What do you think of this guys? Really need your advice?

Im apart from boyfriend of 9years for study reasons %26amp; about to finish. He is so angry with me says I left him but he wanted me to finish uni. It has been hard apart. He now wants to break up altho i have waited for him ... so I say painfully say okay I will let him go but need him to return my things. He says he wont return my things then says some angry stuff then he asks for sexy photos of me etc ... When I agree to let him go he suddenly turns around asks for sexy stuff of me. He never trusts me - I am one of the most loyal people you could meet. He has no reason to not trust me. How can I reassure him cos he is being so angry %26amp; unreasonable .. I think he might bed epressed cos he's struggled with this in the past. .... I am confused - I am in another country. Dont know what to do. I say he if he wants me to move on he needs to return my things but he wont. Why? I have a few of his things %26amp; have offered to return them. I dont want this to get nasty - it hurts too much.What do you think of this guys? Really need your advice?
Sounds like there is more to it he isn't telling you everything. I know you think it's over but it isn't it's all part of the game we all play. He will calm down and call you up and act like nothing is wrong watch and see.What do you think of this guys? Really need your advice?
I want to help, but I honestly don't understand what the question is!
DO NOT GIVE HIM ANY SEXY PHOTOS because there's a good chance that he will post on them on the Internet for revenge. My fiance and I have been apart for 2 years while i was studying in another country, he loves me and he understood that chances like that don't come around often. We both dealt with this, it's not easy but it's not impossible. don't let him blame you for anything, everyone has the right to a choice and if he decided that you would still be together after you left then he should suck it up. Don't let him to play the victim and again, don't send him any photos !!!
When someone turns mad at you, it is because of what they did, not what you did. 9 years is a long time to wait.





A person who holds onto your things wants control over you, and they think your things will accomplish it. They think it will cause an effect.





I would let him keep the things, you can always get new ones. Send him back his things, but do not send sexy photos or stuff.