not good at all i really dont want to hurt your fellings but if you tell him you love him and he resonds differently than he normaly does than something is up i think you should dump him only if you think something is going on with hima dn another girl and i think if this doesnt maake you happy and he doesnt make you happy than i think you need to find your self another bf im srry if this is upsetting but you gotta do what is in your heart i wish you the best of luck i know how love hurts trust me i know girls have steped on me in every different way you could think of but you got to get right up and move on to someone better and it doesnt have to be right away i always wiat a bit befor going out and looking for someone else but i always find someone that makes me happy. if you ever need help with boys feel free to ask but if you do i want some advice about girls in retern 鈽?i need some helpif you can but i talk to you later if you wnat byGUYS Only! i need ur advice!!!!!?
hey im glad i could help im kinda new to this so if you get this id like to hear how it whent i be hear for you :)
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hmm
sorry, seems like he has lost interest
Yup, it looks like he's emotionally moved on, but just has not formally told you so. Maybe he's hoping you take a hint and just go.
I bet that once you're gone, he'll come crawling and begging to get together. I advise you that you don't. Look I've been married 10+ years, and I'm still not ';over'; my wife. She's still hot and interesting to me, so it's not something stupid like you've been togeter so long that he's settled down.
Sounds like he's being a lil b**ch...lol.
Ok, no, but seriously, the only other thing that I can think of is that he's mad at you and is just trying to get you back by erasing your stuff and talking to other girls. It's really hard to say though.
Ask him up front and don't ignore it. Tell him: ';hey, why the heck did you delete all my stuff from your page? and What's up with you talking to all these other girls?';
I mean, after all, you are his girl; you should have some what of a right to know if he wants to move on. It'd be the ';man'; thing for him to do and atleast be honest and tell you.
Best of luck to you.
Hope you have some kind of resolution!
Some guys will ignore you until you go away. It also depends on how long you have been together.
Call him on it, ask him point blank... ';Are you done with me?';
Better to deal with something like this sooner rather than later.
thats a T-bReAk (tough break)
thats a T-bReAk (tough break)
thats a T-bReAk (tough break)
remember most men don't like conflict with women, he obviously has lost interest, My suggestion is to confront him straight out. Make it your decision before he breaks your heart ! You sound like your young and you have alot of good years yet to find the right guy !!
I'd proably do what he did, and try ignoring you,
Sounds like he has moved on. He just forget to tell you.
I'm not a guy but take it from someone who knows....Sorry, sweety, he lost intrest in you.....find out who this girl is he really is in love with and prepare for a Competition...Good Luck!!!! Where some thing totally HOT infront of him...Do not give up... If this guy is with you hes with you not with anyone else!!!!!!
Take some girls and talk to them on who they like too!
Just from pure observation I can tell he is trying to move on. This is kinda funny but now a days when someone deletes your comments in my space it's pretty much over, or he doesn't want any potential girl to see it. I would check his status on my space to see. Or even better, talk to him in person, ya know just try something new. I hope this helps.
-Ty
Move on, its over. Try to figure out why it ended, its usually more then 1 issue.
he seems scared to break up with you. but he could just be trying to play you and other girls
Well sounds like hes too scared to tell you hes not interested anymore. Some guys like to make the girl do the breaking up so they get away guilt free. Confront him about it, dont just sweep this under the rug.
Mabey he just thinks you guys are better as friends and is having a hard time expressing himself to you.If that is how he feels you should just decide to be friends and not have one of those ugly breakups.
try to make him more interested if you cann't move on there are other guys who will like you and care for you more
Guys.................help i need men advice?
Ok so ive liked this guy for about 5 years - we are friends, well ';good'; friends if you know what i mean. Anyway in the taxi to his last night he said i can say this to you now im drunk............i wouldnt mind you being my girlfriend as your not a selfish cow and you wouldnt hurt me like i have been in the past.....................but when he took me home this morning we didnt talk about it. So basically i think i need to say something - i do want to go out with him - do you think i should just ask him out?
