Any advice whatsoever? Girls and guys...?

My friend Natalie is 21, and she recently asked me to be her 'first'. She's depressed that she's still a virgin and basically said that she'll find some random guy in a club if not. For the record, I'm a gay man who recently lost my partner (he died) and all I want to do is run away from this as fast as possible...





Thoughts, comments?





Jason.Any advice whatsoever? Girls and guys...?
Say no.. it's not right for either of you... Tell her that you are there for her, that you care for her and hope that she finds someone she feels she can loose her virginity to when the time is right, but it isn't fair to ask you to have sex with her when she knows you have recently lost your partner - you can be good friends to each other, but should never have sexAny advice whatsoever? Girls and guys...?
no dont do it. tell her to pick up some random guy if she wants to that bad. or send her to ann summers for a rabbit. dont let her emotionally blackmail u. virginity isnt something to get rid of like an old coat and if it is to her, let her get rid of her old coat on some guy that actually wants it at a club if even for just one night. you have enough **** to deal with now.
u dont stay in scotland do you?


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Just i have a mate natalie n jason.


kinda in a similar situation?


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well do you think you can do this? Im not sure Id liked to have lost my virginity to a gay man, but maybe she feels super comfortable with you and wants to experience this with you as you wont be judging her or laughing at her for her first time?


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hiya jason,no don't do it,tell her your gay and don't let her make you feel bad.you are having a bad time yourself,with grieving and she should not be asking you to do that.stupid girl.
Say no


Advise her not to


She would regret it eventually.


The first time should be special with one loved deeply.
get running. She sounds stupid and immature, and you are gay and grieving. Look after yourself
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do ur your friend the favor