I've always related to girls better which is great don't get me wrong. However I really appreciate the bonding/companionship of another guy. I'm pretty happy go lucky, just your average lookin guy, and am optimistic. Are their any other guys out there that feel the same way and are in the same predicament? If you're between the ages of 21-35 IM me to share your experiences.As a straight guy, I have a hard time makin friends with guys? Can anyone give me some advice or pointers?
I'm sure there are guys like you.
I think if you wanna find some guys friends get into things you like... it could be basketball, cars, football... ya know stuff like that. I think its better to make friends in a place that you enjoy instead of going out of your way and going places that you dont care for and you're out looking for someone to make a friend out of. Maybe go out with one of those girl friends and if they have guy friends be you, and be friendly and make an effort.As a straight guy, I have a hard time makin friends with guys? Can anyone give me some advice or pointers?
I know at least two men I am not romantically involved with who get along better with other women than have many men friends. That's ok , its not widely publicized but its still ok, just be happy with who you are. I have found that women who prefer men friends are nicer to me than women who hang out with other women. So you will likely have guy friends who have more women friends than guy friends. Don't be so concerned
What do you mean by straight is it straight forward person?
If you are then you know what your problem then if you are sincere enough, you should try to be more tactful when you speak. Somtimes its good to say some white lies.
Be outgoing, join groups and you'll meet people.
Try joining a fraternity
Well I'm not a guy between though's ages but My ex had this issue well he didn't relate to girls but never had guy friends to do guy things with. You have to look at what hobbies or things you like to do in life, that would be a start so then you know what type of friend you want in your life, weather it be you like to drink or you don't drink, the way you dress, it all comes down to what you have in common and it goes from there.
you're probably just more feminine acting than most guys are used to. Maybe you act more like a girl (I'm not being rude!!) and guys don't know how to relate to you.
Go to a sports bar or something. Guys can always talk about balling. Or try some of those football fantasy games that you can play online with people from all around the world.
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