Please help.....................thanksGuys.................help i need men advice?
well the truth is siad when people are drunk.so just ask him out.whats the worst that can happen?he could say no but ull still haave you friendship.Guys.................help i need men advice?
Yeah go for it, if it doesn't work out then you can always go back to being f*ck buddies...
Simply put - yes
Sure go for it
why can't you ask a girl?
read your question and the edit it it's a bit tough to follow
Dont get your hopes built up on anything that is said while a person is drunk!
you have had sex with the man given him your most precise body.but your scared to ask him to be your man girl boo
I think you should say it - kinda just say, hey i was thinking there about what you said in the taxi the other night!! Were you actually serious?
If he doesnt remember - tell him!!!! If he gets all embarrassed I think he DID mean it! Then say you've kinda felt the same thing for a while and that ye should give it a go. Also say that in the event ye dont get on romantically that you want a pact that the friendship will never suffer
Good luck
Same thing happened to me.
It was really great while it lasted but it ended because we already knew too much about each other and we dont talk at all now.
Ruined a beautiful friendship..
I guess he loves u all these while but dint know how to tell u an thats why it took him drunk b4 he can say it out so go for him SAY YE!!!
Ask him if he remembers the convo then take it from there but it depends if you feel the same way.
Yes just ask
Please help.....................thanksGuys.................help i need men advice?
well the truth is siad when people are drunk.so just ask him out.whats the worst that can happen?he could say no but ull still haave you friendship.Guys.................help i need men advice?
Yeah go for it, if it doesn't work out then you can always go back to being f*ck buddies...
Simply put - yes
Sure go for it
why can't you ask a girl?
read your question and the edit it it's a bit tough to follow
Dont get your hopes built up on anything that is said while a person is drunk!
you have had sex with the man given him your most precise body.but your scared to ask him to be your man girl boo
I think you should say it - kinda just say, hey i was thinking there about what you said in the taxi the other night!! Were you actually serious?
If he doesnt remember - tell him!!!! If he gets all embarrassed I think he DID mean it! Then say you've kinda felt the same thing for a while and that ye should give it a go. Also say that in the event ye dont get on romantically that you want a pact that the friendship will never suffer
Good luck
Same thing happened to me.
It was really great while it lasted but it ended because we already knew too much about each other and we dont talk at all now.
Ruined a beautiful friendship..
I guess he loves u all these while but dint know how to tell u an thats why it took him drunk b4 he can say it out so go for him SAY YE!!!
Ask him if he remembers the convo then take it from there but it depends if you feel the same way.
Yes just ask
Guys please help ... i need advice!?
What sup with my boyfriend trying to hang out EVERY night!!??? HELP!?
My boyfriend asked me every night to do something? whats up with that.?
we have only been together for a little over a month and have went on 2 trips and have one planned in a few weeks.. he still asked me to do something every night. what sup with that?Guys please help ... i need advice!?
He wants to spend time with you, what's the problem?Guys please help ... i need advice!?
uh...he likes you???
And you complaining that you b/f wants to hang out with you? What is the problem there Missy? I mean you should be happy instead of complaining don't you think? A woman would be thrilled that her b'f wants to be with you.
Girl open up your eyes........SHEESH!!!!
I can't believe you think this is a problem! While I don't like to see my partner every single night of the week, I enjoy seeing him several times a week and find it a blessing.
Surely your scenario is better than if your man wanted to spend all his evenings at a strip club with his male friends, lol
Just tell him that you want to take things a little more slowly. If he's worth keeping around, he'll understand and back off a bit. If not, then tell him to jump in a lake and move on with your life.
He is clingy.
look.. just tell him.. one extreme is not better than the other... maybe you can do a week where you see each other every night than go a week where you see each other every three days...
that or make plans with your g/f's and tell him it's a girl's nite out...
is it something that needs help.. only because you feel like it does... I've known people who date who are with each other every date and enjoy that... do everything together and are happy ....
here's a key question, so what would you be doing if he didn't hang out with you every night??? is it doing so much so often together that scares you, or do you still feel the need to not feel so commited so quickly.... or is there something about they way he is, when you see each other all the time, that bugs you or makes you think less of him???
