I have the worst luck with guys and I need advice?!?

I'm a highschool freshman and in middle school I thought guys would be more grown up in highschool but I was wrong. Any guy I meet just likes me for my looks and I HATE IT. I want a guy to like me for who I am, and I do have a good personality too. And I want a guy that doesn't wanna screw around with like 10 girls, I want one that just wants ONE girl. Like me, I want one guy. I have flirted with lots of guys this whole year basically and I am sick of... but every guy I meet it never works out. Or any guy that'd ever be interested in never works out. Im told I just go for the wrong guys but those are the ones I am attracted to. I guess you could say I am attracted to the 'players' or 'bad boys'. And If I go for someone lower on the food chain I'm given crap saying I can do much better.





Girls, I just need advice. I really really want a guy but nothing ever seems to work out for me. Please help!!I have the worst luck with guys and I need advice?!?
It's a conundrum: the cool guys are the ones who can, so do, get any girl. You want the sweet guy who'll dedicate himself to just one girl, but he'd be considered lower down on the foodchain. You basically need to decide if it's more important to be popular but have to be paranoid about how secure your relationship is or have a lovely boyfriend and deal with the crap you get for it. At school I don't think the decision's that easy as romances there don't last for that long on the whole, friendships do. But later in life you'll appreciate how lucky you are when you find one of the good ones.





All I'll say is don't be cruel to a sweety if you find one. Treat him the same as you would somebody your friends thought was cool. And you know that this is your only option as players are (suprisingly) not working out for you. If you have the maturity to really be in a decent relationship then you have the maturity to deal with your friends telling you you can do better. Hopefully he'll treat you well and over time your friends will realise you couldn't have done better at all :D