I met this girl online about a week ago and I like her. What should I do? Any way I let her know I like her without actually saying it? Help!Guys and Girls, I need some advice please?
A lot of times we want someone to know we like her by doing ONE thing, its better to let her know through a pattern of consistent things. Like... she'll know you like her after a few weeks, if you just keep in touch. You both have to have time to get to know each other and see what you have in common. Don't rush it, keep in touch, and when its time you can meet her and see who she really is.. if you meet her though be sure to meet in a safe place, try in a group and somewhere super public, cuz believe it or not there are some creepy things going on in the online dating world. Just warning you.
Try this book, ';Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus'; if you read it before you get into a relationship it will make you the best boyfriend you can be, for real, no kidding. Anyway, I included the link to the half dot com's listing. Good luck.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Some advice Please from some guys?
Hi, I met this guy online and he came over to my place and we had sex ,it was fun and then he went away for a while never heard from him he had some exam etc.After about 6 weeks he texted me asking me How I was , I ended up calling him and he wanted to catch up, nevre happened cause he wanted me to come to his place and wanted him to come to mine since we live abt 30 km from each other. I figured he just wanted sex so stopped texting him , he kept texting inspite of not getting a response and then even tried to call , so I texted him back and he started sayin he wants to he is really feeling toey etc etc but wants me to come to him again it went back and forth and final I texted him if u want it u have to come to me so he did but since he knows I live with a friend he wasn't comfortable coming to my place and having sex and leaving I don't get it what was the big deal he just wanted sex on the first place but any ways after we were done he just got dressed said he has to get back to work he says he is a doctor asked me what i was doing etc but it felt weird he seemed distant cold.Later I texted him saying thanks for coming its been 2 days he did'nt respond.
I know what I was getting into but how can you be so mechanical and mean and now I feel like **** why am I feeling so bad abt it.Some advice Please from some guys?
The problem to begin with is that you met the guy on the internet, and the first thing you guys do in person is have sex! All he really wants out of you is sex, and my advice would be to just move on.......
I know what I was getting into but how can you be so mechanical and mean and now I feel like **** why am I feeling so bad abt it.Some advice Please from some guys?
The problem to begin with is that you met the guy on the internet, and the first thing you guys do in person is have sex! All he really wants out of you is sex, and my advice would be to just move on.......
Need advice fast! Mostly for guys, but girls can answer too! PLZ help!?
OK..soooo..like i'm at my dads house(parents divorced) and we are ALWAYS out side doing something! (walkin the dog,mall,beach,anything really) And a lot of times there is a really cute guy there and it looks as tho he wants to come over and talk but my dad is there...i think my dad intimidates them. but my dad couldnt give a crap if they came over and talked to me...how can i give hem the hint that its ok to come over???Need advice fast! Mostly for guys, but girls can answer too! PLZ help!?
just motion them to come over. if they are afraid, you go to them.Need advice fast! Mostly for guys, but girls can answer too! PLZ help!?
Do it vise-verse you walk over to the instead of the other way around, start with Hi lol....=]
just wave to him and signal him over.. say, i noticed you looking and i juet wanted to know ur name.. good start..
dont, just go talk to them.............im a genius i know
Take the initiative and go over and talk to him yourself. I don't think there is much you can do to get a guy to come over if your dad is there. Or maybe you could politely suggest to your dad that he go for a walk in another direction. =)
to give them eye contact, and a friendly appearence. or u could just walk up to them if ur feeling brave enough.skin care cosmetics
just motion them to come over. if they are afraid, you go to them.Need advice fast! Mostly for guys, but girls can answer too! PLZ help!?
Do it vise-verse you walk over to the instead of the other way around, start with Hi lol....=]
just wave to him and signal him over.. say, i noticed you looking and i juet wanted to know ur name.. good start..
dont, just go talk to them.............im a genius i know
Take the initiative and go over and talk to him yourself. I don't think there is much you can do to get a guy to come over if your dad is there. Or maybe you could politely suggest to your dad that he go for a walk in another direction. =)
to give them eye contact, and a friendly appearence. or u could just walk up to them if ur feeling brave enough.
Need Advice from girls !! n guys too..pls dont be rude..?
okay, I met this girl over facebook %26amp; we decided to meet after 2 days .... I asked wat wud u like ? dinner or coffee or something else ? ...she said watever u want ..then i asked her , how abt dinner outside %26amp; movie at my place she said okay. I dont know wats her intention is ..is she looking to sleep with me n go away ...or its just fine ?..BTW I am new to US so dont have any idea about online dating...pls need advice ...
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she gave me her number also but we neverspoke over phone....
Well from Facbook profile she is school girl with lots of frens...seems not fake one.. she recently broke up with his bf ..idk wat to do...Need Advice from girls !! n guys too..pls dont be rude..?
Well i don't know anything about online dating but...you should call her.Talk for a few minutes (im sure you can come up with something to talk about for a minute) then tell her that ';you have to run and do something real fast and for HER to call YOU later today and maybe yall can make plans together.If she calls then you are in.And if she wants to sleep with you i dont know you'll have to be able to read her vibes when it comes to that make your move but dont be too strong and see how she reacts...hope i helpNeed Advice from girls !! n guys too..pls dont be rude..?
Now that is a tough situation. Since you are new to the U.S let me clue you in. there are girls here you will just go to your house just to sleep with you. But then there are the girls who really just want to get to know you better. Here's how to tell the difference... if she's all over you when she's in house she 's just looking for sex.
okay, try not to get your emotions involved , since she just broke up with her bf, you might just be a rebound
if her and her boyfriend just broke up, you might be just a rebound, but if she doesn't seem like that type of person, maybe she just wants to be friends
it all depends on her personality actually
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she gave me her number also but we neverspoke over phone....
Well from Facbook profile she is school girl with lots of frens...seems not fake one.. she recently broke up with his bf ..idk wat to do...Need Advice from girls !! n guys too..pls dont be rude..?
Well i don't know anything about online dating but...you should call her.Talk for a few minutes (im sure you can come up with something to talk about for a minute) then tell her that ';you have to run and do something real fast and for HER to call YOU later today and maybe yall can make plans together.If she calls then you are in.And if she wants to sleep with you i dont know you'll have to be able to read her vibes when it comes to that make your move but dont be too strong and see how she reacts...hope i helpNeed Advice from girls !! n guys too..pls dont be rude..?
Now that is a tough situation. Since you are new to the U.S let me clue you in. there are girls here you will just go to your house just to sleep with you. But then there are the girls who really just want to get to know you better. Here's how to tell the difference... if she's all over you when she's in house she 's just looking for sex.
okay, try not to get your emotions involved , since she just broke up with her bf, you might just be a rebound
if her and her boyfriend just broke up, you might be just a rebound, but if she doesn't seem like that type of person, maybe she just wants to be friends
it all depends on her personality actually
Some advice Please from some guys?
Hi, I met this guy online and he came over to my place and we had sex ,it was fun and then he went away for a while never heard from him he had some exam etc.After about 6 weeks he texted me asking me How I was , I ended up calling him and he wanted to catch up, nevre happened cause he wanted me to come to his place and wanted him to come to mine since we live abt 30 km from each other. I figured he just wanted sex so stopped texting him , he kept texting inspite of not getting a response and then even tried to call , so I texted him back and he started sayin he wants to he is really feeling toey etc etc but wants me to come to him again it went back and forth and final I texted him if u want it u have to come to me so he did but since he knows I live with a friend he wasn't comfortable coming to my place and having sex and leaving I don't get it what was the big deal he just wanted sex on the first place but any ways after we were done he just got dressed said he has to get back to work he says he is a doctor asked me what i was doing etc but it felt weird he seemed distant cold.Later I texted him saying thanks for coming its been 2 days he did'nt respond.
I know what I was getting into but how can you be so mechanical and mean and now I feel like **** why am I feeling so bad abt it.Some advice Please from some guys?
its only normal to not feel good about it when you think someone only wants you for sex.
When you have sex with someone your giving them yourself ...your becoming one person with them ...its only natural for that to give you strong feelings! thats why waiting untill you REALLY know someone good...and feel like you really care about them or love them is a good idea.
dont get me wrong though ive been in the same situation ...i had sex with my boyfriend the first night i met him ...all though we had been talking for a few weeks...if i could go back i DEFINITELY wouldnt have done thatSome advice Please from some guys?
you're feeling bad about it because you felt like you were used...and the truth is is that you were....unfortunately...you're need for love has made you want to please a man by giving him sexual favors in return for the love that you want, not the love that you need...true love comes from God, and that goes for both women and men. How can you expect to find love from someone that was most likely never even shown any real love growin up themselves? you can't. look for love within, focus on what you love to do, give to the world genuinely and the world will give you back genuinely...then you won't have any need for pretty much anyone...expect God...btw...that's bull...homeboy isn't a doctor...lol...some guys will say absolutely anything to get in your pants...what a jerk. Forgive and move on...that's the only thing that you can do really.
I know what I was getting into but how can you be so mechanical and mean and now I feel like **** why am I feeling so bad abt it.Some advice Please from some guys?
its only normal to not feel good about it when you think someone only wants you for sex.
When you have sex with someone your giving them yourself ...your becoming one person with them ...its only natural for that to give you strong feelings! thats why waiting untill you REALLY know someone good...and feel like you really care about them or love them is a good idea.
dont get me wrong though ive been in the same situation ...i had sex with my boyfriend the first night i met him ...all though we had been talking for a few weeks...if i could go back i DEFINITELY wouldnt have done thatSome advice Please from some guys?
you're feeling bad about it because you felt like you were used...and the truth is is that you were....unfortunately...you're need for love has made you want to please a man by giving him sexual favors in return for the love that you want, not the love that you need...true love comes from God, and that goes for both women and men. How can you expect to find love from someone that was most likely never even shown any real love growin up themselves? you can't. look for love within, focus on what you love to do, give to the world genuinely and the world will give you back genuinely...then you won't have any need for pretty much anyone...expect God...btw...that's bull...homeboy isn't a doctor...lol...some guys will say absolutely anything to get in your pants...what a jerk. Forgive and move on...that's the only thing that you can do really.
Need advice immediatly. girls and guys thoughts?
I'm shy around new people and especially girls and I just need a little advice on how to approach they. When I see a girl I like I would normally walk up to her and introduce myself. Then I normally ask questions like where she's from, what school she goes to( I'm in college) and what's she's doing there. I then normally ask if she is single and then compliment her after that and after that I'm nomally done. I ask her for her # and if she gives it to me I tell her ill ttyl but if she doesn't I just say I'll see you around. I know its very short and its not really appealing so is there anything I can do to improve this or is there any advice because I really like a girl on campus n I want to walk up to her but don't want to get turned downNeed advice immediatly. girls and guys thoughts?
What you do is exactly right. I am not sure what would improve it.Need advice immediatly. girls and guys thoughts?
that's the right way to do, but some time girls find this is boring, cause every guy who want go out with them ask the same questions. you are just one of these normal guy. be creative and make them laugh. Girl like fun guys!
What you do is exactly right. I am not sure what would improve it.Need advice immediatly. girls and guys thoughts?
that's the right way to do, but some time girls find this is boring, cause every guy who want go out with them ask the same questions. you are just one of these normal guy. be creative and make them laugh. Girl like fun guys!
Need advice from girls and guys!!?
I like this girl and she likes me and i wanna ask her out, Theres a semi formal coming up at my skool in early december and i wanna go with her, but should i ask her out on a date and date for a week or two then ask her to the semi or should i ask her if shed like to go with me as in tht being a date? Also wut should i say when asking her out cuz im kinda shy at this stuffNeed advice from girls and guys!!?
If you want to ask her out then go on ahead and do it! Well i think you should ask her to the semi and say like...Hey i was wondering if you would like to be my date to the semi. i mean if she says no then ask just to be friend. but if she says yes well then it looks like a start to a happy beginning:PNeed advice from girls and guys!!?
the dance would make a cute 1st date.
just ask her if she wants to go with you it doesn't have to be anything special just a ';hey do u wanna go to the dance with me?'; and smile. always smile.
i think you should ask her to the semi formal. just say '; the semi formal is coming up and i was wondering if u would like to go with me as my date'; simple as that. *good luck*
pass her a not ask her if she wants to go to the movies, see how it goes then ask her to semi formal, dont jump the gun.
take the risk and ask her to the semi formal life is about taking risk.
just ask her to the semi and see were it goes
If you want to ask her out then go on ahead and do it! Well i think you should ask her to the semi and say like...Hey i was wondering if you would like to be my date to the semi. i mean if she says no then ask just to be friend. but if she says yes well then it looks like a start to a happy beginning:PNeed advice from girls and guys!!?
the dance would make a cute 1st date.
just ask her if she wants to go with you it doesn't have to be anything special just a ';hey do u wanna go to the dance with me?'; and smile. always smile.
i think you should ask her to the semi formal. just say '; the semi formal is coming up and i was wondering if u would like to go with me as my date'; simple as that. *good luck*
pass her a not ask her if she wants to go to the movies, see how it goes then ask her to semi formal, dont jump the gun.
take the risk and ask her to the semi formal life is about taking risk.
just ask her to the semi and see were it goes
鉁锯湌鉁掆湌鉁扜IRLS ADVICE NEEDED IMMEDIATELY PLEASE (guys too if they want)?
Ok to start off, there is this girl I really really really like. She is a junior in high school and I am a freshmen in college! I had known her since my junior year and we have bee nreally really good friends for so long and last year Im 100 percent sure she really liked me cause she would always flirt with me and would ask me to walk her to class and whenever I was talking to another girl, she would come by and talk to me to get my attention. SO, as months passed by and stuff I feel deeply in love with her. seriously, she is the most amazing girl I have ever met. She has the most beautiful smile and laugh. I want her so bad. But the problem is this: I was on facebook the other day and she said she didnt want to talk to any guys anymore and that she wanted time to think things out. Im scared that she may have found another boyfriend. Seriously when I say this girl is amazing, she really is. this is the kind of girl I want to spend the rest of my life with you know!!!!!!!!鉁锯湌鉁掆湌鉁扜IRLS ADVICE NEEDED IMMEDIATELY PLEASE (guys too if they want)?
hey i am muslim too and i know what you mean when you say the rules r different. but i do think u should talk to her personally and in private but only if u r truly sure that she likes u even if it is just a little and you u know wat u r so lucky to have found someone like that cause i have not but i would also suggest talking to your dad and your mom or whichever one you r more comfortable with but u know wat if u find someone like this u got to go for them cause if u don't then you will always wonder wat it could have been like.
well asalamalakum brother and good luck and email me if you need some more advice.鉁锯湌鉁掆湌鉁扜IRLS ADVICE NEEDED IMMEDIATELY PLEASE (guys too if they want)?
She doesnt love you so give up already.
hey i am muslim too and i know what you mean when you say the rules r different. but i do think u should talk to her personally and in private but only if u r truly sure that she likes u even if it is just a little and you u know wat u r so lucky to have found someone like that cause i have not but i would also suggest talking to your dad and your mom or whichever one you r more comfortable with but u know wat if u find someone like this u got to go for them cause if u don't then you will always wonder wat it could have been like.
well asalamalakum brother and good luck and email me if you need some more advice.鉁锯湌鉁掆湌鉁扜IRLS ADVICE NEEDED IMMEDIATELY PLEASE (guys too if they want)?
She doesnt love you so give up already.
Any advice here 10 points!!!!(guys and girls can both answer)????
Okay so this guy I've liked all year who I think likes me back sighned my yearbook. Today I was gonna ask him for his phone number but didn't need to because he wrote it in my year book and said thanx for everything this year and for being my buddy. then he tried to put his arm around me alot today since it was the last full day of school and he also came over at lunch, so I'm pretty sure he likes me and I've flirted back and found sucess. But should I call him over the summer and what should i talk about i def. want to ask him to go somewhere?
we're in highschool .why did he choose today out of all days to give me his number?
I'm thinking of giving mine to him too.
