Girls (maybe guys) I need some serious boyfriend advice?

Last week I was at my boyfriends house using his laptop. I was gonna go to a certain website, but once i typed in a key a pornsite popped up in his recent URL links. I clicked on the link to see what it was about and it said 'welcome back __username__' He came in the room and I asked him about it. He said '' oh, that was since before we were together'' then left the room. Keep in mind, I don't care if he looks at porn, he's a guy. Normally I'd blow it off but my gut was telling me to look further. Then I saw he had a profile with pictures of him on it (not clothed...i'll leave it at that). I got mad then looked at the sign up date;this past March. We started dating in November 2008. I closed the laptop got my stuff and stormed out the door where he was mowing the lawn. I yelled at him what I just saw and just caught him lying.





He said he was really sorry he lied he panicked. I drove away anyway.


I told him we were done before I left. I'm not an idiot, I don't take liars. Since then he's been texting and leaving messages saying how sorry he was he really messed up, he feels horrible about it, etc. He sent me flowers, letters explaining he wasn't thinking, he deleted that account, etc. He says he wants to earn my trust again. I saw it in his teary eyes he was truly sorry, but doesn't change the fact he did it, then lied about it.





I feel like I've been cheated on. I never, ever, put up with that drama. True he didn't make out or do anything with other girls, but he posted his junk online for other girls to see...while he was with me.





He wants me to take him back... I really want to. He's made me so much happier than all my other boyfriends. I'm 23, he's 18... I'm in NO WAY excusing his age, but he's still a man going behind my back.


I consider myself a strong girl, I do not take crap... but he was really the first guy I truly loved and know he feels the same way.





Half my friends say I should stay away, the other half say maybe he's really sorry and let him earn my trust. I'm still in between. I can't look at him the same way again, as much as I want to :(


What do YOU think?Girls (maybe guys) I need some serious boyfriend advice?
give him another chance. put him on probation. if you ever find out that he's been doing another thing like that then end it, but it sounds like you really love him, and ending it now could be a mistake you'll regret. So give him another chance, but let him know that if he ever does it again, you WILL dump his sorry butt.Girls (maybe guys) I need some serious boyfriend advice?
Well, you sound like you really like this guy. If you really, really love him, you'll learn to forgive him and give him another chance. But, if I, (stubborn as I am,) was in your situation, I would refuse to ever speak to him again and delete all his texts.





Hope I Helped, Good Luck!


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