Sunday, August 22, 2010

Advice needed girls n guys please help tnx!!?

hey, theres this girl i like a uni.we only started a few weeks ago so i dont know her too well as i am shy and have only really spoken to her once!.other than that we just say hi whenever we pass by eachother!.please advise me on how i could approach her and ask for her number,or ask her out or drop a hint to her that i like her??..Advice needed girls n guys please help tnx!!?
ok so you like this girl and she only says hi right?





The first thing to do is check out your confidence and what your saying to yourself about the whole scenario!


By this i mena the quality of your own thoughts will make you look nervouse and act nervous. So you will need to change the tone of your thoughts to fit someone whos confident!





1..think of something you do well at in any context..this maybe saying hi so someone you know, greeting someone who you dont know in shops the pub etc, or talking to your family. When you think of this, take a look at the way the THOUGHTS change your FEELINGS...and your feelings change the way you LOOK to others!! better right!!!





2. when you see her and you think ';oh my god oh my god'; just imagine shes someone you know well and usually have fun with and say ';hey hows it going, u alright?....then drop in, ';oh sorry i never asked you your name?';





3. ASK QUESTIONS...its soooo important and they love it!!! and also dont be frightened by silences after questions it usuallly prompts them to start talking first and the battle of wits is won!!! just LISTEN at first and smile when you should!!





4 KEEP your TONE of voice light and fluid!...many people although talk about ';body language!'; the tone of your voice has a MASSIVE affect...fun light simple!





5. dont be afraid to blag a bit...say...';oops got to go...see you round'; make the first break, keep her guessing! she will remeber you!





6. BE NICE TO YIOURSELF!...afterwards say...';DUDE WELL DONE';


boost your confidence whenever you can by listening to funky music and feeling great about chatting! its ok!





7 DONT get cocky, be confident but not arrogant, listen have fun be kind!!











good luck matey, dont go too far though i have a baby on the way now hahaha!!











Advice needed girls n guys please help tnx!!?
Is she in any of your classes? Maybe get to your class early so you can wait for the prof together. No one likes awkward silence, so you'll probably start talking. You can start talking about school stuff, since that stuff is pretty neutral. Once you get talking and you get to put a little bit of yourself (personality) in the conversation, you two will be pretty comfortable around each other (~2 weeks?). Ask her to lunch or dinner then. It's nothing weird to ask a friend to a meal! Or go to a school play (or any other activity) with a bunch of friends together (it won't seem awkward). By now, you should be able to tell if she's interested or not. Hopefully she will be =)
chill with her for a bit at lunch and get to know her a bit more, theres nothing better then a guy that can just talk about anything! just ask her about herself everyone loves to talk about themselves, and if you feel you don't know what to say just tell her that ur really shy and are unsure of what to say sometimes.


but get to know her then i think she will he comfortablewith giving you her number


good luck! =]
I used to be a pretty shy person, and I think the best way is to overcome that shyness and then you won't have to worry about what to do and say, it'll just come naturally. Shyness is just fear of something (whether it's what people will think or whether they will accept you or not). And what do you have to be afraid of anyways?
Write your number down on a piece of paper. Fold it up and the next time you see her, give it to her. Don't say anything. If she is interested, she will call. If she is not interested, you will know by the expression the next time you meet. Wait and see.

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