Monday, August 23, 2010

Advice from girls pease... guys too?

Right now im in middle school and theres a girl who i really like shes got an amazing personality Shes really smart pretty and shes a singer but shes not one of those overly popular girls and she thinks of me as a aquiantance.





While im not the most popular person i hang out with some medium popular groups. alot of people think im nice, ive become a pretty good mediator and i try to help people and i've stuck up for her before.








she's the only girl who's ever meant something to me and i really care about her








We have done group projects together and we've talked quite a bit. we get along


I really need help from any one whos been in my situation and gotten through it. thanksAdvice from girls pease... guys too?
i thinkk u should sayy this:





pretend ehr name's kate bc idk





';Kate, we're rl good friends right? Well, i need some advice from you. If u like someone and they have no idea u like them, what should u do?';





kate--- ';You should tell them';





you--- ';Kate, the thing is: i like y-o-u';





idk, she'll think it sweet. and it's how it is in the movies---romantic





------------ or u could just kiss her one day--but dont like harrass herAdvice from girls pease... guys too?
Ok for one, stop seeing popularity in groups. If u group urself u r less likely to meet new people. The more people u associate with the more girls ull meet. Whenever u get alone time or even with a few friends direct ur attention to her and start talking. Bring up whatever is currently going on or anything to help break the ice.
aww you sound really sweet...umm ok well im in middle school too (13 years) %26amp; well, personally, when a guy likes me, i would LOVE for them to just tell me! i know that is probably very hard for you though. %26amp; if she doesnt like you, oh well :) but seriously, tell her how you feel :D


hope it all works out...good luck!
My advice is to tell her how you feel. The more you keep your feelings bottled up the less chance there is that she will reciprocate because she will feel as if you guys are ';too good of friends. If she doesn't feel the same way about you move on but at least you took a chance and she knows how you feel about her, maybe she'll come around, maybe she won't, but you have to take chances in life.
I don't think I've ever ';gotten through'; your situation. But coming from someone who was all messed up by the popularity game (I didn't know where I belonged in that pyramid) in school, don't think about it in terms of popularity. Because in the long run, popularity doesn't matter; however, I understand where you are coming from, and I think that you should tell her how you feel.
I was in that exact same situation in middle school,


i even asked her out and she said she wasn't ready for another relationship, we stayed friends through high school and we're still really good friends.





I found someone else and moved on


it was the best thing I ever did





ask her out and if she says no, don't be heart broke


you'll move on and find someone else





trust me
tell her how you feel and if she does not get it move on (been there )
Well take her out to lunch and talk to her alot become good friends. If you guys connect ask her out. When she cries give her a shoulder to cry on. When she tells you a secret give her a place to keep it in. When she is happy enjoy the good times with her. Simple. While at your date (lunch) tell her how you feel about her when you walk her home or something. Tell her why you like her not because she is popular and stuff like because she bes herself, funny, smart and beautiful. Tell her because you like her for her personalities and who she is on the inside it should work :)!

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