Advice: Falling for these guys?

It's currently 2:58 am, I'm on my cousins dsi typing out this question for you yahoo answers community out there and I'm hoping to get helpful advice when I next check this.





Alright so, I'm 14.. and well I'm really kinda going through that stage of 'puppy love'.





This question goes out to all you guys and girls from ages 14-16, or for those who can remember how they felt back then.





Q: Have you ever gotten that pretty-cute feeling in your stomach that said 'it's him, he's the one.. try to give it a chance'





And the only thing that was on your mind was him.





HIS, name, voice, look, style, actions.





You'd find constant reminders of him everywhere, whether it be his sports number or what he wore, a nickname even.





But then when you least expect it, you get this golden opportunity to risk it all, to actually get close to him.. get to know him, get to hear his voice, get to see his face, get to get him to notice you.





But then you just fail..


You feel different as if, you've shrunken and gave up on the chance to be with.





Or perhaps a friendly smile was all that it took.





Or was it all about image, and playing his role of the group and hiding his true colours.





Why are guys so damn confussing.





I just don't understand.. why am I putting myself in this position? Why do I like him?Advice: Falling for these guys?
ouu lala, i was wondering when i'd get a scandalous question round here these days, angelica ;)





annnyyywaaaysss,





You're going to get these feelings for the rest of your life, or maybe until you're older. It's called attraction, doodee ;]. You're going to get that feeling that everytime they look at you, their eyes will seem to glow like a full moon in the black night sky.... everyone vanishes but the two of you... your stomach is going to knot, your skin will tingle...





That infatuation that you speak of is all part of it. You're naturally going to be lured to them with an irresistible force.





This is all natural.





Including failing.





Honestly, everyone fails. I mean EVERYONE. Maybe some more often than others, but we all do once in a while. And failing is going to bring on those 'second-guess' feelings, like 'oohh, i shouldn't have said that, or i should've waved and said hi'...





NATURAL.





And don't feel as if you're purposely putting yourself in this position. You're not making yourself like him. This is something out of your control.





Attraction is basically just that; a raging emotion that spirals out of our control.





Gooodd luccck and happy suummeerr ! :)%26lt;3Advice: Falling for these guys?
Oh trust me AM.. your not the only one going through that.


Haha. Its like the guy's smile voice and eyes are just its own drug..





*sigh*


I wish I also knew why guys were so confusing...


But hey.. we can talk about this stuff on our bikeride, right? :)
YOU CANT HELP WHO YIU LIKE HUNNY JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART
well, it would be easier to help if i knew who the guy was ;) but i'll give it a shot.


it sounds like you really like him, whoever he is. it's always awkward getting these feelings, when you do don't know how to feel about them. you feel me? :P


it sounds like you've given this whole situation a lot of thought, so that's a good sign.


you can't help who you like. it's just a feeling. the reason will present itself eventually. maybe you have common interests. maybe he makes you laugh. maybe you just know that you two should be together. w/e.


my advice is to see who he's interested in, if anybody. try to get closer to him. you never know what you might find out.


hope this helps :)





and also, guys aren't confusing :P we're blunt, straightforward, and the first to act...or we're completely shy. not that difficult :P