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we're in highschoolAny advice here 10 points!!!!(guys and girls can both answer)????
ahh that's so good! you're lucky that guy had the courage to do that, because all my guy friends say that it takes a LOT of prep talking from themselves, and their friends, to get up and make a major move on with a girl.
call him like 3 days after school is over and be like ';hey its ___! yeah i was thinking about going 2 the movies later...______ seems soo funny. you wanna come?';
guys LOVE funny movies, and its never really awkward or anything cuz you could always be like ';haha omg that must REALLY hurt!'; or something like that when the dude gets hit in the ****.
when you call him, ur # will be in his fone and he'll def add it.
make sure he doesnt forget about you so text him like a few times a day and maybe skip a day to play hard to get/not get too annoying.
and he chose today because its his last chance to let you know he likes you! he probably wanted a good impression of himself on you for the summer. instead of being ';the shy guy from chemistry';, he wanted 2 be ';the cute guy who wrote his number in my yearbook';.
good luck, this should be a fun summer romance!
hope that helped :)Any advice here 10 points!!!!(guys and girls can both answer)????
Definately call him girl!!!! Congrats, it does sound like he likes you. I would definately recommend calling him to ask him to a movie or coffee or something. If it's too much for you to go on a date alone with him at first, just ask him if he wants to come with you and a few friends to dinner or to a movie or something. If you just want to call and talk, ask him about his summer, or what plans he has for the fourth( a great way to make plans together for that occasion), or if he has plans for the summer. Good luck hunny!!!
OK, this is easy. Since he's already given you the green light by flirting with you I'd definitely call him! But, wait at least a week to a week in a half before calling him ok? Also, when you see him on the very last day of school, give him a hug and maybe slip him your number and tell him that you'll miss him over summer break but maybe you guys can chill. Don't ask,just tell him. See where it goes from there. Good luck!
Most people find the last day of school very motivational. I remember one year where I did that too. You should most definitely call him over the summer. Ask him how his summer is going and if he has plans like a vacation or a job? Then slip in the ';we should hangout sometime, how about this weekend'; or something like that. Im sure he will be all over it.
dont just randomly give him your number. if you havnt signed his year book, then you should write your number in it. and i wouldnt call him yet. its too soon. if you have a facebook, myspace, or aim you could ask him to hang out that way. you could ask him to a movie or out to ice cream or something. or even text him cause a phone call just might be bit awkward.
hmmm.... i think the reason why people tend to choose the last day of school to tell you is because if you don't like them back... they don't have to live through the rest of the school year being embarassed and such things...
anyways.... you should talk about things that you find interesting.... and get to know him better.... and then, if you're feeling up to it... go ahead and ask him if he wants to go somewhere with you!
i hope this helps! :)
I'd just call him and start out with some small talk and then ask what his plans are for the summer.. listen to him and when you feel like its the right time (if there is one at all) then just ask if he'd like to hang out sometime. There's nothing wrong with wanting to get to know someone. Best of luck to you!! :)
It's GREAT!!! I think a ';friendship'; during vacations is WAY better than a romance in school, cuz you can go to his home and chat and stuff! seriously! Call him!, i think because of how he acted, he might be a bit shy or sth... just make sure it lasts... call him, something will come to your mind!
I think u should call him. I mean if he really didnt want u to call him, he wouldn't have given u his #. Call him and talk fer a bit. Ask if u guys could hang out for a bit as friends. Like casually. And then. if there is success, hook up!
he waited til today because he realized it was his last chance and he has been too scared to make his move... wait a couple days and get him thinking... then you should call him and invite him over to watch a movie or something like that... good luck
you should soo call him just talk about stuff like how you should hangout during the summer and stuff good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and r u def cuz you said i def lol?
Okayyy lets see
well its sounds like he doesnt know if he likes you or not but i would say call him and talk to him about a new movie you wanna watch and then ask him if he wants to watch it and is he says yes then say do you wanna go watch it together? and ADVICE sometimes when a guy puts his arm around u its just joking i think because i have a GREAT BUD BOY thats a friend thing and he does that to me all the time ahaha its fun
but in my opinion and eyes his ALL FOR IT%26lt;3
-thanx for answering my question it helped.x3
First of a all Congrats on completing you another high school year. Now to answer your question on why he waited so long...maybe hes shy...even though he might now come across to you as being a shy person....I mean it could be various reason...he could be afraid of rejection...ormaybe you two are friends and he didnt want to ask you out afriad of you saying no and then messing up the friendship.
My advice to you is...well you mentioned that you flirted with him and got some good feed back....so if you happen to see him at school again (im not sure if you guys have to go back for finals) just write your number down on a piece of paper give him a hug..wish him a nice summer and tell him to give you a call shortly if he wants to hangs out.
If you dont want to do that...next time you see him...just be like...';we should do something this summer'; im sure he will be like ';definetly'; then just be like ';may I call you at the number you left on the yearbook?'; if he says yes...THEN write down yours and give it to him.
Now your wondering what to talk about....well depending how long it takes for him to call...talk about what youve done over the summer...or what you plan on doing over the summer...maybe about a new movie coming out (you two should watch the movie ';Strangers';) its a geat movie. Or look up something you want to do nearby and tell him about it... (new miniture golf course, go-karts, pool, bowling, or just a walk by the beach)
Its summer time enjoy!!skin care cosmetics
we're in highschool .why did he choose today out of all days to give me his number?
I'm thinking of giving mine to him too.
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we're in highschoolAny advice here 10 points!!!!(guys and girls can both answer)????
ahh that's so good! you're lucky that guy had the courage to do that, because all my guy friends say that it takes a LOT of prep talking from themselves, and their friends, to get up and make a major move on with a girl.
call him like 3 days after school is over and be like ';hey its ___! yeah i was thinking about going 2 the movies later...______ seems soo funny. you wanna come?';
guys LOVE funny movies, and its never really awkward or anything cuz you could always be like ';haha omg that must REALLY hurt!'; or something like that when the dude gets hit in the ****.
when you call him, ur # will be in his fone and he'll def add it.
make sure he doesnt forget about you so text him like a few times a day and maybe skip a day to play hard to get/not get too annoying.
and he chose today because its his last chance to let you know he likes you! he probably wanted a good impression of himself on you for the summer. instead of being ';the shy guy from chemistry';, he wanted 2 be ';the cute guy who wrote his number in my yearbook';.
good luck, this should be a fun summer romance!
hope that helped :)Any advice here 10 points!!!!(guys and girls can both answer)????
Definately call him girl!!!! Congrats, it does sound like he likes you. I would definately recommend calling him to ask him to a movie or coffee or something. If it's too much for you to go on a date alone with him at first, just ask him if he wants to come with you and a few friends to dinner or to a movie or something. If you just want to call and talk, ask him about his summer, or what plans he has for the fourth( a great way to make plans together for that occasion), or if he has plans for the summer. Good luck hunny!!!
OK, this is easy. Since he's already given you the green light by flirting with you I'd definitely call him! But, wait at least a week to a week in a half before calling him ok? Also, when you see him on the very last day of school, give him a hug and maybe slip him your number and tell him that you'll miss him over summer break but maybe you guys can chill. Don't ask,just tell him. See where it goes from there. Good luck!
Most people find the last day of school very motivational. I remember one year where I did that too. You should most definitely call him over the summer. Ask him how his summer is going and if he has plans like a vacation or a job? Then slip in the ';we should hangout sometime, how about this weekend'; or something like that. Im sure he will be all over it.
dont just randomly give him your number. if you havnt signed his year book, then you should write your number in it. and i wouldnt call him yet. its too soon. if you have a facebook, myspace, or aim you could ask him to hang out that way. you could ask him to a movie or out to ice cream or something. or even text him cause a phone call just might be bit awkward.
hmmm.... i think the reason why people tend to choose the last day of school to tell you is because if you don't like them back... they don't have to live through the rest of the school year being embarassed and such things...
anyways.... you should talk about things that you find interesting.... and get to know him better.... and then, if you're feeling up to it... go ahead and ask him if he wants to go somewhere with you!
i hope this helps! :)
I'd just call him and start out with some small talk and then ask what his plans are for the summer.. listen to him and when you feel like its the right time (if there is one at all) then just ask if he'd like to hang out sometime. There's nothing wrong with wanting to get to know someone. Best of luck to you!! :)
It's GREAT!!! I think a ';friendship'; during vacations is WAY better than a romance in school, cuz you can go to his home and chat and stuff! seriously! Call him!, i think because of how he acted, he might be a bit shy or sth... just make sure it lasts... call him, something will come to your mind!
I think u should call him. I mean if he really didnt want u to call him, he wouldn't have given u his #. Call him and talk fer a bit. Ask if u guys could hang out for a bit as friends. Like casually. And then. if there is success, hook up!
he waited til today because he realized it was his last chance and he has been too scared to make his move... wait a couple days and get him thinking... then you should call him and invite him over to watch a movie or something like that... good luck
you should soo call him just talk about stuff like how you should hangout during the summer and stuff good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and r u def cuz you said i def lol?
Okayyy lets see
well its sounds like he doesnt know if he likes you or not but i would say call him and talk to him about a new movie you wanna watch and then ask him if he wants to watch it and is he says yes then say do you wanna go watch it together? and ADVICE sometimes when a guy puts his arm around u its just joking i think because i have a GREAT BUD BOY thats a friend thing and he does that to me all the time ahaha its fun
but in my opinion and eyes his ALL FOR IT%26lt;3
-thanx for answering my question it helped.x3
First of a all Congrats on completing you another high school year. Now to answer your question on why he waited so long...maybe hes shy...even though he might now come across to you as being a shy person....I mean it could be various reason...he could be afraid of rejection...ormaybe you two are friends and he didnt want to ask you out afriad of you saying no and then messing up the friendship.
My advice to you is...well you mentioned that you flirted with him and got some good feed back....so if you happen to see him at school again (im not sure if you guys have to go back for finals) just write your number down on a piece of paper give him a hug..wish him a nice summer and tell him to give you a call shortly if he wants to hangs out.
If you dont want to do that...next time you see him...just be like...';we should do something this summer'; im sure he will be like ';definetly'; then just be like ';may I call you at the number you left on the yearbook?'; if he says yes...THEN write down yours and give it to him.
Now your wondering what to talk about....well depending how long it takes for him to call...talk about what youve done over the summer...or what you plan on doing over the summer...maybe about a new movie coming out (you two should watch the movie ';Strangers';) its a geat movie. Or look up something you want to do nearby and tell him about it... (new miniture golf course, go-karts, pool, bowling, or just a walk by the beach)
Its summer time enjoy!!
More advice! serious this time GUYS only?
Ight so check this out, last night my parents through this crazzy az party cause they are tight like that but anyways,there was this chick here and she is a dime piece like fine as hell and she was all over me and was like my b pong partner all night hella fun n stuff, but then she told me she had a kid, but anyways i am only 17 i turn 18 in three months and she turns 21 in two months.... Im not lookin for a serious relationship or anything but, WHAT IF. i know i would be financially stable, i mean i have a job and my family comes from money but should i go for it anyways, or what? I need some help on this one!More advice! serious this time GUYS only?
Yes.
Yes.
Ladies give me some advice on how the good guys can finish first?
look i can only put this in som many words i like this girl who like bad guys she look at me as a brother and all but i look at her like a girl i would like to go out with
she got a boy friend now thats a bad boy and i dont want tosee her get hurt i just like her to much and im sick of hearing how the good guy has to wait because frankly its b/s
I dont want to wait for a girl i like to be so she can see the good guy i want her now so i can protect her frome all that
i just wish she could see me for dating material
please give me some advice i realy need itLadies give me some advice on how the good guys can finish first?
Step out on faith, and just ask the girl out and come at her with all your cards out there on the table, and say I like you I want to show you how you should be treated and what I can offer you and if you come at her real sincere like that she'll respond or she's just an idiot and you dont need her in the first place!!! keep your head up there good women out there...Ladies give me some advice on how the good guys can finish first?
Sorry to say be your are going have to wait if you really want this girl. She has to get tired of being treat like crap. However, some women never grow out of this. They like the abuse or they think they change a ';bad boy';. If this is the case with this girl then all you can do is be a friend to her. And you will have to move on to a woman who can appreciate the fact that you would treat them like a princess.
its too bad this girl doesnt realize what a good guy you are. some girls like the bad boys, theyre fun and exciting. i used to be one of those girls, till i grew up and changed my priorities and standards. i got tired of being treated like crap by the bad boy. it may not meant to be for you two right now.
My best advice to you is to just be there for her when she gets hurt, and I'm sure she will. Hopefully at that point she will see you in a different light. I wouldn't make a move while she is dating someone else because that would include you in the ';bad'; boy category showing no respect.
The jerk have all the moves down. Girls see this and they think they are being swept off their feet, but in reality they are just being swept of their senses. You have to be the nice guy you are now, but you got to learn the moves of the jerk. It is hard to do and will take time but look at how the jerks treat the girls, not the ignore her for beer part, Pay attention to the charming, confident part, thats what the jerks have that the nice guys don't
I can answer this with just one word~~ Jealous
they cant
For some reason a lot of us tend to gravitate to the ';bad boys';. I found out that when I went through that period in my life it was really because I didn't feel good enough about myself and that made me think that any decent man wouldn't want anything to do with me. We tend to reach out to men who will not reject us, and usually with bb's they don't reject; they don't have enough care in them to reject women, they just simply use them until they've used them up. As for your friend; continue to support her. Love her-but since she sees u only as a friend, I would suggest that you love her from afar. No matter how much u try to show her his bad points she will see it as jealousy, and that can possibly put a gap into your relationship with her. The worst mistakes make for the best lessons in life....Let her go through what she needs to, u just simply b there for her when she needs u (and believe me she will need u). Maybe one day her seeing u being there and not judging her might convince her that you're the right one for her.
Unfortunately, girls won't see you for the great catch you are until after they've been kicked around by a few jerks. Check back with her around her 35th birthday. In the meantime, walk away. Desperation is not even remotely sexy, and it won't make you feel any better anyway.
If she is really your friend- Dont give her advice. She will gravitate toward the bad guy. Just be there as her friend and if you have the chance let her know you like her more than as a friend. Never know what can happen. Just be there as her friend afterward no matter if she ever sees you as dating material.
jealous
STAY AWAY! LET HER DEAL WITH HER OWN MISTAKE ,AND AS A MAN YOU DON`T TRY TO STEAL SOMEONE ELSE WOMAN WHILE CRYING ON HER SHOULDER;UNTIL SHE IS FREE ON HER OWN YOU DON`T ACT.YOU WOULDN`T LIKE FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO STEAL YOURS.THE SOONER YOU STAY AWAY THE LESS PAIN FULL THE HEARTACHE;YOU ARE TOO ATTACHED TO HER,SAVE YOURSELF AND FOCUS ON SOMEONE THAT IS FREE WITH NO BAGGAGE.IF YOU KEEP AT IT ,YOU WILL LOOSE HER RESPECT AND WILL FEEL THAT YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT FOR HER.
The meek shall inherit the earth - The Bible.
Just be around her when she needs someone. Sooner or later, this bad guy will show her why he is the bad guy and thats where you will step in. But its true that goods guys finish last. Hang in there man.
dude ur too... sweet try to toughen out and stop treating her like a sister. if u rly do like her they way u say so ask her out
i have no clue of what you are talking about becouse i want to rub you up an down
she got a boy friend now thats a bad boy and i dont want tosee her get hurt i just like her to much and im sick of hearing how the good guy has to wait because frankly its b/s
I dont want to wait for a girl i like to be so she can see the good guy i want her now so i can protect her frome all that
i just wish she could see me for dating material
please give me some advice i realy need itLadies give me some advice on how the good guys can finish first?
Step out on faith, and just ask the girl out and come at her with all your cards out there on the table, and say I like you I want to show you how you should be treated and what I can offer you and if you come at her real sincere like that she'll respond or she's just an idiot and you dont need her in the first place!!! keep your head up there good women out there...Ladies give me some advice on how the good guys can finish first?
