Advice Needed, Please Help! (GUYS WANTED)?

I have been with my boyfriend ';Joe'; for 7 months. The start of our relationship was great. Joe would buy me gifts, lavish me with attention, and treat me as if he truly loved me. As our relationship began to progress, Joe started distancing himself and going out of his way to upset me. In public, Joe would comment on other girls and would stop and stare at an exposed butt crack etc and he would be sure to make it noticeable that he was doing it just to upset me. Everytime I confronted Joe he would blow it off and tell me that it is no big deal. Joe still continues to do this off and on but now just recently much bigger issues have arose. Joe was very accustomed to porn and strip clubs when we met. I got so fed up with his porn that I have him an ultimatum, the porn or me. Until just recently he had stopped looking at porn cold turkey but now I am finding porn everyday. He also comes to bed and jerks off. Joe says he loves be but gives me no attention. Please tell me what's wrong!?Advice Needed, Please Help! (GUYS WANTED)?
Sounds to me like Joe may need some professional help. He might be scared of commitment, or trying to test you in some way or just be a very strange guy. How soon were you going out before he said that he loved you ? If it was really soon, that can be seen as a sign of immaturity. There is nothing wrong with strip clubs, unless he takes it too seriously then it can be a problem, again i might suggest professional help. Now coming to bed and then jerking off, that's an entirely different matter.....that's actually a little bit sick, especially if he does not ';include'; you in the act. Once again, professional help.Advice Needed, Please Help! (GUYS WANTED)?
He sounds very immature. I am guessing you guys are under 20? I think you have given him enough chances. There are plenty of guys out there who know how to treat a girl with respect and dignity. If you want to stay in the relationship you both will need to communicate your problems to each other and see if you can come to an agreement but if he not willing to talk about it. It will be time to move on!
well not a guy..i would say kick him you know where ;))
He wanted to sleep with u and he did...now he is no more interested in you and wants to get rid of u ..thats y he does cheap things and makes it obvious...


Get a life..Move on..u r just 20...there will be many to follow u...!
he's an asshole dump him as fast as you can
porn builds a wall .......if hes into porn that much.......


and disregards yr requests .......you may have to move on....


unless he is willing to get help for it.....
Im not saying its your fault, but maybe you did something that he cant shake, and thats why hes acting this way. Or he may be confused with what he really wants. He might think he wants out but he is compfortable with you and does care for you, but it may not be enough.
First of all you did nothing wrong. He likes to look at porn because he wants to see other women. If you want to keep him the first thing you need to do is drop him as fast as you can. Don't call him, don't accept his calls, avoid him at all costs. Do this for exactly two weeks. He will be kissing your *** during this time. Because men are insecure. Now when you do get back together don't sleep with him for 3 nights. During that time you don't sleep with him, that's when you lay down the rules about the porn and the jerking of in front of you. Because don't forget your the one who's in charge not him. You have what he wants, so control it. If you want the best advice get rid of the guy. And find someone with some morals. good luck
i know it is a hard thing to face and dont get me wrong i have nothing againt porn but the fact is joe is a pervert any guy that goes to bed and jerks of infront of his old lady has some issues skid the prick his a looser
Joe is what's wrong. Joe's an asshole. Leave him. It's as simple as that.
Actions speak louder than words. It's quite plain to me to see that he is trying to establish himself as the one who wears the pants in the relationship. That and he seems bored with his sex life with you, which is why he is looking at porn and jerking off rather than getting that attention from you. Thats not to say you have done anything wrong personally. Some guys are like that. They get bored easily with whatever, and they drift around. I don't think there is much you can do on your end to change that. I think you just have to accept the fact that he is probably not happy, and it sounds like if it continues he will probably leave you anyhow. So the last thing you need is to get pregnant by this man as he probably won't stick around, so whatever you do, make sure that doesn't happen.