He seems insecure and clingy. Its ok for you to say that you are doing something with someone else.
What can I say shey, you must have some good stuff and he know's it. You need to just let him know that you need to slow down and that you don't need to be with him every night. But do it in a nice way where he can get the point. If that doesn't work then you should tell him that your going out with your friends every now and again.
Peace,
The Truth
My boyfriend asked me every night to do something? whats up with that.?
we have only been together for a little over a month and have went on 2 trips and have one planned in a few weeks.. he still asked me to do something every night. what sup with that?Guys please help ... i need advice!?
He wants to spend time with you, what's the problem?Guys please help ... i need advice!?
uh...he likes you???
And you complaining that you b/f wants to hang out with you? What is the problem there Missy? I mean you should be happy instead of complaining don't you think? A woman would be thrilled that her b'f wants to be with you.
Girl open up your eyes........SHEESH!!!!
I can't believe you think this is a problem! While I don't like to see my partner every single night of the week, I enjoy seeing him several times a week and find it a blessing.
Surely your scenario is better than if your man wanted to spend all his evenings at a strip club with his male friends, lol
Just tell him that you want to take things a little more slowly. If he's worth keeping around, he'll understand and back off a bit. If not, then tell him to jump in a lake and move on with your life.
He is clingy.
look.. just tell him.. one extreme is not better than the other... maybe you can do a week where you see each other every night than go a week where you see each other every three days...
that or make plans with your g/f's and tell him it's a girl's nite out...
is it something that needs help.. only because you feel like it does... I've known people who date who are with each other every date and enjoy that... do everything together and are happy ....
here's a key question, so what would you be doing if he didn't hang out with you every night??? is it doing so much so often together that scares you, or do you still feel the need to not feel so commited so quickly.... or is there something about they way he is, when you see each other all the time, that bugs you or makes you think less of him???
He seems insecure and clingy. Its ok for you to say that you are doing something with someone else.
What can I say shey, you must have some good stuff and he know's it. You need to just let him know that you need to slow down and that you don't need to be with him every night. But do it in a nice way where he can get the point. If that doesn't work then you should tell him that your going out with your friends every now and again.
Peace,
The Truth
GUYS HELP...I NEED SEXUAL ADVICE BEFORE ITS TOO LATE...ASAP.?
We have had sex only twice
It was pretty normal
He penetrated (vagina)
I gave him oral and thats it
I want to have some fun
Sex was good but not good enough
What can i do to make it better,fun and wild next time it happens?
No rude comments but i'm open to anything
Any opinion is welcomeGUYS HELP...I NEED SEXUAL ADVICE BEFORE ITS TOO LATE...ASAP.?
first off im a guy so I will give you male perspective. You must be honest. Confess your fantasies to each other. Tell him,'; That was good, but do you know what I really want...' And honestly, a bit of reading on his part could do the trick. But also, what do you want better? If he doesnt last long thats tricky, but spicing things up is a bit easier. I dont want to be to graphic, but tell him to do things that turn you on. Tell him to give you oral too, or to play with you down there during intercourse, talk dirty, role play, etc. The solutions are obvious but its communicating it to him that will be difficult. Just be honest and tell him what you would want. If you dont, the male ego will naturally assume that everything is okay when its not. And if he gets very defensive about this rather than being understanding, i hate to say it but it probably wont change. Best of luck!
It was pretty normal
He penetrated (vagina)
I gave him oral and thats it
I want to have some fun
Sex was good but not good enough
What can i do to make it better,fun and wild next time it happens?