Sorry to say be your are going have to wait if you really want this girl. She has to get tired of being treat like crap. However, some women never grow out of this. They like the abuse or they think they change a ';bad boy';. If this is the case with this girl then all you can do is be a friend to her. And you will have to move on to a woman who can appreciate the fact that you would treat them like a princess.
its too bad this girl doesnt realize what a good guy you are. some girls like the bad boys, theyre fun and exciting. i used to be one of those girls, till i grew up and changed my priorities and standards. i got tired of being treated like crap by the bad boy. it may not meant to be for you two right now.
My best advice to you is to just be there for her when she gets hurt, and I'm sure she will. Hopefully at that point she will see you in a different light. I wouldn't make a move while she is dating someone else because that would include you in the ';bad'; boy category showing no respect.
The jerk have all the moves down. Girls see this and they think they are being swept off their feet, but in reality they are just being swept of their senses. You have to be the nice guy you are now, but you got to learn the moves of the jerk. It is hard to do and will take time but look at how the jerks treat the girls, not the ignore her for beer part, Pay attention to the charming, confident part, thats what the jerks have that the nice guys don't
I can answer this with just one word~~ Jealous
they cant
For some reason a lot of us tend to gravitate to the ';bad boys';. I found out that when I went through that period in my life it was really because I didn't feel good enough about myself and that made me think that any decent man wouldn't want anything to do with me. We tend to reach out to men who will not reject us, and usually with bb's they don't reject; they don't have enough care in them to reject women, they just simply use them until they've used them up. As for your friend; continue to support her. Love her-but since she sees u only as a friend, I would suggest that you love her from afar. No matter how much u try to show her his bad points she will see it as jealousy, and that can possibly put a gap into your relationship with her. The worst mistakes make for the best lessons in life....Let her go through what she needs to, u just simply b there for her when she needs u (and believe me she will need u). Maybe one day her seeing u being there and not judging her might convince her that you're the right one for her.
Unfortunately, girls won't see you for the great catch you are until after they've been kicked around by a few jerks. Check back with her around her 35th birthday. In the meantime, walk away. Desperation is not even remotely sexy, and it won't make you feel any better anyway.
If she is really your friend- Dont give her advice. She will gravitate toward the bad guy. Just be there as her friend and if you have the chance let her know you like her more than as a friend. Never know what can happen. Just be there as her friend afterward no matter if she ever sees you as dating material.
jealous
STAY AWAY! LET HER DEAL WITH HER OWN MISTAKE ,AND AS A MAN YOU DON`T TRY TO STEAL SOMEONE ELSE WOMAN WHILE CRYING ON HER SHOULDER;UNTIL SHE IS FREE ON HER OWN YOU DON`T ACT.YOU WOULDN`T LIKE FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO STEAL YOURS.THE SOONER YOU STAY AWAY THE LESS PAIN FULL THE HEARTACHE;YOU ARE TOO ATTACHED TO HER,SAVE YOURSELF AND FOCUS ON SOMEONE THAT IS FREE WITH NO BAGGAGE.IF YOU KEEP AT IT ,YOU WILL LOOSE HER RESPECT AND WILL FEEL THAT YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT FOR HER.
The meek shall inherit the earth - The Bible.
Just be around her when she needs someone. Sooner or later, this bad guy will show her why he is the bad guy and thats where you will step in. But its true that goods guys finish last. Hang in there man.
dude ur too... sweet try to toughen out and stop treating her like a sister. if u rly do like her they way u say so ask her out
i have no clue of what you are talking about becouse i want to rub you up an down
This isnt a question, but thx guys (and girls) for the advice on marilyn manson?
i appreciate it!!!This isnt a question, but thx guys (and girls) for the advice on marilyn manson?
no problem buddy, keep the questions comin!This isnt a question, but thx guys (and girls) for the advice on marilyn manson?
You could've just added this as a detail to the original question, but you're welcome =)
yea.
no...thank you for the two points!
no problem buddy, keep the questions comin!This isnt a question, but thx guys (and girls) for the advice on marilyn manson?
You could've just added this as a detail to the original question, but you're welcome =)
yea.
no...thank you for the two points!
Hey guys, I need to get some advice on my computer. It's running slow since I switched to cable. Ideas?
P.S. The best answer will be posted on my blog. http://need-to-get-some.blogspot.comHey guys, I need to get some advice on my computer. It's running slow since I switched to cable. Ideas?
There are several primary reasons could cause your computer to be slow and also some softwares you can download to speed up it.
First,Corruption and Errors within your registry.The registry is a main part of your computer's Operating System. With time, as you use Windows and install and uninstall programs, your registry will get congested and full of errors. So your computer could slow down. So, if you can clean it up this problem can be solved.Sometimes you can speed computer up by 300%. To clean up registry,You can download a software called regsitry cleaner---Clean registry,remnant,corrupt files and temp files,history,cookies,etc.. This site:
http://speed-up-pc.info/index.php?t=spee鈥?/a>
lists top 5 registry cleaner,you can download and scan for free.
Second,Your computer is loaded with spyware/adware.spyware/adware hamper your computer's performance.It use system resources and slow your computer down.
So, to speed up your slow computer, use a registry cleaner software and clean your registry files first. It will make all the difference, and provide you with the immediate fix you need for your slow computer.Then,download a good anti-spyware to get rid of spyware/adware in your computer.Hey guys, I need to get some advice on my computer. It's running slow since I switched to cable. Ideas?
There is a free program on the web called cablenut. Study the instructions. This program tells you all the stuff about your connection that the cable company may not want you to know. Like honest connection information, not just what the company spits out to it's customers.
i would try all this
cable is you connection
has little to do with windows
you can have cable or dial up and be slow
it depends on the crap on your computer
i will be checking back to see other answers either all. Below clen up tools is a good thing and will not hurt you at all
In Internet explorer at top of window select tools - then delete browser history - then another box will open - select delete all- this will not remove your book marks -Then close explorer then open again .At first pages will be slow once and then will load fast after it loads 1 time.Also email etc you will have to sign in 1 time with pass word etc.
This will create new cookies.
Also go to start at bottom of on task bar.click start 1 time then select find or search depending on your operating system.Select all files and folders - then type in defrag and click search.When icons come up double click and new box will come up - select analyze then you will see how fragmented you are - then choose defrag.You can put this program on your desk top by right clicking on the icon you found in search for defrag.Right click choose create short cut.This will put a short cut on your desk top.Then you can use as needed in future.
also
yahoo virus scan etc
http://security.yahoo.com/
also
pop up blocker
if you have loaded yahoo tool bar
if not load it
http://www.yahoo.com
choose my yahoo
go to the t section
choose tool bar
download it
then if you dont see pop up blocker
right click on grey area at top of screen
in different places
you can choose what you want up there
if you see another pop up blocker
disable
yahoo pop up blocker is all you need
if you have tool bar
no problem
beside pop up blocker
you will see an arrow
click on it
choose allow pop ups for that site
Yes. Your computer is infected with spyware.
1. Get a good spyware cleaner. Scan and clean your drive.
2. Install (if you don't have one already) a good viruscan and keep it updated.
3. Install a good firewall program. Zonealarm is free.
if by ';running slow'; you mean the Internet connection, then go to broadband reports.com and take the tweak test and do what it recommends. Your tcp/ip by default is set up for dial up, and needs to be set for your broadband connection.
http://www.dslreports.com/tweaks
There are several primary reasons could cause your computer to be slow and also some softwares you can download to speed up it.
First,Corruption and Errors within your registry.The registry is a main part of your computer's Operating System. With time, as you use Windows and install and uninstall programs, your registry will get congested and full of errors. So your computer could slow down. So, if you can clean it up this problem can be solved.Sometimes you can speed computer up by 300%. To clean up registry,You can download a software called regsitry cleaner---Clean registry,remnant,corrupt files and temp files,history,cookies,etc.. This site:
http://speed-up-pc.info/index.php?t=spee鈥?/a>
lists top 5 registry cleaner,you can download and scan for free.
Second,Your computer is loaded with spyware/adware.spyware/adware hamper your computer's performance.It use system resources and slow your computer down.
So, to speed up your slow computer, use a registry cleaner software and clean your registry files first. It will make all the difference, and provide you with the immediate fix you need for your slow computer.Then,download a good anti-spyware to get rid of spyware/adware in your computer.Hey guys, I need to get some advice on my computer. It's running slow since I switched to cable. Ideas?
There is a free program on the web called cablenut. Study the instructions. This program tells you all the stuff about your connection that the cable company may not want you to know. Like honest connection information, not just what the company spits out to it's customers.
i would try all this
cable is you connection
has little to do with windows
you can have cable or dial up and be slow
it depends on the crap on your computer
i will be checking back to see other answers either all. Below clen up tools is a good thing and will not hurt you at all
In Internet explorer at top of window select tools - then delete browser history - then another box will open - select delete all- this will not remove your book marks -Then close explorer then open again .At first pages will be slow once and then will load fast after it loads 1 time.Also email etc you will have to sign in 1 time with pass word etc.
This will create new cookies.
Also go to start at bottom of on task bar.click start 1 time then select find or search depending on your operating system.Select all files and folders - then type in defrag and click search.When icons come up double click and new box will come up - select analyze then you will see how fragmented you are - then choose defrag.You can put this program on your desk top by right clicking on the icon you found in search for defrag.Right click choose create short cut.This will put a short cut on your desk top.Then you can use as needed in future.
also
yahoo virus scan etc
http://security.yahoo.com/
also
pop up blocker
if you have loaded yahoo tool bar
if not load it
http://www.yahoo.com
choose my yahoo
go to the t section
choose tool bar
download it
then if you dont see pop up blocker
right click on grey area at top of screen
in different places
you can choose what you want up there
if you see another pop up blocker
disable
yahoo pop up blocker is all you need
if you have tool bar
no problem
beside pop up blocker
you will see an arrow
click on it
choose allow pop ups for that site
Yes. Your computer is infected with spyware.
1. Get a good spyware cleaner. Scan and clean your drive.
2. Install (if you don't have one already) a good viruscan and keep it updated.
3. Install a good firewall program. Zonealarm is free.
if by ';running slow'; you mean the Internet connection, then go to broadband reports.com and take the tweak test and do what it recommends. Your tcp/ip by default is set up for dial up, and needs to be set for your broadband connection.
http://www.dslreports.com/tweaks
(HELP... GUYS OUT THERE?) basicsally i need advice.?
Say your talking to a girl on msn or whatever, and she is about to go or you are about to leave, how many kisses do you put as you sign out, if you like the girl?
ty xox(HELP... GUYS OUT THERE?) basicsally i need advice.?
Generally about 3 xxx
But i also put them throughout the convo so every few messages i'll just whack a couple of x's on the end
;)
ty xox(HELP... GUYS OUT THERE?) basicsally i need advice.?
Generally about 3 xxx
But i also put them throughout the convo so every few messages i'll just whack a couple of x's on the end
;)
Hey guys and girls, I need some advice for ';lasting longer';?
So I timed myself with myself, and came out to be about 14 minutes, but then again, it was getting annoying, and I stopped, concentrated and reallly worked to the orgasm (Hand cramp xD) and I wasnt sure if 14 minutes would be long enough, so some tips to last more around 30-40 would be beautiful =]
(coming from a 15 year old virgin getting ready in advanced)Hey guys and girls, I need some advice for ';lasting longer';?
It's really not the same.Hey guys and girls, I need some advice for ';lasting longer';?
You can practice all u want...ur first time u will probably go off before u get ur pants off.
Lol Ur Funni Take Is Slow....And Think About Un Related Sex Stuff Like....................................鈥?Soccer Ball............................Or A Wall Or A Pet......But Thats When Your Having Sex
Shave your genitals and it makes you last longer. It's a secret passed down along men.
ok masturbate about about an hour before, and take a pic of Hillary C. or Janet Reno to look at if you get too turned on....
Quit masturbating
wont do anything. you gonna last 30 seconds your first time. everyone does.skin care cosmetics
(coming from a 15 year old virgin getting ready in advanced)Hey guys and girls, I need some advice for ';lasting longer';?
It's really not the same.Hey guys and girls, I need some advice for ';lasting longer';?
You can practice all u want...ur first time u will probably go off before u get ur pants off.
Lol Ur Funni Take Is Slow....And Think About Un Related Sex Stuff Like....................................鈥?Soccer Ball............................Or A Wall Or A Pet......But Thats When Your Having Sex
Shave your genitals and it makes you last longer. It's a secret passed down along men.
ok masturbate about about an hour before, and take a pic of Hillary C. or Janet Reno to look at if you get too turned on....
Quit masturbating
wont do anything. you gonna last 30 seconds your first time. everyone does.
Need some real mature advice here people!!! Especially guys!?
So i havent had a bf in a year and a half, took a break to concentrate on getting things in my life worked out, like buying a house, getting promoted and just having fun again. Now my younger sister, 18, lives with me. Her boss, who is 5 years older than me, I am 22 years old. I am completely infactuated with this guy. So I go into my sisters work to get some lunch, and he comes over, which he's never done before, and starts talking to me(I also dont go there all that often) and starts asking questions, about my sign, where i work, random stuff like that. So he comes over that night and I had a few people over, drinking and having a rather fun time. He kept instigating conversations with me, and when we were all gathered by the bar he came over and stood right next to me. I asked him if he was going to make an appearance at my bday bash at my house next weekend and he said yeah probably, asked when it was, i told him and then he nodded his head yes and said yah probablyand smiled.Need some real mature advice here people!!! Especially guys!?
a mature answer would be stop being so immature.Need some real mature advice here people!!! Especially guys!?
hey its about U u knwo the answer girl
do u want him? r u ready to date again and specially ur sis's boss r u sure that wont affect her work? u have to know these answers before going into it...if u find that u like him then just go for it if not then put an end to it if needed dont go to ur sis's office again
think about it YOU r the only one who knows the answer
you can say that he is definitely interested!
get to know him more. outside of work and or parties. go to a coffee, a walk in the park, zoo anything where it's just the two of you in a relaxed environment with no social pressure around (party means expected groping and kissing and i don't think you want that yet if you are serious about him).
good luck!
keep us posted
:)
Why don't you ask him out for a meal in a nice restaurant. Have a mature conversation with him and ask him straight out what his intentions are regarding you.
guys r actually pretty simple. it sounds like you r doing good with him so far i'm guessing he is a pretty self assured guy and has figured out u like him. so the only thing u need 2 do is make sure u don't try to hard to get his attention or go see your sister at work 2 much and absolutley don't sleep with him the best way 2 get a guys attention is to show them u like them and then back off a little and see what they do guys will always respond 2 a girl who values and respects herself and has her own life so just take it slow and if for some reason he doesn't go 2 your bday party act like its no big deal hope this helps
What is your question?
Sounds like hes pretty kean to me. When he comes to your party spend some more time with him alone and flirt with him. It sounds like hes into you so you should'nt get rejected. Or next time you go to your sisters office - ask him out to lunch! What have you got to loose, he would'nt come over and see you so much if he was'nt interested. This is the year 20th century so why not you make the first move! Also if hes at your birthday do then its only right you get a birthday kiss from him!!
a mature answer would be stop being so immature.Need some real mature advice here people!!! Especially guys!?
hey its about U u knwo the answer girl
do u want him? r u ready to date again and specially ur sis's boss r u sure that wont affect her work? u have to know these answers before going into it...if u find that u like him then just go for it if not then put an end to it if needed dont go to ur sis's office again
think about it YOU r the only one who knows the answer
you can say that he is definitely interested!
get to know him more. outside of work and or parties. go to a coffee, a walk in the park, zoo anything where it's just the two of you in a relaxed environment with no social pressure around (party means expected groping and kissing and i don't think you want that yet if you are serious about him).
good luck!
keep us posted
:)
Why don't you ask him out for a meal in a nice restaurant. Have a mature conversation with him and ask him straight out what his intentions are regarding you.
guys r actually pretty simple. it sounds like you r doing good with him so far i'm guessing he is a pretty self assured guy and has figured out u like him. so the only thing u need 2 do is make sure u don't try to hard to get his attention or go see your sister at work 2 much and absolutley don't sleep with him the best way 2 get a guys attention is to show them u like them and then back off a little and see what they do guys will always respond 2 a girl who values and respects herself and has her own life so just take it slow and if for some reason he doesn't go 2 your bday party act like its no big deal hope this helps
What is your question?
