Tuesday, November 22, 2011

ADVICE!!! read it please...guys and girls i need your opinions here i'm a nervous wreck!?

ok so theres this guy i havent talked to since like sophomore year in high school (we are 20 now) and recently he found me on myspace and we've been talking almost every single day....next weekend he wants me to go to a party with him and i really want to go i'm just so damn nervous!!! i mean i didnt like him back then he was WAYYYY too shy for me but i think he finally broke out of his shell and actually grew up....but does anyone have any advice for me? im a nervous wreck!!





oh yeah and hanging out before that is out of the question we both work like every day until thenADVICE!!! read it please...guys and girls i need your opinions here i'm a nervous wreck!?
Why are you putting so much pressure on yourself? Are you expecting a romantic involvement?





Just go to the party with no big expectations and have a good time. If you feel nervous and weird, it's going to be an awkward situation for you both. Be friends first. No pressure, just light-hearted fun!ADVICE!!! read it please...guys and girls i need your opinions here i'm a nervous wreck!?
The best advice I can give you is to have no preconceived notions of what he will be like. Cyberspace does not tend convey to whole picture of who a person is (eg. your life experiences, etc.). Remember, he will probably be as nervous (or more so) as you are. Men often feel they have to impress women, but you can see through his outermost self to see if he has changed over the years. Best of luck to you.
first make sure he is the same guy. Just be yourself and take your time in getting to know him. He's probally nervous too, remember that. find out his interests so you have things to talk about. Email him and have him send you a pic to make sure he's the same guy. Be safe.
Being nervous is selfish energy. He is probably just as nervous. He is just a human being. Don't freak.





Stop thinking. Let your mind focus on your present moment in front of you. When you see him just take it one minute at a time.
just go. he will be nervous too. what is the worst thing that could happen? He invited you so he wants you to be there, he isn't going to reject you. Just go and be friendly and have a good time and see what happens!!
WELL IF HE IS FINE NOW AND IS MORE OUT GOING AND NICE I WOULD ADVICE YOU TO GO W/ HIM TO THAT PARTY. IF YOU ARE OUT GOING JUX LIKE HIM THEN GO. BUT MAKE SURE THAT YOU DON'T BET TO DRUNK THAT U DON'T REMEMBER ANYTHING. AND THEN THINGS HAPPEN OKAY.
Girl go do it!!! :) You can dont be nervous I mean really!!! :) :)





Youll have a great time :))))





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haha everyone says it, be yourself, about the best information you can be given, as far as he goes, no need to change yourself or act different
Whats to be nervous about?


just chill,dress nice, be yourself.


Relax.


: )


good luck.
just go even if your nervous. he's probably nervous too....just think about having a good time rather than how nervous you are.
dress to impress (:


you can feel more confident wen you look really good. other than that i have no clue sorry ):
Go to the party and meet him. Just make sure it's the same guy before you make any moves whatsoever. Have fun!





VIVA LA RAZA!
okay then just have a chat on myspace or the phone once in like every lunchtime.....
Girl go get yo Groove on!


Make sure you look hot too.
Just go. It's just a date. Might be the best thing you ever did. If not, you reconnected with a friend. Can't lose.
How old are you? 20. Relax. It's going to be fun.
for one CHILL! if you act and become all nervous then chances are you'll do something stupid or not appeal to him.
Go ahead it never hurts to try new things:)
tell him to take one of his friends and u take one of ur friends that way u will have someone with u
tell him exactly wat u jus told us
Just go for it! He seems nice enough and you knew each other when you were younger, maybe this will be a good thing :) You'll feel better if you just go for it i guarantee. Better to go for it than to regret not doing it :) Have a stiff drink before hand or something that will calm your nerves, Chamomile tea is great for nerves, i use it a lot. A nice bath and a good nights sleep will help you too, use lavender bath wash or get some fresh lavender to put by your bed to help aid in a good nights sleep. I hope this helps a little :) Good luck! x
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