You have to talk to someone.
If you want to talk to your mom about it, tell her first that you don't want it going anywhere - she will probably understand.
And it looks like this girl hasn't got a lot going for her; she might even be jealous of you, and probably wants to make you feel bad for being who you are.
Try not to worry about it, and don't let her affect you. At the end of the day, it's what you think about yourself, not what she thinks about you. And it sounds like your friends are right. Don't listen to this girl. Listen to your friends, and make your own mind up. =]Mean girls. What to do about them? Girls and guys? I need your advice?
She sounds like a very immature, insecure girl that appears to be jealous and likes to bully for attention. If she upsetting you this much talk to some other friends and get their advice. I personally befriended a huge guy friend in high school and he became my body guard so everyone respected me and left me alone. Make friends with a older neighbor or friend of your brothers or cousin and explain your situation and ask for HIM to go talk to her..........and talk to your parents sometimes they do give good advice.
obviously she is really insecure about herself. dont let her break you dont let her show that it bothers you and de friend her on facebook. dont even worry about and you might be surprised telling someone may be the right thing to do at this point
Although you don't want to tell your mom or a teacher, you need to tell someone. It can be your mom, teacher, older sibling, guidance counselor, or principal. They can help!
She isn't your friend, so delete her from Facebook and Myspace. If she isn't your friend she will not be able to comment on your pictures.
And listen to your 'real' friends when they tell you you are pretty. They probably are not lying to you. You need to believe in yourself and keep up your grades. Don't let others make you feel like crap!!
I hope this helps, good luck!
Man call her out on it.
Say ';why are you messing with me is it because your jealous or something?';
If she says no, then tell her
';Well that's what girls do if there jealous of other girls.
Either that or your a lesbian?
So if your neither then back off!
Your just making yourself look stupid.';
if she tries to get close to you or lay a hand on you grab her by the wrist and wrap her skinny arm around her head and hold her in a head lock.. ask her if she wants you to let go.. tell her you just joined the schools wrestling team and suggest she should join aswell because you hear that increases breast size...
if that doesn't work Bark back in your most bitchiest voice ';who the F*CK do you think you are??'; don't doubt yourself. It's your self doubt she senses cuz she is a bully sniffing for fear.
Also it is best that you do tell someone of authourity in your school.. Shoving is considered assault and you should be able to go to school without having to worry about being her victim daily.. if she continues to be a threat to you.. continue to tell the same authourity figure so they can have hall monitors keep an eye on you.. tell everyone in the school so you get their support and eventually she becomes the embarassment. You'll be surprised at the support u will get most people would rather be safe and protect one another. If she continues they could suspend her or expell her from the school..
are you kidding? you should totally tell someone! go tell your parents right now!!! people like her usually lack self-confidence themselves, so don't let her rub off on you
she might even be jealous of you, because you sounds like a really nice and pretty girl ;)
but make sure you tell someone and put an end to this madness!
You should definitely not let your grades suffer from this because, just think about how amazing it will feel when you're heading off to a great college and really doing something with your life and shes stuck at home because she was a dumb slut who probably peaked in high school. :)
No comments:
Post a Comment