No rude comments but i'm open to anything
Any opinion is welcomeGUYS HELP...I NEED SEXUAL ADVICE BEFORE ITS TOO LATE...ASAP.?
first off im a guy so I will give you male perspective. You must be honest. Confess your fantasies to each other. Tell him,'; That was good, but do you know what I really want...' And honestly, a bit of reading on his part could do the trick. But also, what do you want better? If he doesnt last long thats tricky, but spicing things up is a bit easier. I dont want to be to graphic, but tell him to do things that turn you on. Tell him to give you oral too, or to play with you down there during intercourse, talk dirty, role play, etc. The solutions are obvious but its communicating it to him that will be difficult. Just be honest and tell him what you would want. If you dont, the male ego will naturally assume that everything is okay when its not. And if he gets very defensive about this rather than being understanding, i hate to say it but it probably wont change. Best of luck!
Guys i need help other advice welcome...?
my 19th bday is on the 23 of dis month n my fiancee asked me bout wat do i like most gold or silver?i had told him b4 i hate it when guys go n get expensive stuff for me cuz i feel guilty bout it my ex's neva got dat either but w/e anyways my question is do u have ny idea y he would ask wat i like gold or silver cuz im like wantin to know im really diffently new at mostly datin dis guy i mean he knows how i feel about expensive things but its the first real gift he told me n he wanted me to feel special plus its my 19th bday gift the other thing he is giving me is im not tellin if yall got dirty minds u guys should know lol thks for the help.Guys i need help other advice welcome...?
fiancee?
Gold?
Silver?
Okay.. first, a guy should know this already if he's your fiancee.. but being nice, I guess I'll say that he shouldn't have to know... but usually it's come up already.
I take it you don't have an engagement ring? That's sorta odd if you ARE engaged. Usually you'd already have a ring - even if it was just $20 band.
Anyway., either this guy is going to get an engagement ring because he hasn't already done so. Or he's getting SOME piece of jewelry. My wife would die if I did that for her LOL. I never buy jewelry for her.
What I suggest? He's obviously thinking about you. Go to a jewelry store just to ';window shop'; show him the types of things you like and things you don't like. Do this in front of an employee working there.. that way if he forgets something they can help remember. Also they may do things like.. figure out your ring size and whatnot without him having to ask and feel on the spot.
Some people like silver and/or gold but they like silver on one thing and gold on another.. Or they only like small amounts of it.. or large amounts. My wife is tiny so anything too big on her just looks overwhelming. But we didn't know that til we tried some things together.
I'd be excited.. he sounds sweet.Guys i need help other advice welcome...?
Just let him buy you something expencive. Obviously he likes you enough to buy something like that for you. I personally like silver, i hate gold.
Stop sweating the small stuff and let the guy like you. Choose silver because it's not really expensive at all and he can get something adorably cute from Wal-Mart and not spend a lot. Just tell him earrings or a bracelet, really very inexpensive!!! The guilt is coming from somewhere, but I wonder where?
So, if you choose silver and you two break up later down the road, you won't have to feel guilty because he didn't spend a lot of money on you.
Relax and allow someone to care a little bit. It could be that this is simply to make him feel good too. You can always return it poilitely if it doesn't work out. Give him a chance!
he is trying to convey his love by presenting a gift of silver/gold do not fall yourself in this love,because he is testing you weather you r money minded or not if u ask him to present silver/gold one day he will give you a baby when u ask him to marry u he will give u wat u ask earlier in your birthday.
Grasp the English language and try to put together an intelligent question. In your case a gold or silver plated dictionary would do you wonders.
probably looking at a nice watch or bracelet cool it chick it ain't no ring
tell him you want a diamond. lol. if he's asking you what you really want just tell him what you want even if it's not silver or gold. what matters is his presence. much better if you give him a hint that you want a surprise.
White gold is most beautiful.And by the way I am born on 23 of July.Happy Birthday:)
depends on what looks good on you if you dark gold and have fun with the other gift
just ask him for platnium
no gold no silver
Just answer him according to your preferences..maybe its just a simple everday question...if he is really into buying you a gift that is made of gold or silver then it is his way of materiaaly expressing his love to you..people dont choose gifts they are given..so please dont worry yourself and answer your guy..!skin care cosmetics
fiancee?
