To gay guys: if you have to give an advice to a straight guy on how to understand women what it would be?

VERY good question! I am a lesbian and there's LOTS of things I could tell you that are helpful...





In bed, do it the way SHE likes it (so pay attention to her responses). Be a GOD with giving her oral or you will lose her! LOTS of foreplay. Women are not visually stimulated - you must ';preheat the oven!';





Be a good listener when she has things on her mind.





Don't talk about your exes a lot or about yourself too much unless she asks.





Don't go putting your mother before your wife - you will be labeled as a ';momma's boy'; and you'll ruin the relationship. Your lady comes first.





Say ';I'm sorry'; and admit when you're wrong.








NEVER cheat. Don't stay if she cheats.





Know that she is an emotional being and has feelings that run deep.





Fill up the tub once a week for her and give her backrubs or foot rubs before bedtime.





Pay attention to when her cycle is so you are prepared.





Watch her eyes and if she seems upset, ask her what's on her mind. Women hate clueless men.





Do NOT get into any aruments with her during her period!! You will regret it!





Don't tell her what to do or act like you own her.





NEVER EVER be physically, verbally or emotionally abusive to her. She WILL leave you.





Try helping keep up the cleanliness at home. Put your filthy clothes into that hamper and don't leave your things all over the place. Don't pee on the seat or leave the seat up! Very important!





When she tells you how she feels, DON'T start telling her how YOU feel. Just let her talk.





Hold her without getting sexual.





Do nice things for her and leave romantic notes in her top drawer and things like that.To gay guys: if you have to give an advice to a straight guy on how to understand women what it would be?
PLEASE gay men give them any advice, they can use all of it.To gay guys: if you have to give an advice to a straight guy on how to understand women what it would be?
Watch the Tao of Steve...





http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0234853/
Why do you think a gay man knows anything about a woman ? That would be like asking a turtle about flying .
no one can understand females.
This is easy one doesnt even have to be gay to understand . At first take sex out of the equation stop viewing her as a point of entry and instaed view her as your best freind . Women are actually very wonderful people one just has to go about it the right way . Other than that keep in mind women are from venus men are from way the hell over there !!!!!!
Don't even try. Just enjoy them as they are. :)
Uhm, listen to them, they're pretty easy to understand. Women love having men to talk to, so if you listen, you'll find they tell you the most wonderful and interesting things.





Make friends with women, get to know them. Even if you don't get any dates out of it, you'll still know a lot more then when you started.
dude, why does every straight man assume us gay dudes know everything about women?





this is the real world, not Queer eye for the straight guy... if i give you advice the only result will be a drain in yiur sex life... i suck with chicks (and not the same way i suck with guys ;-) )





i don't got any advice other than this: don't treat 'em like ****... unless they like that or something??





you stragight people are so wierd... i'll never understand you.
Women are and always will a mystery to men, that is how it is. They are always changing! One day you will think you understand them, and then BAM! The next day they are someone differnt!! So go for a guy, they are more less the same all the time. either way, just have fun with them and love the one your with!!!
Sorry, but I must keep track of this question.


Best wishes , Rose P.
um...why would a gay man know how to understand women? are you saying its because they're like women themselves?? that's kind of stereotypical, isn't it? There is NO ONE who understands women better than another woman. Ask a woman. No wonder your gf keeps txting me.....
2 Things. Straight men often wonder why women hang out with gay men. It's so simple-- we are looking at their eyes, not their chest. We are not preoccupied with getting in. They like being treated like people, not gummy sacks. WHich brings me to #2...


You are going to think I am being a joker, or just trying to start crap-- but I mean this... as far as sex goes.....





Get a smallish dildo, or similar. Use it, on yourself, just once. Privately, in a tub, carefully lubed. Just once. Know what it feels like to be penetrated before asking your lady to do that. It will give you much more empathy for them, and an understanding for how important ';foreplay'; is. I hear lots of straight men complain about their gf's not wanting to have sex.... they think it is easy for her to just spread her legs, and let them have their way. I think if you did this ONCE, you would discover how pleasurable it can be done, when done correctly, and how unpleasureable it is when done too quickly.