Sounds like hes pretty kean to me. When he comes to your party spend some more time with him alone and flirt with him. It sounds like hes into you so you should'nt get rejected. Or next time you go to your sisters office - ask him out to lunch! What have you got to loose, he would'nt come over and see you so much if he was'nt interested. This is the year 20th century so why not you make the first move! Also if hes at your birthday do then its only right you get a birthday kiss from him!!
I have guy troubles and desperately need advice from girls or guys please!?
There is a guy who about two months ago told me he liked me. I told him i only thought of him as a friend, and let him down easy and all that because I don't like him. But now he is becoming all emo and depressed over it. His status on facebook was ';I have been single for four months, and i'm hating it'; and another day it was ';rejected by the world.'; He is also slightly obsessed with me and texts me ALL the time, and is always telling me how wonderful and beautiful I am, and how lucky he is to have me in his life, which is flattering but it is getting kind of annoying... What can I do to get him to move on? This can't be healthy for him, and he really needs to get over me. Advice please? Other then telling him a lesbian. My friend suggested that but i would rather not because that would kind of eliminate all guys for me. Help please!I have guy troubles and desperately need advice from girls or guys please!?
it may not be the nicest thing but you should just tell him as nice as possible that you're interested in someone else %26amp; that you think he's a good friend %26amp; you guys should stay friends %26amp; tell him he's great %26amp; he'll definitely find a girl that will love him.
Good luck! Hope I could help!I have guy troubles and desperately need advice from girls or guys please!?
No problem! :) glad I could help.
If you have a discussion with him about it stuff might improve. There's really not much you can do. The ';emo'; thing is a natural phase. Just move on with your life and he will too. Time's the only thing that's going to help him. That and some other stuff that i'm hoping he doesn't partake in.
Your best bet it to just ignore the guy and try to avoid him all possible ways. You have to give him a clear message that no is NO. If you text him back and talk to him, he might have that little hope in his mind that you would like him one day.
Dang. That's intense. You're going to have to take drastic measures and not speak to him at all. That way he won't have any choice but to get over you. But before you stop talking to him, go ahead and try and find another girl for him maybe.
options-
1. become a lesbian
2. tell him to stop being annoying
3. hook up with him
4. find a girl who actually does like him
hmm just slowly dont talk to him like when he textes like 2 or 3 then just say i gotta go do something or im busy right now cant talk
Do you have friends that might want a boyfriend? Try hooking him up with a friend of yours.
Ok,
sounds like the usual type of stalker.. Sorry to tell you that.. if you want him to cease contact than let him know.. I knew some jackass that pulled the same stunt, and he was a real creep.. He also hit his g/f, stuff like that.. well when she finally had enough, she broke it off, got an RO (restraining order), and he just had to violate it and went to jail.. well he started acting all emo like that and I think it's a ploy to make you feel sorry for him, and get with him.. I have seen it happen, and know it happens quite a lot.. Don't tell em your gay, that would only give him some b/s to spread about you.. nobody likes rumors except the people who spread them.. He wants to be all emo let him, as long as he leaves you alone (that's just how I see it..) I say you really need to tell him enough is enough, if that don't stop it, you got a problem with him.. I mean being not knowing you, but I have known some girl friends of mine who have been down right stalked.. so idk what else to suggest on it.. if you honestly feel threatened than get an RO if you feel it ain't gonna stop.. cuz you never know who could be a real crazy.. hope this helps..
well its always a pain dealin with stalkers lol if you can call him that, cuz i mean you feel for the guy and dont want to make him practically commit suicide tellin him that you cant stand it when he always texts you, but then also you want him off your back. i had a guy like that once, and whut i did was text him once in a blue moon and when i did i would add MAN and DUDE in the convo 24;7 or BRO so that he knows that i feel for him just as a friend (AT MOST JUST A FRIEND) then he eventually realized its not gonna happen.. and just make uber short convo.. boys always go through those stages, dont put ur life on hold just cuz ur worried this guy is emo... you gotta move on, and its not ur problem how he deals with his feelings as much as you feel bad.. wish you all the best! hope i helped (AND DEFO DONT SAY UR A LEZ hahaha)
it may not be the nicest thing but you should just tell him as nice as possible that you're interested in someone else %26amp; that you think he's a good friend %26amp; you guys should stay friends %26amp; tell him he's great %26amp; he'll definitely find a girl that will love him.
Good luck! Hope I could help!I have guy troubles and desperately need advice from girls or guys please!?
No problem! :) glad I could help.
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If you have a discussion with him about it stuff might improve. There's really not much you can do. The ';emo'; thing is a natural phase. Just move on with your life and he will too. Time's the only thing that's going to help him. That and some other stuff that i'm hoping he doesn't partake in.
Your best bet it to just ignore the guy and try to avoid him all possible ways. You have to give him a clear message that no is NO. If you text him back and talk to him, he might have that little hope in his mind that you would like him one day.
Dang. That's intense. You're going to have to take drastic measures and not speak to him at all. That way he won't have any choice but to get over you. But before you stop talking to him, go ahead and try and find another girl for him maybe.
options-
1. become a lesbian
2. tell him to stop being annoying
3. hook up with him
4. find a girl who actually does like him
hmm just slowly dont talk to him like when he textes like 2 or 3 then just say i gotta go do something or im busy right now cant talk
Do you have friends that might want a boyfriend? Try hooking him up with a friend of yours.
Ok,
sounds like the usual type of stalker.. Sorry to tell you that.. if you want him to cease contact than let him know.. I knew some jackass that pulled the same stunt, and he was a real creep.. He also hit his g/f, stuff like that.. well when she finally had enough, she broke it off, got an RO (restraining order), and he just had to violate it and went to jail.. well he started acting all emo like that and I think it's a ploy to make you feel sorry for him, and get with him.. I have seen it happen, and know it happens quite a lot.. Don't tell em your gay, that would only give him some b/s to spread about you.. nobody likes rumors except the people who spread them.. He wants to be all emo let him, as long as he leaves you alone (that's just how I see it..) I say you really need to tell him enough is enough, if that don't stop it, you got a problem with him.. I mean being not knowing you, but I have known some girl friends of mine who have been down right stalked.. so idk what else to suggest on it.. if you honestly feel threatened than get an RO if you feel it ain't gonna stop.. cuz you never know who could be a real crazy.. hope this helps..
well its always a pain dealin with stalkers lol if you can call him that, cuz i mean you feel for the guy and dont want to make him practically commit suicide tellin him that you cant stand it when he always texts you, but then also you want him off your back. i had a guy like that once, and whut i did was text him once in a blue moon and when i did i would add MAN and DUDE in the convo 24;7 or BRO so that he knows that i feel for him just as a friend (AT MOST JUST A FRIEND) then he eventually realized its not gonna happen.. and just make uber short convo.. boys always go through those stages, dont put ur life on hold just cuz ur worried this guy is emo... you gotta move on, and its not ur problem how he deals with his feelings as much as you feel bad.. wish you all the best! hope i helped (AND DEFO DONT SAY UR A LEZ hahaha)
Smaller Girls and bigger guys???(i need a girls advice)?
im a sophomore and this girl i like is a freshman. i met her in person for the first time and she is little. not short but skinny and not ';well developed'; i really liked her and im not to worried about giant boobs or a butt. My friends gave me crap about her cause she looks younger idk what to do. is it creepy that she is smaller, i mean she weighs only like 90 pounds but i really like her and she is pretty. should i go for it regardless of what my freinds saySmaller Girls and bigger guys???(i need a girls advice)?
if you really like someone it shouldnt really matter if your friends do. there is nothing wrong with underdeveloped girls, and it takes a real man to admit to liking girls who have little boobs and butts
if you really like someone it shouldnt really matter if your friends do. there is nothing wrong with underdeveloped girls, and it takes a real man to admit to liking girls who have little boobs and butts
Guys and girls i need advice??!!?
mmkay so tonight im going to this big party and im going to see my ex boyfriend who i will always like but i have a boyfriend now. but he texts me still and is really sweet but everytime i see him he is a jerk and completely ignores me. so tonight i need to make him WAY jealous and show him what hes missing.. how should i play hard to get and make him so mad hes not with me?
thanks!
and for the guys what would make u really want a girl backGuys and girls i need advice??!!?
well usually, guys still have feelings for the ex, if your bf is going to this party to, be really flirty with him and kinda start to glance over at your ex, like extreamly flirtyGuys and girls i need advice??!!?
screw off - the poor guy you're with now is wasting his time with you so that you can try to make your ex jealous --- to get him back??? you're nuts. you don't even deserve a boyfriend. If you want your ex back - talk to him privately for a long while until you both know how you feel about eachother. The guy that you are with now - think about his feelings and stop the relationship if you don't want to be with him.
if u wanna make the guy jealous, dont pay much attention to him tonight, cuz if u do, he'll know you still want him. i wouldnt use the bf u hav now tho, unless he's a jerk. i would just act like u and ur current bf do and make sure that you guys are close to ur ex most of ta nite.
thanks!
and for the guys what would make u really want a girl backGuys and girls i need advice??!!?
well usually, guys still have feelings for the ex, if your bf is going to this party to, be really flirty with him and kinda start to glance over at your ex, like extreamly flirtyGuys and girls i need advice??!!?
screw off - the poor guy you're with now is wasting his time with you so that you can try to make your ex jealous --- to get him back??? you're nuts. you don't even deserve a boyfriend. If you want your ex back - talk to him privately for a long while until you both know how you feel about eachother. The guy that you are with now - think about his feelings and stop the relationship if you don't want to be with him.
if u wanna make the guy jealous, dont pay much attention to him tonight, cuz if u do, he'll know you still want him. i wouldnt use the bf u hav now tho, unless he's a jerk. i would just act like u and ur current bf do and make sure that you guys are close to ur ex most of ta nite.
Advice for boy trouble. guys and girls help please!!?
i have this bestfriend and hes a guy. Everyone thinks we are going out cuz we act so normal to around each other, we both are pretty much alike. people say we should go out and i say no were just friends. and he says nothing. like when someone says yall should go out i would say nooo were just friends, he wouldnt say anything. but if its with a girl he would be like noooo. so i wonder if he likes me. sometimes i think i like him, but idk, hes so sweet and hes funny like me, i wonder if we should go out...
1. do u think he likes me?
2. should we go out?Advice for boy trouble. guys and girls help please!!?
he likes you...now go get him.
1. do u think he likes me?
2. should we go out?Advice for boy trouble. guys and girls help please!!?
he likes you...now go get him.
Advice please about dating guys...?
Hi I'm 21 and I just recently started feeling attracted to certain guys. Because I'm kinda new to the whole scene I was wondering where the best place outside like gay bars because there's like none where I live, would to meet people to explore my feelings.
I suppose you could say that I'm bi sexual but till now I've kept telling myself that I'm straight, even though I come over as being ';more gay that straight';.
Cheers for your comments peeps!Advice please about dating guys...?
Well the problem is similar to that faced by straight guys, the only difference is that we have only approximately 10% of the population from which we can 'pick' a possible partner.
How you meet guys will depend a lot on the attitudes of society in your area towards gays. If you live in a tolerant society, you can simply use the same tools and techniques which straights use: Join organisations and groups where you feel at home. This will then ensure that you meet a guy who likes the type of things you like.
What is ALWAYS a good standby is introductions, and then do not disregard the internet for those initial one or two contacts.
Hope this helps, if you find anyone good, send him here.Advice please about dating guys...?
Maybe participate in after school sports, guys change before and after class.
Also, guys usually take off their shirt when doing gymnastics, because it is easier to do it that way. I went to one a few years back, and I remember that the teacher told us to take shirt off because when you do cart wheels, the shirt can cover your eyes, plus it lowers your performance. The leotards that had to be worn during competitions are very tight and annoying. So it is required to take if off when you are not performing, because the teacher says that you get better performance from doing so.
So I recommend do boys gymnastics.
No. Don't even go there
It's a perverted thing to do and everyone will hate you for it.
Get yourself a nice girl friend and be normalskin care cosmetics
I suppose you could say that I'm bi sexual but till now I've kept telling myself that I'm straight, even though I come over as being ';more gay that straight';.
Cheers for your comments peeps!Advice please about dating guys...?
Well the problem is similar to that faced by straight guys, the only difference is that we have only approximately 10% of the population from which we can 'pick' a possible partner.
How you meet guys will depend a lot on the attitudes of society in your area towards gays. If you live in a tolerant society, you can simply use the same tools and techniques which straights use: Join organisations and groups where you feel at home. This will then ensure that you meet a guy who likes the type of things you like.
What is ALWAYS a good standby is introductions, and then do not disregard the internet for those initial one or two contacts.
Hope this helps, if you find anyone good, send him here.Advice please about dating guys...?
Maybe participate in after school sports, guys change before and after class.
Also, guys usually take off their shirt when doing gymnastics, because it is easier to do it that way. I went to one a few years back, and I remember that the teacher told us to take shirt off because when you do cart wheels, the shirt can cover your eyes, plus it lowers your performance. The leotards that had to be worn during competitions are very tight and annoying. So it is required to take if off when you are not performing, because the teacher says that you get better performance from doing so.
So I recommend do boys gymnastics.
No. Don't even go there
It's a perverted thing to do and everyone will hate you for it.
Get yourself a nice girl friend and be normal
Advice plz.Especially from guys.?
I'm 15 .About a 3 weeks ago a 12th grader with a football scholarship showed interest in me.He liked me and I liked him. I was kind of surprised at his interest in me since I was in 9th grade and he was in 12th, so I had my guard up.I didn't know what his intentions were.When i saw him he always gave me a huge hug when we first said high and when we said bye, even if it was only a minute difference .He often came to my locker and walked me to class.He said he really liked being around me and said he wished he had another year to spend with me. I finally let my guard down. I started acknowledging that I liked him.When I saw him I went up to him and gave him a hug.I returned all the compliments he gave me.
Now he seems to be losing interest in me.He doesn't come to my locker anymore, walk me to class or sends me emails anymore.And when I see him I notice that he tends to wait for me to say high to him first.He only hugs me when we first say hi now.He's not the same.Whats going on?Advice plz.Especially from guys.?
He was flirting and was interested in you. He's now probably found someone else, or is realizing that he's graduating and leaving soon and is probably thinking more about college.
Don't fret it though, there are plenty of other guys out there.Advice plz.Especially from guys.?
Well he is waiting to see if you feel the same way about him
because he has showed that he likes you.now you need to show that you like him also
The only thing I can think is maybe his buddies are giving him ****? I would just go right up and ask him.
Now he seems to be losing interest in me.He doesn't come to my locker anymore, walk me to class or sends me emails anymore.And when I see him I notice that he tends to wait for me to say high to him first.He only hugs me when we first say hi now.He's not the same.Whats going on?Advice plz.Especially from guys.?
He was flirting and was interested in you. He's now probably found someone else, or is realizing that he's graduating and leaving soon and is probably thinking more about college.
Don't fret it though, there are plenty of other guys out there.Advice plz.Especially from guys.?
Well he is waiting to see if you feel the same way about him
because he has showed that he likes you.now you need to show that you like him also
The only thing I can think is maybe his buddies are giving him ****? I would just go right up and ask him.
Would You Get Boy Advice From A Guy You Know Likes You?
My best guy friend has asked me out before, but I rejected him for my current boyfriend. Even though we remained friends, he always says little things like ';You should break up with him and go with me!';.. He says this jokingly and seriously. So I'm having some trouble with my boyfriend and I'm probably going to break up with him, but I wanted a guy's outlook on the problem first. By the way, this guy is a mutual friend of my boyfriend. Do you think it would be okay to ask him for advice if its obvious he likes you? Thanks.Would You Get Boy Advice From A Guy You Know Likes You?
Well it depends on him cuz i have a friend like that and now i cant telll him anything about any other guy
answer mine?
