Thursday, July 29, 2010

Very serious question....the girl i like parties with other guys....i need some advice, from anybody?

Ok well my name is kevin, and im 15 and there is this girl i really like and she really likes me to (shes also 15) Right now we arent going out but we should be soon. Well recently a bunch of guys keep asking her to hang out and party and stuff and it really makes me feal bad, because i think she might get drunk or something and they might take advantage of her. I know how convincing guys can be, and if shes drunk it will be probably 10 times easier to convince her to do something. I dont know what to do....i dont wanna mention t her how it makes me feal because i dont want to sound like a control freak or somtheing...but i feal like if i dont mention it something horrible could happen to her, or even she might start liking another guy. What should i do??? Am i overexagerating or should i feal like this...Very serious question....the girl i like parties with other guys....i need some advice, from anybody?
You have every right to feel insecure about her going and partying with other guys. If you want to try and make it so that she doesn't fall to their prey, then ask her to go steady with you. That way she would be more likely to be loyal to you. But in all reality, you both are still so young and have a whole life ahead of you. Think about your future, and if you plan on having a lady at your side in the future then make sure that you have plans to take care of her. Career wise. Take care and good luck!Very serious question....the girl i like parties with other guys....i need some advice, from anybody?
Well I would say that you shouldn't feel like a control freak by letting her know that you care for her well being, and let her know that considering the fact that you're a guy, she should take heed to what you're saying also. But then again, you guys are only 15, so don't rush. In the meantime, if it makes you feel any better, the best thing you probably could do is to show up at the party yourself! lol :)
Stay away from her, she is a party girl, and even if you start going out, she will still want to party and hang with other guys. That's the type of girl she is, and that type is trouble, you don't want to fall for that type.
look bro it's okay .. I think you should warn her and ask her a couple of times not to drink alcohol .. even if you think it may bother her .. girls think different it even makes her think you're cute cause you take care of her etc .. and it can strengthen the relationship
just ask her whats she does or ask her if you can go and see what she does and you should be able to ask her because if she likes youll shell understand your concern and answer you





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Sounds like she's a girl that would rather have fun than get serious with someone.


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hmm..


ask her out before its too late.





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well, stay with her all the time lol..
ask her out and show up at the parties holding her hand so people will know to back off...
do not get involved. Shes not for you
sounds to me like she needs to know how you feel-if you never tell her, she will never know-if it pizzes her off then she is not that into you-a real person is sensitive to others opinions but not allow people to control her, explain your feelings-she is only 15-vulnerable age-be her friend since i am sure 99% she wont go to mommy dearest with these kinds of issues for fear mom will never let her go anywhere...take it one step at a time-if she tells u to f off then not the type of girl to get serious with-you cant change her so dont waste your life trying to.

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