Guys, I need a serious advice!?

I have a boyfriend. We went out three times, but we're together for almost a month. Two days ago he made dinner for me and my friends an now he has invited me to come alone to his place to make me ''lunch'' or something. I like him sooo much, but I don't know when is the right time to become intimate with him. I know he wants that, but I don't want him to think that I'm that easy. I'm not one of those girls who sleeps with a guy on a first date, I need more time. What would you think,or do,if that happens to you?!Guys,would you appreciate a girl less if she sleeps with you on a fourth date?!Guys, I need a serious advice!?
Hon, never be pressurized by a man to have sex.





Sex is a very intimate level of a relationship and it should be done after thought and consideration.





1.You arent ready to do it if you arent aware of the possible consquences.


2.You dont need to do it, if you think it will make your partner love you more.


3.A guy who appreciates a girl less for not letting herself get humped by him on the first or fourth date is an a s s hole.You ought to be careful of these types.





If you dont want him to think you're that easy, then make it clear to him,A vital part of any relationship is to communicate and you havent been doing this.





He is a man,girl, he may believe you're ready and not know any better.Women cant read eachothers minds, you expect men to be able to do so?





About the little i can judge from his character, he seems like a nice guy.Someone who's considered your feelings, your comfort, and he does indeed care about you.Him making dinner for you, inviting you over for a lunch.He takes time out for you, and thats a definate plus point.


All men crave intimacy dear, women do to, we just dont admit to it.The thing is, if you want to make things clear with him, sit down and have a talk with him.Tell him exactly how you feel about him.


whether you're in love, or still in the like\adore stage, whatever.Thank him, he seems like a great guy, but be firm and tell him how you feel about intimacy or he'll just assume everythings fine, while you're asking for serious advice here on yahoo answers!





Good luck girl, you must be honest and calm.


If he cannot understand your needs and has intimacy issues that he wasnts satisfied soon when you arent ready, then i suggest you find someone who's more understanding.


Though i doubt your boyfriend wont understand,as long as you tell him in a very calm way, dont be manipulative.





GOOD LUCK


RAVEGuys, I need a serious advice!?
Take your time and do what is right for you, but I wouldn't wait More than 4 or 5 dates for a girl.
You have to do what you are comfortable with! If he's a nice guy, he'll understand if you aren't ready! If he doesn't understand, then move on!
You must take your time and do it when you feel ready. If he is the great guy that he claims to be, then it won't be a problem for him to wait. That can pose as a test from you to him. If he can wait for any amount of time, you know he is real. Oh, don't tell him your testing him though. ;)
too quick :D at least 6 months to know his true feelings
baby girl, he sounds like a great guy. take is slow. take him out or cook for him the next time around. get to know him better before you give it up. do something different (other than eat). go out on a date.
Just be honest and upfront with him and tell him that your not ready, if he cannot respect that then you have no business with him anyway.


-NmD!
if I was really into her I would wait up until a month if I slept with her right away I mean sometimes you don't know what to think as a guy is she desperate? or does she really like me? or is she just a s.l.u.t.? you have to do what is right for you if you feel it is the right time then go for it, for a guy any time is the right time, and make sure you use a fun bag
Yea.. sounds like he is getting hungry... and I don't mean for lunch.. so you are reading him very well...





I guess you have been down this road before so you don't want to just land on your back and loose him....





I would go too lunch with him and just.. go along... see how it goes and if it get too much... just tell him.. not yet... and leave it at that.





Handling straight forward I think would be better... and see how the relationship goes...





appreciate girl if I slept with her on the fourth date? That is kind of a loaded question cause he could be into you for just the sex and it wouldn't matter if it was your first date or your 100th... a lay is a lay if that is all he is after...
well if i was that guy and u weren't ready yet then i would be understanding and i would like u even more for respecting yourself, but if he gets mad at u then he's not the one for u
hoping that you are over 18, wait until u feel ready.





1 month is still a sort time. dont rush





wait until u feel comfortable and can talk about it before u do it. contraception etc.





preferable wait until u are in love aswell





if he pushes u into it in anyway, leave him.
I would have a lot more respect for her if she made me wait. That shows she has more respect for herself. I have only had one girl that made me wait more than one week for sex, and I married her. We were together for 3 months before we had sex. I'm not saying wait forever, but no, don't be so ';easy';, especially if you really like this guy.
just do what feels right, and take his lead; but only if you want too
No, I'd always appreciate her and her company... Sex isn't the most important thing with the one you love, even though it feels good... If you want to have sex with him, then just ask him how he feels... if he doesn't want to, then he's not ready and don't push it... but if he does, then you're all set...





As for what i'd do, I'd be really happy... I love this one girl, and if we never had sex, i'd be fine with it... I really love her, so sex is trivial...

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