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Well it depends on him cuz i have a friend like that and now i cant telll him anything about any other guy
answer mine?
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Advice from girls please? guys too.?
This girl gave me her phone number so the first time I texted her I had no response, a week later I sent her another text and we had a nice long conversation. the next time she never replied and didn't reply for 3 weeks so I asked her why and like 4 hours later I got a response saying that she was too busy to text often.
then the next day I got a message saying ';hey, whats up? how was your day?'; and i replied and no response.
Whats up with her?
She just graduated high school and is 18 years old.Advice from girls please? guys too.?
You screwed yourself when you decided to text her rather than calling her! Nobody gives out their number to text! She probably thinks of you as ';just friends';...congradulations!Advice from girls please? guys too.?
maybe she is too busy. i think she really likes you but everytime she checks her phone it says that you sent it like a week ago. and finally when she has time to text you she does but remembers she has stuff to do.... she proubly just moved out and trying to pay her owm bills and stufff (hence she works alot!) and has no time..... good luck anyway.
with peace and love: jojo
that happens to me all the time! she still likes you, she is just busy, don't sweat it, she probably didn't answer if she texted you first because you woke up later then she sent it or something or she got busy again.
idk i gave my number to some guy once because i felt bad. i would never answer his text messages. maybe thats what she's doing to you? sorry.
Like my mother always says ';Unless you're the president of the United States, you aren't going to be too busy to take 20 seconds to reply to a text message';
The ';I'm busy'; is such a convenient excuse people use when they don't want to commit time to talk to someone.
It might be that she doesn't like talking to you, and only talks to you when she doesn't have someone else to talk to.
Take it from someone who was 18 once, you are NEVER too busy. She could only wish she was that important...and of course she wouldn't mind making you think she is.
I say you cut her off. She obviously isn't interested in you, or else she'd be all over you. It might be she only talks to you as a last resort. I dunno, but she obviously doesn't want to take time to talk to you for weeks.
Don't reply to her texts..see how far she's willing to go to talk to you, or how easily she can forget about you.
Remember, you can't force/manipulate people into liking you..it doesn't matter if you try to talk to her, if she doesn't want to , she won't..no matter what you do or say.
So, it's best you find someone else instead of making her think you're wrapped around her finger and you're willing to be her last resort.
Hope this helps.
then the next day I got a message saying ';hey, whats up? how was your day?'; and i replied and no response.
Whats up with her?
She just graduated high school and is 18 years old.Advice from girls please? guys too.?
You screwed yourself when you decided to text her rather than calling her! Nobody gives out their number to text! She probably thinks of you as ';just friends';...congradulations!Advice from girls please? guys too.?
maybe she is too busy. i think she really likes you but everytime she checks her phone it says that you sent it like a week ago. and finally when she has time to text you she does but remembers she has stuff to do.... she proubly just moved out and trying to pay her owm bills and stufff (hence she works alot!) and has no time..... good luck anyway.
with peace and love: jojo
that happens to me all the time! she still likes you, she is just busy, don't sweat it, she probably didn't answer if she texted you first because you woke up later then she sent it or something or she got busy again.
idk i gave my number to some guy once because i felt bad. i would never answer his text messages. maybe thats what she's doing to you? sorry.
Like my mother always says ';Unless you're the president of the United States, you aren't going to be too busy to take 20 seconds to reply to a text message';
The ';I'm busy'; is such a convenient excuse people use when they don't want to commit time to talk to someone.
It might be that she doesn't like talking to you, and only talks to you when she doesn't have someone else to talk to.
Take it from someone who was 18 once, you are NEVER too busy. She could only wish she was that important...and of course she wouldn't mind making you think she is.
I say you cut her off. She obviously isn't interested in you, or else she'd be all over you. It might be she only talks to you as a last resort. I dunno, but she obviously doesn't want to take time to talk to you for weeks.
Don't reply to her texts..see how far she's willing to go to talk to you, or how easily she can forget about you.
Remember, you can't force/manipulate people into liking you..it doesn't matter if you try to talk to her, if she doesn't want to , she won't..no matter what you do or say.
So, it's best you find someone else instead of making her think you're wrapped around her finger and you're willing to be her last resort.
Hope this helps.
Advice: Falling for these guys?
It's currently 2:58 am, I'm on my cousins dsi typing out this question for you yahoo answers community out there and I'm hoping to get helpful advice when I next check this.
Alright so, I'm 14.. and well I'm really kinda going through that stage of 'puppy love'.
This question goes out to all you guys and girls from ages 14-16, or for those who can remember how they felt back then.
Q: Have you ever gotten that pretty-cute feeling in your stomach that said 'it's him, he's the one.. try to give it a chance'
And the only thing that was on your mind was him.
HIS, name, voice, look, style, actions.
You'd find constant reminders of him everywhere, whether it be his sports number or what he wore, a nickname even.
But then when you least expect it, you get this golden opportunity to risk it all, to actually get close to him.. get to know him, get to hear his voice, get to see his face, get to get him to notice you.
But then you just fail..
You feel different as if, you've shrunken and gave up on the chance to be with.
Or perhaps a friendly smile was all that it took.
Or was it all about image, and playing his role of the group and hiding his true colours.
Why are guys so damn confussing.
I just don't understand.. why am I putting myself in this position? Why do I like him?Advice: Falling for these guys?
ouu lala, i was wondering when i'd get a scandalous question round here these days, angelica ;)
annnyyywaaaysss,
You're going to get these feelings for the rest of your life, or maybe until you're older. It's called attraction, doodee ;]. You're going to get that feeling that everytime they look at you, their eyes will seem to glow like a full moon in the black night sky.... everyone vanishes but the two of you... your stomach is going to knot, your skin will tingle...
That infatuation that you speak of is all part of it. You're naturally going to be lured to them with an irresistible force.
This is all natural.
Including failing.
Honestly, everyone fails. I mean EVERYONE. Maybe some more often than others, but we all do once in a while. And failing is going to bring on those 'second-guess' feelings, like 'oohh, i shouldn't have said that, or i should've waved and said hi'...
NATURAL.
And don't feel as if you're purposely putting yourself in this position. You're not making yourself like him. This is something out of your control.
Attraction is basically just that; a raging emotion that spirals out of our control.
Gooodd luccck and happy suummeerr ! :)%26lt;3Advice: Falling for these guys?
Oh trust me AM.. your not the only one going through that.
Haha. Its like the guy's smile voice and eyes are just its own drug..
*sigh*
I wish I also knew why guys were so confusing...
But hey.. we can talk about this stuff on our bikeride, right? :)
YOU CANT HELP WHO YIU LIKE HUNNY JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART
well, it would be easier to help if i knew who the guy was ;) but i'll give it a shot.
it sounds like you really like him, whoever he is. it's always awkward getting these feelings, when you do don't know how to feel about them. you feel me? :P
it sounds like you've given this whole situation a lot of thought, so that's a good sign.
you can't help who you like. it's just a feeling. the reason will present itself eventually. maybe you have common interests. maybe he makes you laugh. maybe you just know that you two should be together. w/e.
my advice is to see who he's interested in, if anybody. try to get closer to him. you never know what you might find out.
hope this helps :)
and also, guys aren't confusing :P we're blunt, straightforward, and the first to act...or we're completely shy. not that difficult :P
Alright so, I'm 14.. and well I'm really kinda going through that stage of 'puppy love'.
This question goes out to all you guys and girls from ages 14-16, or for those who can remember how they felt back then.
Q: Have you ever gotten that pretty-cute feeling in your stomach that said 'it's him, he's the one.. try to give it a chance'
And the only thing that was on your mind was him.
HIS, name, voice, look, style, actions.
You'd find constant reminders of him everywhere, whether it be his sports number or what he wore, a nickname even.
But then when you least expect it, you get this golden opportunity to risk it all, to actually get close to him.. get to know him, get to hear his voice, get to see his face, get to get him to notice you.
But then you just fail..
You feel different as if, you've shrunken and gave up on the chance to be with.
Or perhaps a friendly smile was all that it took.
Or was it all about image, and playing his role of the group and hiding his true colours.
Why are guys so damn confussing.
I just don't understand.. why am I putting myself in this position? Why do I like him?Advice: Falling for these guys?
ouu lala, i was wondering when i'd get a scandalous question round here these days, angelica ;)
annnyyywaaaysss,
You're going to get these feelings for the rest of your life, or maybe until you're older. It's called attraction, doodee ;]. You're going to get that feeling that everytime they look at you, their eyes will seem to glow like a full moon in the black night sky.... everyone vanishes but the two of you... your stomach is going to knot, your skin will tingle...
That infatuation that you speak of is all part of it. You're naturally going to be lured to them with an irresistible force.
This is all natural.
Including failing.
Honestly, everyone fails. I mean EVERYONE. Maybe some more often than others, but we all do once in a while. And failing is going to bring on those 'second-guess' feelings, like 'oohh, i shouldn't have said that, or i should've waved and said hi'...
NATURAL.
And don't feel as if you're purposely putting yourself in this position. You're not making yourself like him. This is something out of your control.
Attraction is basically just that; a raging emotion that spirals out of our control.
Gooodd luccck and happy suummeerr ! :)%26lt;3Advice: Falling for these guys?
Oh trust me AM.. your not the only one going through that.
Haha. Its like the guy's smile voice and eyes are just its own drug..
*sigh*
I wish I also knew why guys were so confusing...
But hey.. we can talk about this stuff on our bikeride, right? :)
YOU CANT HELP WHO YIU LIKE HUNNY JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART
well, it would be easier to help if i knew who the guy was ;) but i'll give it a shot.
it sounds like you really like him, whoever he is. it's always awkward getting these feelings, when you do don't know how to feel about them. you feel me? :P
it sounds like you've given this whole situation a lot of thought, so that's a good sign.
you can't help who you like. it's just a feeling. the reason will present itself eventually. maybe you have common interests. maybe he makes you laugh. maybe you just know that you two should be together. w/e.
my advice is to see who he's interested in, if anybody. try to get closer to him. you never know what you might find out.
hope this helps :)
and also, guys aren't confusing :P we're blunt, straightforward, and the first to act...or we're completely shy. not that difficult :P
I need advice ASAP please =D (guys have you done this? girls has this ever happend to you?) any help/advice...?
this guy who is a year older than me (softmore) started talking me on Facebook about a few weeks ago and we had never talked at school at all, we knew who eachother was though. he talked to me the first night and we started talking about school and then we got a little more personal the next day at school he didn't talk to me at all. Then whenever i go on Facebook he never talks to me until i start talking to him so idk if he likes me or not? should i leave him alone or keep talking to me?
he never talks to me at school, mostly cause we don't have many classes together cause he's a year older than me.
my school did have a valentines dance and we danced at that (not a slow dance, we were kinda grinding)
now i go on facebook and he never talks to me until i talk to him.
should i lay off or keep talking to him? what should i talk to him about? does he even like me?
why is he doing this?!?!
i also did ask him why he started talking to me and he said because he was bored and felt like it....what does that mean??I need advice ASAP please =D (guys have you done this? girls has this ever happend to you?) any help/advice...?
This kind of happened to me. Some guy and I were like freaking and everything. And after that day he never talked to me. I added him on myspace, but he deleted me. I got really mad, but after a while you eventually get over it. And that's what you should do.
He probably doesn't like you so you should just try to get over him or try to limit your conversations with him.
I got lucky cause he graduated so I don't see him anymore.
:]
he never talks to me at school, mostly cause we don't have many classes together cause he's a year older than me.
my school did have a valentines dance and we danced at that (not a slow dance, we were kinda grinding)
now i go on facebook and he never talks to me until i talk to him.
should i lay off or keep talking to him? what should i talk to him about? does he even like me?
why is he doing this?!?!
i also did ask him why he started talking to me and he said because he was bored and felt like it....what does that mean??I need advice ASAP please =D (guys have you done this? girls has this ever happend to you?) any help/advice...?
This kind of happened to me. Some guy and I were like freaking and everything. And after that day he never talked to me. I added him on myspace, but he deleted me. I got really mad, but after a while you eventually get over it. And that's what you should do.
He probably doesn't like you so you should just try to get over him or try to limit your conversations with him.
I got lucky cause he graduated so I don't see him anymore.
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Girls and Guys Answer Please? I need advice.?
So i really like this guy, and i have a class with him. He is so cute. I really want to go out with him. He does things like high fives, smiling, glancing over me (I can see in the corner of my eyes), and casually bumping into me just to strike a conversation. And on the last day of school he hugged me like three different times, mainly for no reason. We are friends, but I want to know if it's more? Please help me. Girls and guys.Girls and Guys Answer Please? I need advice.?
hey...u must be lucky..u got everything perfectly on track...the only thing that is lacking now is initiative...prob he doesnt want to end the friendship he has with you and thats why he is keeping quiet....and the fact that he is interested in talking to you...it really shows that he likes you..so just find a time when he is absolutely free without any worries abt sch work..just go to him and say i want to go out and just tell him how u feel!skin care cosmetics
hey...u must be lucky..u got everything perfectly on track...the only thing that is lacking now is initiative...prob he doesnt want to end the friendship he has with you and thats why he is keeping quiet....and the fact that he is interested in talking to you...it really shows that he likes you..so just find a time when he is absolutely free without any worries abt sch work..just go to him and say i want to go out and just tell him how u feel!
Advice out there please guys?
Okay so my boyfriend and I of 3 and a half years went on a break 3 days ago because we ';bicker'; too much. He wanted to take a week to think and clear his head...He hasn't called or texted me since the break started, that is fine; this is a break..My question is this: Do you think that a guy seriously thinks about this stuff? Like even during the day does he think about me? I feel like he may have forgotten about me already :( I know its ridiculous to think that but I am in a fragile state emotionally and I keep thinking all these negative things!
thanks everyone for any positive words.Advice out there please guys?
well i can only give you just a bit of advice.
im sure he is thinking about everday, when he wakes up, and when he goes back to sleep.
just give him a few days then contact him your self, or arrange to do something special with him like dinner, movies, anything romantic. i know it should be him planning something like this, but that could be what he's doing, you will never know until the week has finished. just try thinking positive, i've been in your situation but with a girl, and i know its not nice the content worry, but after things were great.
i really hope i have helped in any way, but wait and see, hope things go great for you.
thanks everyone for any positive words.Advice out there please guys?
well i can only give you just a bit of advice.
im sure he is thinking about everday, when he wakes up, and when he goes back to sleep.
just give him a few days then contact him your self, or arrange to do something special with him like dinner, movies, anything romantic. i know it should be him planning something like this, but that could be what he's doing, you will never know until the week has finished. just try thinking positive, i've been in your situation but with a girl, and i know its not nice the content worry, but after things were great.
i really hope i have helped in any way, but wait and see, hope things go great for you.
Advice from girls pease... guys too?
Right now im in middle school and theres a girl who i really like shes got an amazing personality Shes really smart pretty and shes a singer but shes not one of those overly popular girls and she thinks of me as a aquiantance.
While im not the most popular person i hang out with some medium popular groups. alot of people think im nice, ive become a pretty good mediator and i try to help people and i've stuck up for her before.
she's the only girl who's ever meant something to me and i really care about her
We have done group projects together and we've talked quite a bit. we get along
I really need help from any one whos been in my situation and gotten through it. thanksAdvice from girls pease... guys too?
i thinkk u should sayy this:
pretend ehr name's kate bc idk
';Kate, we're rl good friends right? Well, i need some advice from you. If u like someone and they have no idea u like them, what should u do?';
kate--- ';You should tell them';
you--- ';Kate, the thing is: i like y-o-u';
idk, she'll think it sweet. and it's how it is in the movies---romantic
------------ or u could just kiss her one day--but dont like harrass herAdvice from girls pease... guys too?
Ok for one, stop seeing popularity in groups. If u group urself u r less likely to meet new people. The more people u associate with the more girls ull meet. Whenever u get alone time or even with a few friends direct ur attention to her and start talking. Bring up whatever is currently going on or anything to help break the ice.
aww you sound really sweet...umm ok well im in middle school too (13 years) %26amp; well, personally, when a guy likes me, i would LOVE for them to just tell me! i know that is probably very hard for you though. %26amp; if she doesnt like you, oh well :) but seriously, tell her how you feel :D
hope it all works out...good luck!