Gold?
Silver?
Okay.. first, a guy should know this already if he's your fiancee.. but being nice, I guess I'll say that he shouldn't have to know... but usually it's come up already.
I take it you don't have an engagement ring? That's sorta odd if you ARE engaged. Usually you'd already have a ring - even if it was just $20 band.
Anyway., either this guy is going to get an engagement ring because he hasn't already done so. Or he's getting SOME piece of jewelry. My wife would die if I did that for her LOL. I never buy jewelry for her.
What I suggest? He's obviously thinking about you. Go to a jewelry store just to ';window shop'; show him the types of things you like and things you don't like. Do this in front of an employee working there.. that way if he forgets something they can help remember. Also they may do things like.. figure out your ring size and whatnot without him having to ask and feel on the spot.
Some people like silver and/or gold but they like silver on one thing and gold on another.. Or they only like small amounts of it.. or large amounts. My wife is tiny so anything too big on her just looks overwhelming. But we didn't know that til we tried some things together.
I'd be excited.. he sounds sweet.Guys i need help other advice welcome...?
Just let him buy you something expencive. Obviously he likes you enough to buy something like that for you. I personally like silver, i hate gold.
Stop sweating the small stuff and let the guy like you. Choose silver because it's not really expensive at all and he can get something adorably cute from Wal-Mart and not spend a lot. Just tell him earrings or a bracelet, really very inexpensive!!! The guilt is coming from somewhere, but I wonder where?
So, if you choose silver and you two break up later down the road, you won't have to feel guilty because he didn't spend a lot of money on you.
Relax and allow someone to care a little bit. It could be that this is simply to make him feel good too. You can always return it poilitely if it doesn't work out. Give him a chance!
he is trying to convey his love by presenting a gift of silver/gold do not fall yourself in this love,because he is testing you weather you r money minded or not if u ask him to present silver/gold one day he will give you a baby when u ask him to marry u he will give u wat u ask earlier in your birthday.
Grasp the English language and try to put together an intelligent question. In your case a gold or silver plated dictionary would do you wonders.
probably looking at a nice watch or bracelet cool it chick it ain't no ring
tell him you want a diamond. lol. if he's asking you what you really want just tell him what you want even if it's not silver or gold. what matters is his presence. much better if you give him a hint that you want a surprise.
White gold is most beautiful.And by the way I am born on 23 of July.Happy Birthday:)
depends on what looks good on you if you dark gold and have fun with the other gift
just ask him for platnium
no gold no silver
Just answer him according to your preferences..maybe its just a simple everday question...if he is really into buying you a gift that is made of gold or silver then it is his way of materiaaly expressing his love to you..people dont choose gifts they are given..so please dont worry yourself and answer your guy..!
Guys (or girls)...need your advice/encouragement?
just got braces...eeek...are they a big turn off..only need them for 11 months...any adviceGuys (or girls)...need your advice/encouragement?
Stick with them it will be worth it in the end.. 11 months isn't that long and the time will fly by...Guys (or girls)...need your advice/encouragement?
Smile your way out.. .
You got your teeth taken care of.., now concentrate on something else. they do not need any more attention.
Guys think they're hot if your young. Hopefully they're young too.
lots of people have to get them i wouldnt think it would be a turn off for guys be happy..only 11 months i know people that have to wear them for around 5 years!
If you need braces you need braces.
I never thought of them as a 'turn-off'.
don`t worry about them if a guy likes you it won`t matter
Well, i know what its like to have braces.
And i dont see why they have to be turn off, as long as you keep them clean. Remember to always wash your teeth after u eat so the food doesnt get stuck.
Plus, they can be fun 'cause u can change their color to match your outfit or according to the seansons.
