Monday, August 23, 2010

Ladies give me some advice on how the good guys can finish first?

look i can only put this in som many words i like this girl who like bad guys she look at me as a brother and all but i look at her like a girl i would like to go out with


she got a boy friend now thats a bad boy and i dont want tosee her get hurt i just like her to much and im sick of hearing how the good guy has to wait because frankly its b/s


I dont want to wait for a girl i like to be so she can see the good guy i want her now so i can protect her frome all that


i just wish she could see me for dating material


please give me some advice i realy need itLadies give me some advice on how the good guys can finish first?
Step out on faith, and just ask the girl out and come at her with all your cards out there on the table, and say I like you I want to show you how you should be treated and what I can offer you and if you come at her real sincere like that she'll respond or she's just an idiot and you dont need her in the first place!!! keep your head up there good women out there...Ladies give me some advice on how the good guys can finish first?
Sorry to say be your are going have to wait if you really want this girl. She has to get tired of being treat like crap. However, some women never grow out of this. They like the abuse or they think they change a ';bad boy';. If this is the case with this girl then all you can do is be a friend to her. And you will have to move on to a woman who can appreciate the fact that you would treat them like a princess.
its too bad this girl doesnt realize what a good guy you are. some girls like the bad boys, theyre fun and exciting. i used to be one of those girls, till i grew up and changed my priorities and standards. i got tired of being treated like crap by the bad boy. it may not meant to be for you two right now.
My best advice to you is to just be there for her when she gets hurt, and I'm sure she will. Hopefully at that point she will see you in a different light. I wouldn't make a move while she is dating someone else because that would include you in the ';bad'; boy category showing no respect.
The jerk have all the moves down. Girls see this and they think they are being swept off their feet, but in reality they are just being swept of their senses. You have to be the nice guy you are now, but you got to learn the moves of the jerk. It is hard to do and will take time but look at how the jerks treat the girls, not the ignore her for beer part, Pay attention to the charming, confident part, thats what the jerks have that the nice guys don't
I can answer this with just one word~~ Jealous
they cant
For some reason a lot of us tend to gravitate to the ';bad boys';. I found out that when I went through that period in my life it was really because I didn't feel good enough about myself and that made me think that any decent man wouldn't want anything to do with me. We tend to reach out to men who will not reject us, and usually with bb's they don't reject; they don't have enough care in them to reject women, they just simply use them until they've used them up. As for your friend; continue to support her. Love her-but since she sees u only as a friend, I would suggest that you love her from afar. No matter how much u try to show her his bad points she will see it as jealousy, and that can possibly put a gap into your relationship with her. The worst mistakes make for the best lessons in life....Let her go through what she needs to, u just simply b there for her when she needs u (and believe me she will need u). Maybe one day her seeing u being there and not judging her might convince her that you're the right one for her.
Unfortunately, girls won't see you for the great catch you are until after they've been kicked around by a few jerks. Check back with her around her 35th birthday. In the meantime, walk away. Desperation is not even remotely sexy, and it won't make you feel any better anyway.
If she is really your friend- Dont give her advice. She will gravitate toward the bad guy. Just be there as her friend and if you have the chance let her know you like her more than as a friend. Never know what can happen. Just be there as her friend afterward no matter if she ever sees you as dating material.
jealous
STAY AWAY! LET HER DEAL WITH HER OWN MISTAKE ,AND AS A MAN YOU DON`T TRY TO STEAL SOMEONE ELSE WOMAN WHILE CRYING ON HER SHOULDER;UNTIL SHE IS FREE ON HER OWN YOU DON`T ACT.YOU WOULDN`T LIKE FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO STEAL YOURS.THE SOONER YOU STAY AWAY THE LESS PAIN FULL THE HEARTACHE;YOU ARE TOO ATTACHED TO HER,SAVE YOURSELF AND FOCUS ON SOMEONE THAT IS FREE WITH NO BAGGAGE.IF YOU KEEP AT IT ,YOU WILL LOOSE HER RESPECT AND WILL FEEL THAT YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT FOR HER.
The meek shall inherit the earth - The Bible.





Just be around her when she needs someone. Sooner or later, this bad guy will show her why he is the bad guy and thats where you will step in. But its true that goods guys finish last. Hang in there man.
dude ur too... sweet try to toughen out and stop treating her like a sister. if u rly do like her they way u say so ask her out
i have no clue of what you are talking about becouse i want to rub you up an down

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