My advice is to tell her how you feel. The more you keep your feelings bottled up the less chance there is that she will reciprocate because she will feel as if you guys are ';too good of friends. If she doesn't feel the same way about you move on but at least you took a chance and she knows how you feel about her, maybe she'll come around, maybe she won't, but you have to take chances in life.
I don't think I've ever ';gotten through'; your situation. But coming from someone who was all messed up by the popularity game (I didn't know where I belonged in that pyramid) in school, don't think about it in terms of popularity. Because in the long run, popularity doesn't matter; however, I understand where you are coming from, and I think that you should tell her how you feel.
I was in that exact same situation in middle school,
i even asked her out and she said she wasn't ready for another relationship, we stayed friends through high school and we're still really good friends.
I found someone else and moved on
it was the best thing I ever did
ask her out and if she says no, don't be heart broke
you'll move on and find someone else
trust me
tell her how you feel and if she does not get it move on (been there )
Well take her out to lunch and talk to her alot become good friends. If you guys connect ask her out. When she cries give her a shoulder to cry on. When she tells you a secret give her a place to keep it in. When she is happy enjoy the good times with her. Simple. While at your date (lunch) tell her how you feel about her when you walk her home or something. Tell her why you like her not because she is popular and stuff like because she bes herself, funny, smart and beautiful. Tell her because you like her for her personalities and who she is on the inside it should work :)!
While im not the most popular person i hang out with some medium popular groups. alot of people think im nice, ive become a pretty good mediator and i try to help people and i've stuck up for her before.
she's the only girl who's ever meant something to me and i really care about her
We have done group projects together and we've talked quite a bit. we get along
I really need help from any one whos been in my situation and gotten through it. thanksAdvice from girls pease... guys too?
i thinkk u should sayy this:
pretend ehr name's kate bc idk
';Kate, we're rl good friends right? Well, i need some advice from you. If u like someone and they have no idea u like them, what should u do?';
kate--- ';You should tell them';
you--- ';Kate, the thing is: i like y-o-u';
idk, she'll think it sweet. and it's how it is in the movies---romantic
------------ or u could just kiss her one day--but dont like harrass herAdvice from girls pease... guys too?
Ok for one, stop seeing popularity in groups. If u group urself u r less likely to meet new people. The more people u associate with the more girls ull meet. Whenever u get alone time or even with a few friends direct ur attention to her and start talking. Bring up whatever is currently going on or anything to help break the ice.
aww you sound really sweet...umm ok well im in middle school too (13 years) %26amp; well, personally, when a guy likes me, i would LOVE for them to just tell me! i know that is probably very hard for you though. %26amp; if she doesnt like you, oh well :) but seriously, tell her how you feel :D
hope it all works out...good luck!
My advice is to tell her how you feel. The more you keep your feelings bottled up the less chance there is that she will reciprocate because she will feel as if you guys are ';too good of friends. If she doesn't feel the same way about you move on but at least you took a chance and she knows how you feel about her, maybe she'll come around, maybe she won't, but you have to take chances in life.
I don't think I've ever ';gotten through'; your situation. But coming from someone who was all messed up by the popularity game (I didn't know where I belonged in that pyramid) in school, don't think about it in terms of popularity. Because in the long run, popularity doesn't matter; however, I understand where you are coming from, and I think that you should tell her how you feel.
I was in that exact same situation in middle school,
i even asked her out and she said she wasn't ready for another relationship, we stayed friends through high school and we're still really good friends.
I found someone else and moved on
it was the best thing I ever did
ask her out and if she says no, don't be heart broke
you'll move on and find someone else
trust me
tell her how you feel and if she does not get it move on (been there )
Well take her out to lunch and talk to her alot become good friends. If you guys connect ask her out. When she cries give her a shoulder to cry on. When she tells you a secret give her a place to keep it in. When she is happy enjoy the good times with her. Simple. While at your date (lunch) tell her how you feel about her when you walk her home or something. Tell her why you like her not because she is popular and stuff like because she bes herself, funny, smart and beautiful. Tell her because you like her for her personalities and who she is on the inside it should work :)!
Advice for boy trouble. guys and girls help please!!?
i have this bestfriend and hes a guy. Everyone thinks we are going out cuz we act so normal to around each other, we both are pretty much alike. people say we should go out and i say no were just friends. and he says nothing. like when someone says yall should go out i would say nooo were just friends, he wouldnt say anything. but if its with a girl he would be like noooo. so i wonder if he likes me. sometimes i think i like him, but idk, hes so sweet and hes funny like me, i wonder if we should go out...
1. do u think he likes me?
2. should we go out?Advice for boy trouble. guys and girls help please!!?
he likes you...now go get him.
1. do u think he likes me?
2. should we go out?Advice for boy trouble. guys and girls help please!!?
he likes you...now go get him.
Advice please about dating guys...?
Hi I'm 21 and I just recently started feeling attracted to certain guys. Because I'm kinda new to the whole scene I was wondering where the best place outside like gay bars because there's like none where I live, would to meet people to explore my feelings.
I suppose you could say that I'm bi sexual but till now I've kept telling myself that I'm straight, even though I come over as being ';more gay that straight';.
Cheers for your comments peeps!Advice please about dating guys...?
Well the problem is similar to that faced by straight guys, the only difference is that we have only approximately 10% of the population from which we can 'pick' a possible partner.
How you meet guys will depend a lot on the attitudes of society in your area towards gays. If you live in a tolerant society, you can simply use the same tools and techniques which straights use: Join organisations and groups where you feel at home. This will then ensure that you meet a guy who likes the type of things you like.
What is ALWAYS a good standby is introductions, and then do not disregard the internet for those initial one or two contacts.
Hope this helps, if you find anyone good, send him here.Advice please about dating guys...?
Maybe participate in after school sports, guys change before and after class.
Also, guys usually take off their shirt when doing gymnastics, because it is easier to do it that way. I went to one a few years back, and I remember that the teacher told us to take shirt off because when you do cart wheels, the shirt can cover your eyes, plus it lowers your performance. The leotards that had to be worn during competitions are very tight and annoying. So it is required to take if off when you are not performing, because the teacher says that you get better performance from doing so.
So I recommend do boys gymnastics.
No. Don't even go there
It's a perverted thing to do and everyone will hate you for it.
Get yourself a nice girl friend and be normal
I suppose you could say that I'm bi sexual but till now I've kept telling myself that I'm straight, even though I come over as being ';more gay that straight';.
Cheers for your comments peeps!Advice please about dating guys...?
Well the problem is similar to that faced by straight guys, the only difference is that we have only approximately 10% of the population from which we can 'pick' a possible partner.
How you meet guys will depend a lot on the attitudes of society in your area towards gays. If you live in a tolerant society, you can simply use the same tools and techniques which straights use: Join organisations and groups where you feel at home. This will then ensure that you meet a guy who likes the type of things you like.
What is ALWAYS a good standby is introductions, and then do not disregard the internet for those initial one or two contacts.
Hope this helps, if you find anyone good, send him here.Advice please about dating guys...?
Maybe participate in after school sports, guys change before and after class.
Also, guys usually take off their shirt when doing gymnastics, because it is easier to do it that way. I went to one a few years back, and I remember that the teacher told us to take shirt off because when you do cart wheels, the shirt can cover your eyes, plus it lowers your performance. The leotards that had to be worn during competitions are very tight and annoying. So it is required to take if off when you are not performing, because the teacher says that you get better performance from doing so.
So I recommend do boys gymnastics.
No. Don't even go there
It's a perverted thing to do and everyone will hate you for it.
Get yourself a nice girl friend and be normal
Advice (from girls and guys )?
i've been crushing on this guy for a long time. now i think i might have the confidence to talk to him. i really am only by him once in the halls so i figure ill walk next to him with a friend or 2 and we'll be talking but somehow i need to figure out how to get the conversation to drift from us to small talk with him. i dont want to be really obvious that i like him. talking 2 someone i never have ever is weird enough but i need some quick conversation ideas that will be quick, interesting, memorable, but not insane (im not super outgoing and im quiet) if ur a guy, imagin being the guy im talking about. u dont know me, im in the hallway, what small talk do i say to u to start a conversation and get your attention so we talk more? if ur a girl, what would u do if ur me (quiet, dont want to make a fool of herself, never talked to the guy before)Advice (from girls and guys )?
As a guy, I guess the only thing I can say is to just go up to him and say hi and try to find something unique to him to ask about. I always liked it when girls asked what book I was reading and what it was about. Try to offer some personal thought of your own to give him an idea of your identity, something you like, maybe. I think most guys tend to think a girl likes them if she is really sweet and seems interested, so that shouldn't be a problem. Just finding something to talk about to someone you've never talked to is tricky, but you'll think of something. Personally, I've always liked kind of shy, quiet girls.Advice (from girls and guys )?
compliment him.
men are never complimented enough. they love it.
don't say anything too crazy like, nice butt.. hehe, but just say something like, ';hey those are some great shoes';
or.. you could mention something that you noticed about him
ex... ';hey, you're the guy who made that joke in math class today... that was awesome';
something like that.. should get the convo going.
if i like a guy, then i try to talk to him like i talk to any other idiots...
just be yourself and don't try to act cool or else he'll think that u are... spoiled, i guess?
and if ur shy, then just laugh at like everything that he says
hope it works for u :]]
Id just say hi, usually that interests most guys and 'could' be a conversation starter.
As a guy, I guess the only thing I can say is to just go up to him and say hi and try to find something unique to him to ask about. I always liked it when girls asked what book I was reading and what it was about. Try to offer some personal thought of your own to give him an idea of your identity, something you like, maybe. I think most guys tend to think a girl likes them if she is really sweet and seems interested, so that shouldn't be a problem. Just finding something to talk about to someone you've never talked to is tricky, but you'll think of something. Personally, I've always liked kind of shy, quiet girls.Advice (from girls and guys )?
compliment him.
men are never complimented enough. they love it.
don't say anything too crazy like, nice butt.. hehe, but just say something like, ';hey those are some great shoes';
or.. you could mention something that you noticed about him
ex... ';hey, you're the guy who made that joke in math class today... that was awesome';
something like that.. should get the convo going.
if i like a guy, then i try to talk to him like i talk to any other idiots...
just be yourself and don't try to act cool or else he'll think that u are... spoiled, i guess?
and if ur shy, then just laugh at like everything that he says
hope it works for u :]]
Id just say hi, usually that interests most guys and 'could' be a conversation starter.
Advice needed, ideally a guys prospective.......?
I've a good working relationship with a colleague, he tends to tease me eg makes wife references to me, and be playful with me ie hugs, strokes my arms, tickles me, plays with my hair. A while ago he said that I was too little for him to date, I felt hurt and tried to keep a distance and stay professional/friends. Recently he told me there was a chance that the employers would try and replace me with another employee, my colleague said he didn't want to have someone who didn't fit into the team, and said if it came to it, he'd resign. A few weeks ago he said I never make him a drink and so I did, but I said he never bought me anything. He agreed to buy me a cake so I could share it with my colleagues and this week he did. I wrote an e-mail thanking him and saying that he obviuosly secretly cares. He wrote back saying of 'course I care, about everyone, but you, well I just like teasing you, in the nicest possible way'. Do you think there's a chance he could ever be like me more?Advice needed, ideally a guys prospective.......?
sounds like a game...come on guys do that and girls do that...he has some interest in you, otherwise he wouldn't be playing like that, just i don't think it would an interest to have you as his gf....be carefull with him! i would suggest to play back, just smile, tease him back, and act like you don't care! see what happens you might even get him if you play your cards right...;) good luck ;)Advice needed, ideally a guys prospective.......?
My view is he's just messing you around
Office relationships are just a no no in my book
Don't get involved
I doubt he has any intention of becoming involved with you, unless he feels he can get something for free
Sorry sweetheart
But if you put it on a plate for him, the greedy soab will take it
DocP,
You asked this same question yesterday.... are you looking for a specific answer?
P.S. if you really want an answer, IM me and we can chat about if you'd like. I try not to be this forward, but...
ummmmm well the way he says he likes teasing you umm i think theres no chance in hell and hes just flirting with you for a laugh and nothing more.
Possibly ....don't be over keen....just in caseskin care cosmetics
sounds like a game...come on guys do that and girls do that...he has some interest in you, otherwise he wouldn't be playing like that, just i don't think it would an interest to have you as his gf....be carefull with him! i would suggest to play back, just smile, tease him back, and act like you don't care! see what happens you might even get him if you play your cards right...;) good luck ;)Advice needed, ideally a guys prospective.......?
My view is he's just messing you around
Office relationships are just a no no in my book
Don't get involved
I doubt he has any intention of becoming involved with you, unless he feels he can get something for free
Sorry sweetheart
But if you put it on a plate for him, the greedy soab will take it
DocP,
You asked this same question yesterday.... are you looking for a specific answer?
P.S. if you really want an answer, IM me and we can chat about if you'd like. I try not to be this forward, but...
ummmmm well the way he says he likes teasing you umm i think theres no chance in hell and hes just flirting with you for a laugh and nothing more.
Possibly ....don't be over keen....just in case
Advice plz.Especially from guys.?
I'm 15 .About a 3 weeks ago a 12th grader with a football scholarship showed interest in me.He liked me and I liked him. I was kind of surprised at his interest in me since I was in 9th grade and he was in 12th, so I had my guard up.I didn't know what his intentions were.When i saw him he always gave me a huge hug when we first said high and when we said bye, even if it was only a minute difference .He often came to my locker and walked me to class.He said he really liked being around me and said he wished he had another year to spend with me. I finally let my guard down. I started acknowledging that I liked him.When I saw him I went up to him and gave him a hug.I returned all the compliments he gave me.
Now he seems to be losing interest in me.He doesn't come to my locker anymore, walk me to class or sends me emails anymore.And when I see him I notice that he tends to wait for me to say high to him first.He only hugs me when we first say hi now.He's not the same.Whats going on?Advice plz.Especially from guys.?
He was flirting and was interested in you. He's now probably found someone else, or is realizing that he's graduating and leaving soon and is probably thinking more about college.
Don't fret it though, there are plenty of other guys out there.Advice plz.Especially from guys.?
Well he is waiting to see if you feel the same way about him
because he has showed that he likes you.now you need to show that you like him also
The only thing I can think is maybe his buddies are giving him ****? I would just go right up and ask him.
Now he seems to be losing interest in me.He doesn't come to my locker anymore, walk me to class or sends me emails anymore.And when I see him I notice that he tends to wait for me to say high to him first.He only hugs me when we first say hi now.He's not the same.Whats going on?Advice plz.Especially from guys.?
He was flirting and was interested in you. He's now probably found someone else, or is realizing that he's graduating and leaving soon and is probably thinking more about college.
Don't fret it though, there are plenty of other guys out there.Advice plz.Especially from guys.?
Well he is waiting to see if you feel the same way about him
because he has showed that he likes you.now you need to show that you like him also
The only thing I can think is maybe his buddies are giving him ****? I would just go right up and ask him.
Advice from girls please? guys too.?
This girl gave me her phone number so the first time I texted her I had no response, a week later I sent her another text and we had a nice long conversation. the next time she never replied and didn't reply for 3 weeks so I asked her why and like 4 hours later I got a response saying that she was too busy to text often.
then the next day I got a message saying ';hey, whats up? how was your day?'; and i replied and no response.
Whats up with her?
She just graduated high school and is 18 years old.Advice from girls please? guys too.?
You screwed yourself when you decided to text her rather than calling her! Nobody gives out their number to text! She probably thinks of you as ';just friends';...congradulations!Advice from girls please? guys too.?
maybe she is too busy. i think she really likes you but everytime she checks her phone it says that you sent it like a week ago. and finally when she has time to text you she does but remembers she has stuff to do.... she proubly just moved out and trying to pay her owm bills and stufff (hence she works alot!) and has no time..... good luck anyway.
with peace and love: jojo
that happens to me all the time! she still likes you, she is just busy, don't sweat it, she probably didn't answer if she texted you first because you woke up later then she sent it or something or she got busy again.
idk i gave my number to some guy once because i felt bad. i would never answer his text messages. maybe thats what she's doing to you? sorry.