Good luck and always remember to keep a possitive attitude cause otherwise those eleven months will feel like 11 years!!
jus wait for a while to find a guy who will like you. i helps if you dont have braces because they can scrach sometimes.
I had braces for two years, and the boys hardly noticed. Trust me.
dont worry bout the braces girly..and if anyone thinks its a turnoff wait til you get them removed and watch them all come around you ...
As long as you have a nice personality and friendly to people they will look past it. Personally I don't have a problem with it because braces will not make a girl look less hot, and I know it's not permanent so whatever.
You're probably too young for it to matter much anyway. When I was in high school I had them for 2 years, but high school doesn't matter. It was well worth it, because now that I actually have a clue about women my teeth look great. Stick it out and don't worry about what the boys are doing at your age. Trust me, people won't stop talking to you, braces are common these days.
Best advice: Grin and bear it. :)
Don't worry about them!
If a guy really likes you he'll be fine with them, plus it's only 11 months. Usually people have them for years
Stick with them it will be worth it in the end.. 11 months isn't that long and the time will fly by...Guys (or girls)...need your advice/encouragement?
Smile your way out.. .
You got your teeth taken care of.., now concentrate on something else. they do not need any more attention.
Guys think they're hot if your young. Hopefully they're young too.
lots of people have to get them i wouldnt think it would be a turn off for guys be happy..only 11 months i know people that have to wear them for around 5 years!
If you need braces you need braces.
I never thought of them as a 'turn-off'.
don`t worry about them if a guy likes you it won`t matter
Well, i know what its like to have braces.
And i dont see why they have to be turn off, as long as you keep them clean. Remember to always wash your teeth after u eat so the food doesnt get stuck.
Plus, they can be fun 'cause u can change their color to match your outfit or according to the seansons.
Good luck and always remember to keep a possitive attitude cause otherwise those eleven months will feel like 11 years!!
jus wait for a while to find a guy who will like you. i helps if you dont have braces because they can scrach sometimes.
I had braces for two years, and the boys hardly noticed. Trust me.
dont worry bout the braces girly..and if anyone thinks its a turnoff wait til you get them removed and watch them all come around you ...
As long as you have a nice personality and friendly to people they will look past it. Personally I don't have a problem with it because braces will not make a girl look less hot, and I know it's not permanent so whatever.
You're probably too young for it to matter much anyway. When I was in high school I had them for 2 years, but high school doesn't matter. It was well worth it, because now that I actually have a clue about women my teeth look great. Stick it out and don't worry about what the boys are doing at your age. Trust me, people won't stop talking to you, braces are common these days.
Best advice: Grin and bear it. :)
Don't worry about them!
If a guy really likes you he'll be fine with them, plus it's only 11 months. Usually people have them for years
Guys please, i need some advice! :)?
hey there,
any idea what i could buy my bf for christmas?Guys please, i need some advice! :)?
Christmas gift Ideas for Boyfriends :
Cologne
Sports DVD Box Sets
Books on Travel
Magazines on Beer %26amp; Brewing
Titanium Jewelry
Dress Shirts
Magazines on Sports
Games for Wii
Wii Accessories
Wrenches
HDTVs
Action %26amp; Adventure DVD Boxsets
Automotive Tools %26amp; Equipment
XBox 360 Games
XBox 360 Accessories
Magazines on Computers %26amp; the Internet
Corkscrews %26amp; Openers
Game Room Sports
RC Helicopters %26amp; Airplanes
Blues Box Sets
Portable Audio/Video
http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?i鈥?/a>
Electronics :
Kindle
iPod touch
Flip UltraHD Camcorder
Blu-ray Disc Player
Wireless Internet Camera
iPod nano
Digital SLR Camera
HD Pocket Video Camera
GPS
Portable DVD Player
Clock Radio
LCD HDTV
http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?i鈥?/a>Guys please, i need some advice! :)?
Most of the men doesnt really care about the gift unless he is gay. So think about what he needs. try to find something which will make things a little bit easier for him. Think about what he needs. Dont get something that he doesnt need such a tshirt, a cap, or jeans... He would still smile and pretend like he was happy but... Get something that will make him think that you are a smart woman.
how much you want to spend on him?