Like my mother always says ';Unless you're the president of the United States, you aren't going to be too busy to take 20 seconds to reply to a text message';
The ';I'm busy'; is such a convenient excuse people use when they don't want to commit time to talk to someone.
It might be that she doesn't like talking to you, and only talks to you when she doesn't have someone else to talk to.
Take it from someone who was 18 once, you are NEVER too busy. She could only wish she was that important...and of course she wouldn't mind making you think she is.
I say you cut her off. She obviously isn't interested in you, or else she'd be all over you. It might be she only talks to you as a last resort. I dunno, but she obviously doesn't want to take time to talk to you for weeks.
Don't reply to her texts..see how far she's willing to go to talk to you, or how easily she can forget about you.
Remember, you can't force/manipulate people into liking you..it doesn't matter if you try to talk to her, if she doesn't want to , she won't..no matter what you do or say.
So, it's best you find someone else instead of making her think you're wrapped around her finger and you're willing to be her last resort.
Hope this helps.
then the next day I got a message saying ';hey, whats up? how was your day?'; and i replied and no response.
Whats up with her?
She just graduated high school and is 18 years old.Advice from girls please? guys too.?
You screwed yourself when you decided to text her rather than calling her! Nobody gives out their number to text! She probably thinks of you as ';just friends';...congradulations!Advice from girls please? guys too.?
maybe she is too busy. i think she really likes you but everytime she checks her phone it says that you sent it like a week ago. and finally when she has time to text you she does but remembers she has stuff to do.... she proubly just moved out and trying to pay her owm bills and stufff (hence she works alot!) and has no time..... good luck anyway.
with peace and love: jojo
that happens to me all the time! she still likes you, she is just busy, don't sweat it, she probably didn't answer if she texted you first because you woke up later then she sent it or something or she got busy again.
idk i gave my number to some guy once because i felt bad. i would never answer his text messages. maybe thats what she's doing to you? sorry.
Like my mother always says ';Unless you're the president of the United States, you aren't going to be too busy to take 20 seconds to reply to a text message';
The ';I'm busy'; is such a convenient excuse people use when they don't want to commit time to talk to someone.
It might be that she doesn't like talking to you, and only talks to you when she doesn't have someone else to talk to.
Take it from someone who was 18 once, you are NEVER too busy. She could only wish she was that important...and of course she wouldn't mind making you think she is.
I say you cut her off. She obviously isn't interested in you, or else she'd be all over you. It might be she only talks to you as a last resort. I dunno, but she obviously doesn't want to take time to talk to you for weeks.
Don't reply to her texts..see how far she's willing to go to talk to you, or how easily she can forget about you.
Remember, you can't force/manipulate people into liking you..it doesn't matter if you try to talk to her, if she doesn't want to , she won't..no matter what you do or say.
So, it's best you find someone else instead of making her think you're wrapped around her finger and you're willing to be her last resort.
Hope this helps.
Would You Get Boy Advice From A Guy You Know Likes You?
My best guy friend has asked me out before, but I rejected him for my current boyfriend. Even though we remained friends, he always says little things like ';You should break up with him and go with me!';.. He says this jokingly and seriously. So I'm having some trouble with my boyfriend and I'm probably going to break up with him, but I wanted a guy's outlook on the problem first. By the way, this guy is a mutual friend of my boyfriend. Do you think it would be okay to ask him for advice if its obvious he likes you? Thanks.Would You Get Boy Advice From A Guy You Know Likes You?
Well it depends on him cuz i have a friend like that and now i cant telll him anything about any other guy
answer mine?
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Well it depends on him cuz i have a friend like that and now i cant telll him anything about any other guy
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Advice: Falling for these guys?
It's currently 2:58 am, I'm on my cousins dsi typing out this question for you yahoo answers community out there and I'm hoping to get helpful advice when I next check this.
Alright so, I'm 14.. and well I'm really kinda going through that stage of 'puppy love'.
This question goes out to all you guys and girls from ages 14-16, or for those who can remember how they felt back then.
Q: Have you ever gotten that pretty-cute feeling in your stomach that said 'it's him, he's the one.. try to give it a chance'
And the only thing that was on your mind was him.
HIS, name, voice, look, style, actions.
You'd find constant reminders of him everywhere, whether it be his sports number or what he wore, a nickname even.
But then when you least expect it, you get this golden opportunity to risk it all, to actually get close to him.. get to know him, get to hear his voice, get to see his face, get to get him to notice you.
But then you just fail..
You feel different as if, you've shrunken and gave up on the chance to be with.
Or perhaps a friendly smile was all that it took.
Or was it all about image, and playing his role of the group and hiding his true colours.
Why are guys so damn confussing.
I just don't understand.. why am I putting myself in this position? Why do I like him?Advice: Falling for these guys?
ouu lala, i was wondering when i'd get a scandalous question round here these days, angelica ;)
annnyyywaaaysss,
You're going to get these feelings for the rest of your life, or maybe until you're older. It's called attraction, doodee ;]. You're going to get that feeling that everytime they look at you, their eyes will seem to glow like a full moon in the black night sky.... everyone vanishes but the two of you... your stomach is going to knot, your skin will tingle...
That infatuation that you speak of is all part of it. You're naturally going to be lured to them with an irresistible force.
This is all natural.
Including failing.
Honestly, everyone fails. I mean EVERYONE. Maybe some more often than others, but we all do once in a while. And failing is going to bring on those 'second-guess' feelings, like 'oohh, i shouldn't have said that, or i should've waved and said hi'...
NATURAL.
And don't feel as if you're purposely putting yourself in this position. You're not making yourself like him. This is something out of your control.
Attraction is basically just that; a raging emotion that spirals out of our control.
Gooodd luccck and happy suummeerr ! :)%26lt;3Advice: Falling for these guys?
Oh trust me AM.. your not the only one going through that.
Haha. Its like the guy's smile voice and eyes are just its own drug..
*sigh*
I wish I also knew why guys were so confusing...
But hey.. we can talk about this stuff on our bikeride, right? :)
YOU CANT HELP WHO YIU LIKE HUNNY JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART
well, it would be easier to help if i knew who the guy was ;) but i'll give it a shot.
it sounds like you really like him, whoever he is. it's always awkward getting these feelings, when you do don't know how to feel about them. you feel me? :P
it sounds like you've given this whole situation a lot of thought, so that's a good sign.
you can't help who you like. it's just a feeling. the reason will present itself eventually. maybe you have common interests. maybe he makes you laugh. maybe you just know that you two should be together. w/e.
my advice is to see who he's interested in, if anybody. try to get closer to him. you never know what you might find out.
hope this helps :)
and also, guys aren't confusing :P we're blunt, straightforward, and the first to act...or we're completely shy. not that difficult :P
Alright so, I'm 14.. and well I'm really kinda going through that stage of 'puppy love'.
This question goes out to all you guys and girls from ages 14-16, or for those who can remember how they felt back then.
Q: Have you ever gotten that pretty-cute feeling in your stomach that said 'it's him, he's the one.. try to give it a chance'
And the only thing that was on your mind was him.
HIS, name, voice, look, style, actions.
You'd find constant reminders of him everywhere, whether it be his sports number or what he wore, a nickname even.
But then when you least expect it, you get this golden opportunity to risk it all, to actually get close to him.. get to know him, get to hear his voice, get to see his face, get to get him to notice you.
But then you just fail..
You feel different as if, you've shrunken and gave up on the chance to be with.
Or perhaps a friendly smile was all that it took.
Or was it all about image, and playing his role of the group and hiding his true colours.
Why are guys so damn confussing.
I just don't understand.. why am I putting myself in this position? Why do I like him?Advice: Falling for these guys?
ouu lala, i was wondering when i'd get a scandalous question round here these days, angelica ;)
annnyyywaaaysss,
You're going to get these feelings for the rest of your life, or maybe until you're older. It's called attraction, doodee ;]. You're going to get that feeling that everytime they look at you, their eyes will seem to glow like a full moon in the black night sky.... everyone vanishes but the two of you... your stomach is going to knot, your skin will tingle...
That infatuation that you speak of is all part of it. You're naturally going to be lured to them with an irresistible force.
This is all natural.
Including failing.
Honestly, everyone fails. I mean EVERYONE. Maybe some more often than others, but we all do once in a while. And failing is going to bring on those 'second-guess' feelings, like 'oohh, i shouldn't have said that, or i should've waved and said hi'...
NATURAL.
And don't feel as if you're purposely putting yourself in this position. You're not making yourself like him. This is something out of your control.
Attraction is basically just that; a raging emotion that spirals out of our control.
Gooodd luccck and happy suummeerr ! :)%26lt;3Advice: Falling for these guys?
Oh trust me AM.. your not the only one going through that.
Haha. Its like the guy's smile voice and eyes are just its own drug..
*sigh*
I wish I also knew why guys were so confusing...
But hey.. we can talk about this stuff on our bikeride, right? :)
YOU CANT HELP WHO YIU LIKE HUNNY JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART
well, it would be easier to help if i knew who the guy was ;) but i'll give it a shot.
it sounds like you really like him, whoever he is. it's always awkward getting these feelings, when you do don't know how to feel about them. you feel me? :P
it sounds like you've given this whole situation a lot of thought, so that's a good sign.
you can't help who you like. it's just a feeling. the reason will present itself eventually. maybe you have common interests. maybe he makes you laugh. maybe you just know that you two should be together. w/e.
my advice is to see who he's interested in, if anybody. try to get closer to him. you never know what you might find out.
hope this helps :)
and also, guys aren't confusing :P we're blunt, straightforward, and the first to act...or we're completely shy. not that difficult :P
I need advice ASAP please =D (guys have you done this? girls has this ever happend to you?) any help/advice...?
this guy who is a year older than me (softmore) started talking me on Facebook about a few weeks ago and we had never talked at school at all, we knew who eachother was though. he talked to me the first night and we started talking about school and then we got a little more personal the next day at school he didn't talk to me at all. Then whenever i go on Facebook he never talks to me until i start talking to him so idk if he likes me or not? should i leave him alone or keep talking to me?
he never talks to me at school, mostly cause we don't have many classes together cause he's a year older than me.
my school did have a valentines dance and we danced at that (not a slow dance, we were kinda grinding)
now i go on facebook and he never talks to me until i talk to him.
should i lay off or keep talking to him? what should i talk to him about? does he even like me?
why is he doing this?!?!
i also did ask him why he started talking to me and he said because he was bored and felt like it....what does that mean??I need advice ASAP please =D (guys have you done this? girls has this ever happend to you?) any help/advice...?
This kind of happened to me. Some guy and I were like freaking and everything. And after that day he never talked to me. I added him on myspace, but he deleted me. I got really mad, but after a while you eventually get over it. And that's what you should do.
He probably doesn't like you so you should just try to get over him or try to limit your conversations with him.
I got lucky cause he graduated so I don't see him anymore.
:]
he never talks to me at school, mostly cause we don't have many classes together cause he's a year older than me.
my school did have a valentines dance and we danced at that (not a slow dance, we were kinda grinding)
now i go on facebook and he never talks to me until i talk to him.
should i lay off or keep talking to him? what should i talk to him about? does he even like me?
why is he doing this?!?!
i also did ask him why he started talking to me and he said because he was bored and felt like it....what does that mean??I need advice ASAP please =D (guys have you done this? girls has this ever happend to you?) any help/advice...?
This kind of happened to me. Some guy and I were like freaking and everything. And after that day he never talked to me. I added him on myspace, but he deleted me. I got really mad, but after a while you eventually get over it. And that's what you should do.
He probably doesn't like you so you should just try to get over him or try to limit your conversations with him.
I got lucky cause he graduated so I don't see him anymore.
:]
Girls and Guys Answer Please? I need advice.?
So i really like this guy, and i have a class with him. He is so cute. I really want to go out with him. He does things like high fives, smiling, glancing over me (I can see in the corner of my eyes), and casually bumping into me just to strike a conversation. And on the last day of school he hugged me like three different times, mainly for no reason. We are friends, but I want to know if it's more? Please help me. Girls and guys.Girls and Guys Answer Please? I need advice.?
hey...u must be lucky..u got everything perfectly on track...the only thing that is lacking now is initiative...prob he doesnt want to end the friendship he has with you and thats why he is keeping quiet....and the fact that he is interested in talking to you...it really shows that he likes you..so just find a time when he is absolutely free without any worries abt sch work..just go to him and say i want to go out and just tell him how u feel!skin care cosmetics
hey...u must be lucky..u got everything perfectly on track...the only thing that is lacking now is initiative...prob he doesnt want to end the friendship he has with you and thats why he is keeping quiet....and the fact that he is interested in talking to you...it really shows that he likes you..so just find a time when he is absolutely free without any worries abt sch work..just go to him and say i want to go out and just tell him how u feel!
ADVICE PLEASE-GIRL OR GUYS ANSWER!?
So theres this boy and hes like the love of my life. I guess you could call us ';f..'; buddies. lol. well anyway we only hang out once in a while and last night he came and slept over and it was the best night of my life. anyway i just found out that my mother is going away and wont be home at all tonight...and i kinda want to invite him over again but i dont really know how to ask him. should i invite him over again? i guess im just scared of rejection by him.. please no rude answers... answer mine and ill answer urs:)ADVICE PLEASE-GIRL OR GUYS ANSWER!?
Just be like,
';hey my ma's out of town and i was wondering if you wanted to come over and hangout tonight';
and if he says yes then have him come over and round 9 ask him if he wants to stay the night,because you dont want to be alone.ADVICE PLEASE-GIRL OR GUYS ANSWER!?
I think you should re-invite him to your house. You seem to like him and you have the house to yourselves. You'll probably have a real good time if its just the two for you and that's not just being f.. buddies. A problem with relationships can be that they are to public. You need your privacy sometimes. So invite him over and enjoy just the two of you. Hope you have a good time.
Just be like,
';hey my ma's out of town and i was wondering if you wanted to come over and hangout tonight';
and if he says yes then have him come over and round 9 ask him if he wants to stay the night,because you dont want to be alone.ADVICE PLEASE-GIRL OR GUYS ANSWER!?
I think you should re-invite him to your house. You seem to like him and you have the house to yourselves. You'll probably have a real good time if its just the two for you and that's not just being f.. buddies. A problem with relationships can be that they are to public. You need your privacy sometimes. So invite him over and enjoy just the two of you. Hope you have a good time.
Advice needed from all guys out there!!?
hi ummm... i have a question for the world. im a junior in high school who likes this guy who's a senior. we dont know each other at all... basically complete strangers. we do, however, have lockers in the same room and we're both there at the same times (after 2nd period and after 8th period). except i only see him for a brief minute during this time because after 2nd period i kinda have to rush because my next class is kinda far from the locker and after 8th period he gets there really early and is pretty quick in leaving. i liked him since i was a freshman but i havent said anything ever. i know people say that i should get to know him but i dont think it'll happen. I'm a Muslim who covers my hair and hes a white guy (Christian i think). im not trying to be pessimistic, but im trying to be realistic. hes graduating this year so i dont have much time. people say i should do something about i but i dont know what or how without it being weird and random. so please help! Thanks!!!Advice needed from all guys out there!!?
i was on the same spot when i was in HS too,i know how it feels. we wer both shy but i know i definetly had a chance cause you could tell if someone likes you or not but if you think that guy really likes you then go for it, you never know, you might regret it in the future like me..
i was on the same spot when i was in HS too,i know how it feels. we wer both shy but i know i definetly had a chance cause you could tell if someone likes you or not but if you think that guy really likes you then go for it, you never know, you might regret it in the future like me..
I need some advice (from both girls and guys)?
There's this kid i like but he's a year younger than me. We hang out like every weekend and we're really good friends. I want to tell him that i like him but im not sure how to tell him. Should i tell him when we're with our friends or should i take him aside and tell him. Im just so confused help pleaseI need some advice (from both girls and guys)?
First off, don't let the age difference scare you. If you're both mature enough to date, then what's one year? When you tell him, don't make it a big thing. Wait until you two are alone, but don't set it up to be that way either. Just say something like, ';Hey, ____, I guess it doesn't really matter, but I thought you should know that I like you. It's okay if you don't feel the same 'cuz I know it might be weird after we've been just friends, but...'; However you say it, leave him an out. Don't make him break your heart with a flat out no or make him say yes, then break your heart later by it being awkward. Best of luck!I need some advice (from both girls and guys)?
take him aside and flirt a bit to see if he likes you back. you can say something like sooo.... when are you going to ask me out. if he sends a good response then keep going with the flow. if he send a bad response just say I'm joking gosh your so gullible. that way you know if he likes you or not.
Of course you should do it privately. It's less awkward if it doesn't work out and it makes you more serious about the situation. You're letting the kid know that it's not a joke or anything.
invite him and him only to a party or just for an afternoon and ask him. guys love it when girls make the first move so be flirty and touch him as much as you can on the shoulder hand ect
You two should be alone before you tell him anything. Make sure to let him know you like him and everything else on your mind.
Take him aside and say what is on your mind, this way you can get his total reaction! You have nothing to loose but alot to gain!
NO, you shouldn't tell him while your with your friends
pull him aside or call him up and tell him
(guys don't care how old girls are as long as they look good)
see which situation would seem more comfortable, and make sure he's comfortable with you or it may think its awkward.
Take him aside, cause telling him in front of everyone is kinda like a free show and embarresing to him. He probably likes you too, if he hangs out with you every weekend!
Good luck!!
%26lt;33
take him too the side that way he will show his true
feelings and he wontlie b/c he thinks itll embarass
him. GOOD LUCK.
15-14, 16-15, 17-16? Ages make more difference at different levels.
I would talk to him alone. I think that hopefully he feels the same and you can let all your friends know later.
Take him aside and tell him.
take him to one side and tell him you have feelings for him more than a friend and would like to become more than just friends and see what he says
ask him out! dont pull him aside from your group bc your just drawing attention to yourself.. and if the outcome is bad then... everyone will know.. duh.
tell him aside.
Do it privately. Say these words, exactly: ';I like you.'; See what his reaction is.
yes tell him age anit nothing if u like him telling 4 sum one else take him
tell him
First off, don't let the age difference scare you. If you're both mature enough to date, then what's one year? When you tell him, don't make it a big thing. Wait until you two are alone, but don't set it up to be that way either. Just say something like, ';Hey, ____, I guess it doesn't really matter, but I thought you should know that I like you. It's okay if you don't feel the same 'cuz I know it might be weird after we've been just friends, but...'; However you say it, leave him an out. Don't make him break your heart with a flat out no or make him say yes, then break your heart later by it being awkward. Best of luck!I need some advice (from both girls and guys)?
take him aside and flirt a bit to see if he likes you back. you can say something like sooo.... when are you going to ask me out. if he sends a good response then keep going with the flow. if he send a bad response just say I'm joking gosh your so gullible. that way you know if he likes you or not.
Of course you should do it privately. It's less awkward if it doesn't work out and it makes you more serious about the situation. You're letting the kid know that it's not a joke or anything.
invite him and him only to a party or just for an afternoon and ask him. guys love it when girls make the first move so be flirty and touch him as much as you can on the shoulder hand ect
You two should be alone before you tell him anything. Make sure to let him know you like him and everything else on your mind.
Take him aside and say what is on your mind, this way you can get his total reaction! You have nothing to loose but alot to gain!
NO, you shouldn't tell him while your with your friends
pull him aside or call him up and tell him
(guys don't care how old girls are as long as they look good)
see which situation would seem more comfortable, and make sure he's comfortable with you or it may think its awkward.
Take him aside, cause telling him in front of everyone is kinda like a free show and embarresing to him. He probably likes you too, if he hangs out with you every weekend!
Good luck!!
%26lt;33
take him too the side that way he will show his true
feelings and he wontlie b/c he thinks itll embarass
him. GOOD LUCK.
15-14, 16-15, 17-16? Ages make more difference at different levels.
I would talk to him alone. I think that hopefully he feels the same and you can let all your friends know later.
Take him aside and tell him.
take him to one side and tell him you have feelings for him more than a friend and would like to become more than just friends and see what he says
ask him out! dont pull him aside from your group bc your just drawing attention to yourself.. and if the outcome is bad then... everyone will know.. duh.
tell him aside.
Do it privately. Say these words, exactly: ';I like you.'; See what his reaction is.
yes tell him age anit nothing if u like him telling 4 sum one else take him
tell him
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Advice please why are guys so complicated what is going on?
I was out of town so Sunday he calls me and says how he misses me and cares a lot about me and all that stuff. I really don't feel too strongly for him yet b/c we have only been on four dates. What he said kind of weirded me out b/c I think it's too soon to feel strongly for someone in such a short time, but that's not the point. So I call him on Monday and he called me back a couple of hours later, but I missed his call so I called him back and then he didn't call me back until today around 3:00 PM. I called him back and no it's 7:30 PM and he still didn't call back. So wtf? If he meant what he said Sunday do you think he would be acting like this?Advice please why are guys so complicated what is going on?
it can be seen that the guy isnt havent much options ,u are the only one,so he wants u in his life,,,,,if you dont feel attraction for him then stop going out with him.
it can be seen that the guy isnt havent much options ,u are the only one,so he wants u in his life,,,,,if you dont feel attraction for him then stop going out with him.
Advice needed girls n guys please help tnx!!?
hey, theres this girl i like a uni.we only started a few weeks ago so i dont know her too well as i am shy and have only really spoken to her once!.other than that we just say hi whenever we pass by eachother!.please advise me on how i could approach her and ask for her number,or ask her out or drop a hint to her that i like her??..Advice needed girls n guys please help tnx!!?
ok so you like this girl and she only says hi right?
The first thing to do is check out your confidence and what your saying to yourself about the whole scenario!
By this i mena the quality of your own thoughts will make you look nervouse and act nervous. So you will need to change the tone of your thoughts to fit someone whos confident!
1..think of something you do well at in any context..this maybe saying hi so someone you know, greeting someone who you dont know in shops the pub etc, or talking to your family. When you think of this, take a look at the way the THOUGHTS change your FEELINGS...and your feelings change the way you LOOK to others!! better right!!!
2. when you see her and you think ';oh my god oh my god'; just imagine shes someone you know well and usually have fun with and say ';hey hows it going, u alright?....then drop in, ';oh sorry i never asked you your name?';
3. ASK QUESTIONS...its soooo important and they love it!!! and also dont be frightened by silences after questions it usuallly prompts them to start talking first and the battle of wits is won!!! just LISTEN at first and smile when you should!!
4 KEEP your TONE of voice light and fluid!...many people although talk about ';body language!'; the tone of your voice has a MASSIVE affect...fun light simple!
5. dont be afraid to blag a bit...say...';oops got to go...see you round'; make the first break, keep her guessing! she will remeber you!
6. BE NICE TO YIOURSELF!...afterwards say...';DUDE WELL DONE';
boost your confidence whenever you can by listening to funky music and feeling great about chatting! its ok!
7 DONT get cocky, be confident but not arrogant, listen have fun be kind!!
good luck matey, dont go too far though i have a baby on the way now hahaha!!
Advice needed girls n guys please help tnx!!?
Is she in any of your classes? Maybe get to your class early so you can wait for the prof together. No one likes awkward silence, so you'll probably start talking. You can start talking about school stuff, since that stuff is pretty neutral. Once you get talking and you get to put a little bit of yourself (personality) in the conversation, you two will be pretty comfortable around each other (~2 weeks?). Ask her to lunch or dinner then. It's nothing weird to ask a friend to a meal! Or go to a school play (or any other activity) with a bunch of friends together (it won't seem awkward). By now, you should be able to tell if she's interested or not. Hopefully she will be =)
chill with her for a bit at lunch and get to know her a bit more, theres nothing better then a guy that can just talk about anything! just ask her about herself everyone loves to talk about themselves, and if you feel you don't know what to say just tell her that ur really shy and are unsure of what to say sometimes.
but get to know her then i think she will he comfortablewith giving you her number
good luck! =]
I used to be a pretty shy person, and I think the best way is to overcome that shyness and then you won't have to worry about what to do and say, it'll just come naturally. Shyness is just fear of something (whether it's what people will think or whether they will accept you or not). And what do you have to be afraid of anyways?
Write your number down on a piece of paper. Fold it up and the next time you see her, give it to her. Don't say anything. If she is interested, she will call. If she is not interested, you will know by the expression the next time you meet. Wait and see.
ok so you like this girl and she only says hi right?
The first thing to do is check out your confidence and what your saying to yourself about the whole scenario!
By this i mena the quality of your own thoughts will make you look nervouse and act nervous. So you will need to change the tone of your thoughts to fit someone whos confident!
1..think of something you do well at in any context..this maybe saying hi so someone you know, greeting someone who you dont know in shops the pub etc, or talking to your family. When you think of this, take a look at the way the THOUGHTS change your FEELINGS...and your feelings change the way you LOOK to others!! better right!!!
2. when you see her and you think ';oh my god oh my god'; just imagine shes someone you know well and usually have fun with and say ';hey hows it going, u alright?....then drop in, ';oh sorry i never asked you your name?';
3. ASK QUESTIONS...its soooo important and they love it!!! and also dont be frightened by silences after questions it usuallly prompts them to start talking first and the battle of wits is won!!! just LISTEN at first and smile when you should!!
4 KEEP your TONE of voice light and fluid!...many people although talk about ';body language!'; the tone of your voice has a MASSIVE affect...fun light simple!
5. dont be afraid to blag a bit...say...';oops got to go...see you round'; make the first break, keep her guessing! she will remeber you!
6. BE NICE TO YIOURSELF!...afterwards say...';DUDE WELL DONE';
boost your confidence whenever you can by listening to funky music and feeling great about chatting! its ok!
7 DONT get cocky, be confident but not arrogant, listen have fun be kind!!
good luck matey, dont go too far though i have a baby on the way now hahaha!!
Advice needed girls n guys please help tnx!!?
Is she in any of your classes? Maybe get to your class early so you can wait for the prof together. No one likes awkward silence, so you'll probably start talking. You can start talking about school stuff, since that stuff is pretty neutral. Once you get talking and you get to put a little bit of yourself (personality) in the conversation, you two will be pretty comfortable around each other (~2 weeks?). Ask her to lunch or dinner then. It's nothing weird to ask a friend to a meal! Or go to a school play (or any other activity) with a bunch of friends together (it won't seem awkward). By now, you should be able to tell if she's interested or not. Hopefully she will be =)
chill with her for a bit at lunch and get to know her a bit more, theres nothing better then a guy that can just talk about anything! just ask her about herself everyone loves to talk about themselves, and if you feel you don't know what to say just tell her that ur really shy and are unsure of what to say sometimes.
but get to know her then i think she will he comfortablewith giving you her number
good luck! =]
I used to be a pretty shy person, and I think the best way is to overcome that shyness and then you won't have to worry about what to do and say, it'll just come naturally. Shyness is just fear of something (whether it's what people will think or whether they will accept you or not). And what do you have to be afraid of anyways?
Write your number down on a piece of paper. Fold it up and the next time you see her, give it to her. Don't say anything. If she is interested, she will call. If she is not interested, you will know by the expression the next time you meet. Wait and see.
I need advice on picking a guy!! I'm dating two guys right now.?
I am currently dating two guys. I've been dating one guys for like a month and a half and the other one for like three weeks. I really like both of them!! And both of them are reallllllllly cute and hot and sexy, omggg but i know i can't keep both of them, so can anyone give me advice on how to pick a guy?? They are both really great, and it'll just break my heart of I stop seeing either of them. And sometimes I feel so guilty I'd think it'd be more fair if I stop seeing both of them, but then that way, no one ends up happy. ahhhhhhhhhI need advice on picking a guy!! I'm dating two guys right now.?
just continue dating both and rating them both in the sack!!!I need advice on picking a guy!! I'm dating two guys right now.?
lol how can we help u choose a guy when we dnt no anything about either one of them except that they look good??
i would have them both double team ya...skin care cosmetics
just continue dating both and rating them both in the sack!!!I need advice on picking a guy!! I'm dating two guys right now.?
lol how can we help u choose a guy when we dnt no anything about either one of them except that they look good??
i would have them both double team ya...
Guys help i need your advice (girls can answer too)?
I have recently been in four relationships and in every one it ended because the guy wasn't faithful and was cheating usually with more than one girl and in one case we had been together for three months and then near the end of that last month he introduced me to his 2 year old son i was madd as heck was i wrong to end it because of that? and what can i do to attract kind sweet but still strong, sporty, guys that are faithful does it have something to do with how i dress, act, talk ( just if this helps i dont wear really short clothing or slutish clothing) Im fun outgoing love to be active, sacastic, sweet, smart, independent, romantic and strong person) but i just seem to end up in a hole. So guys any help and girls can answer as wellGuys help i need your advice (girls can answer too)?
go after the shy guys because we won't cheat or anything because we are too shy to ask u girls out. Us shy guys also know how to appreciate girls and we wouldn't dare cheat on such a nice girl as u.Guys help i need your advice (girls can answer too)?
Unfortunatly, there really is no clear answer to your question. Every guy is going to have his quirks, as well as his dilemas. You are better off finding what closest resembels what you are trying to obtain, and keep in mind that maybe that guy might not think you so perfect either.
Stop getting with the ';bad'; guys. If they've got a reputation for such things, don't get involved in the first place. Don't be attracted solely by huge arms and a fancy car. There's a geek in your school that has the biggest heart in the world, waiting for you. Get to know people before you get involved, and please help make it so the nice guys don't always finish last.
As far as the guy with the kid, he might have just been waiting to see where your relationship is going or to get comfortable with you b4 he told you. If I were you, I'd try to get to know the guys as friends,too. that always helps cuz then you know which ones not to date and how they really act.
you just have to stop goin after the Aholes who are probably more fun to be with. its tough but try and look for a more quiet intellectual guy
most fun guys are like that and can ruin alot of time for u
You did the right thing in ending that relationship. Just keep trying and someday you will meet someone.
What people say they want in a partner and what they really want are usually two different things. Your probably being too shallow and hooking up with guys that would impress your friends as arm candy instead of finding the right ones to go be with. Maybe you like the drama. Your probably hot looking, and thats part of your problem, in that you don't have to work at finding someone who truly wants to be with you.
go after the shy guys because we won't cheat or anything because we are too shy to ask u girls out. Us shy guys also know how to appreciate girls and we wouldn't dare cheat on such a nice girl as u.Guys help i need your advice (girls can answer too)?
Unfortunatly, there really is no clear answer to your question. Every guy is going to have his quirks, as well as his dilemas. You are better off finding what closest resembels what you are trying to obtain, and keep in mind that maybe that guy might not think you so perfect either.
Stop getting with the ';bad'; guys. If they've got a reputation for such things, don't get involved in the first place. Don't be attracted solely by huge arms and a fancy car. There's a geek in your school that has the biggest heart in the world, waiting for you. Get to know people before you get involved, and please help make it so the nice guys don't always finish last.
As far as the guy with the kid, he might have just been waiting to see where your relationship is going or to get comfortable with you b4 he told you. If I were you, I'd try to get to know the guys as friends,too. that always helps cuz then you know which ones not to date and how they really act.
you just have to stop goin after the Aholes who are probably more fun to be with. its tough but try and look for a more quiet intellectual guy
most fun guys are like that and can ruin alot of time for u
You did the right thing in ending that relationship. Just keep trying and someday you will meet someone.
What people say they want in a partner and what they really want are usually two different things. Your probably being too shallow and hooking up with guys that would impress your friends as arm candy instead of finding the right ones to go be with. Maybe you like the drama. Your probably hot looking, and thats part of your problem, in that you don't have to work at finding someone who truly wants to be with you.
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