Whats he into?
check out this site, it has some cool gift ideas
http://themeroomideas.com/christmas/gift鈥?/a>
heres a better idea, buy Yourself something...crotchless *wink*
do you know the person at all you shouldnt be asking random people i mean we dont know him! pay more attention to your man and you wouldnt be asking stupid questions
bench polo shirts and pants
any idea what i could buy my bf for christmas?Guys please, i need some advice! :)?
Christmas gift Ideas for Boyfriends :
Cologne
Sports DVD Box Sets
Books on Travel
Magazines on Beer %26amp; Brewing
Titanium Jewelry
Dress Shirts
Magazines on Sports
Games for Wii
Wii Accessories
Wrenches
HDTVs
Action %26amp; Adventure DVD Boxsets
Automotive Tools %26amp; Equipment
XBox 360 Games
XBox 360 Accessories
Magazines on Computers %26amp; the Internet
Corkscrews %26amp; Openers
Game Room Sports
RC Helicopters %26amp; Airplanes
Blues Box Sets
Portable Audio/Video
http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?i鈥?/a>
Electronics :
Kindle
iPod touch
Flip UltraHD Camcorder
Blu-ray Disc Player
Wireless Internet Camera
iPod nano
Digital SLR Camera
HD Pocket Video Camera
GPS
Portable DVD Player
Clock Radio
LCD HDTV
http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?i鈥?/a>Guys please, i need some advice! :)?
Most of the men doesnt really care about the gift unless he is gay. So think about what he needs. try to find something which will make things a little bit easier for him. Think about what he needs. Dont get something that he doesnt need such a tshirt, a cap, or jeans... He would still smile and pretend like he was happy but... Get something that will make him think that you are a smart woman.
how much you want to spend on him?
Whats he into?
check out this site, it has some cool gift ideas
http://themeroomideas.com/christmas/gift鈥?/a>
heres a better idea, buy Yourself something...crotchless *wink*
do you know the person at all you shouldnt be asking random people i mean we dont know him! pay more attention to your man and you wouldnt be asking stupid questions
bench polo shirts and pants
Guys and girls i need your advice!?
well im 15 and i want to have sex with my bf.
but i don't know if ill regret it later... but i really want to do it. so does he.
is it okay to have sex before marriage? or is it really that much better afterwards? i don't know what to do. i want to do it but i don't know how i'll feel afterwards.....Guys and girls i need your advice!?
u shudnt really...
u might regret l8r..
%26amp;%26amp; its bad havin it before marriage
the guy might leave u..
coz he might not want 2 get in2 the mess after
it...Guys and girls i need your advice!?
Your only 15, dont do it yet wait! You willl def regret it later!
answermine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
well think about this
dose he like you or will he dump you if he dosent get it ?
if you think its right go for it xxx
you have doubts..wait a little so you don't regret...15 a little too young I think
The only way to find out how you would feel afterwards is to do it then you will know
its your choice. you cant ask ppl over the internet and expect to get helpfull answers.
but i don't know if ill regret it later... but i really want to do it. so does he.
is it okay to have sex before marriage? or is it really that much better afterwards? i don't know what to do. i want to do it but i don't know how i'll feel afterwards.....Guys and girls i need your advice!?
u shudnt really...
u might regret l8r..
%26amp;%26amp; its bad havin it before marriage
the guy might leave u..
coz he might not want 2 get in2 the mess after
it...Guys and girls i need your advice!?
Your only 15, dont do it yet wait! You willl def regret it later!
answermine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
well think about this
dose he like you or will he dump you if he dosent get it ?
if you think its right go for it xxx
you have doubts..wait a little so you don't regret...15 a little too young I think
The only way to find out how you would feel afterwards is to do it then you will know
its your choice. you cant ask ppl over the internet and expect to get helpfull answers.
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